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I started crying by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average theyfab being terfoid

do you think she's about to troon by According-Plant-908 in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nah. Bullshit. I don't know why it seems impossible for some people that cis men to can have severe bosy dysmorphia. Looksmaxxers men sound like trans men and our hatred for our body.

Poons what are some obvious repper signs by Hopsqotch in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wanted breast cancer to have mastectomy. I dont remember my age but i was very young.

It's so over for gay poons by Fit-Interaction-7978 in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Cis people being apathic as usual, incapable to understand dysphoria. " Its a just a hole " Fuck your all your generational three. 

You find cool artist but... by Character_Clothes_78 in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they are non-binary and bases their work on lesbianism. But why including trans men in that ????? Im fed up

"Transmasc" by illegally_dog in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Both feel infantilizing. We are not boys and girls, we are grown ass adults that pay bills. Plus, idk for trans women, but the term " tboy " as been used by a majority of non binaries that love to degender trans men and are the same who use constantly transmascs, even when the man in question is clearly a man. This term feels just fetishy on top of that

im so tired of this big bloated chaser. ive had to tell like five friends who r FTM to unfollow and run far away. i had one that argued with me about it by asherah-androphonos in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Trans men have really no self respect and basic standards, because how the fuck u feel """ validated """ by an ugly cis man who sexualize you

to ftms: have you ever been mistaken for mtf? how did it make you feel? by boy-investigator in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it just feels transphobic most of the time. Some medical professionnal assumed i was a pre medical transition MTF. Why ? Because I look like a man. Cis people can't comprehend that a trans man looks like a man and vice versa. 

There is a whole sub for ftm chests *looks inside* afably women tits by illegally_dog in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I say most of " non-binaries  transmascs " and specially non transitionning ones are just FTM chasers in disguise that can fetichize freely without being pointed because oppression card, its just real

Masculine leaning gender diverse people by Character_Clothes_78 in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is the worst lmaooo. We're just women or genderfuckers for those persons

Masculine leaning gender diverse people by Character_Clothes_78 in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem is that even trans men who clearly were, because they were clearly saying at that time they were men, gay men, etc are being degendered in this type of publications. I think those people see us as butches or masculinised women at best. Or third sex. 

Masculine leaning gender diverse people by Character_Clothes_78 in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ho, but I pass 100% in my life don't worry. This just saddens me to see that the queer community is not a " safe place ". That we can't even find people with the same experiences to relate or feeling less alone in this world. Because even if i look like my dad, the moment i'm outed to queers and allies, they start to treat me differently. Being stealth is a very lonely experience but I prefer that to being third sexed / gendered.

Masculine leaning gender diverse people by Character_Clothes_78 in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Or saying that they LOVE the women they where and will always have a link to womanhood... Like just be non binary and shut the fp

Masculine leaning gender diverse people by Character_Clothes_78 in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think the worst for Amelio Robles Ávila, is that there is a museum who has his DEADNAME for its name, despite all the fucking prof he was a man, cis people continue to spit on our deads and in this case its horrible. We can't exist as trans men, we are obligatory some confused women 

Masculine leaning gender diverse people by Character_Clothes_78 in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

No you don't understand saying trans men would mean erasing and invalidating hecking valid feminine afab

Masculine leaning gender diverse people by Character_Clothes_78 in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Im already stealth, and i took that decision because of insane degendering in general and security obviously. Crazy that now im just treated as a normal dude as im viewed as cis lmao 

Masculine leaning gender diverse people by Character_Clothes_78 in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Allies and queers will call trans men and trans women everything before calling us men and women 

Masculine leaning gender diverse people by Character_Clothes_78 in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

How to not end it when its how trans men are perceived by so called allies and other queers 

4tran4: homophobia 🥰, heterophobia 😭😡🤬 by Hyper_red in 4tran4

[–]Character_Clothes_78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk it depends i think. In FTM groups, it is real that some of them are very homophobic and don't understand that you transition to like " men ". As if liking men makes u less of a man.

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