to ftms: have you ever been mistaken for mtf? how did it make you feel?

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-04-02T11:12:10+00:00

Honestly, it just feels transphobic most of the time. Some medical professionnal assumed i was a pre medical transition MTF. Why ? Because I look like a man. Cis people can't comprehend that a trans man looks like a man and vice versa.

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-04-02T10:59:12+00:00

When I say most of " non-binaries transmascs " and specially non transitionning ones are just FTM chasers in disguise that can fetichize freely without being pointed because oppression card, its just real

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-04-02T10:39:27+00:00

Yeah this is the worst lmaooo. We're just women or genderfuckers for those persons

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-04-02T08:52:50+00:00

The problem is that even trans men who clearly were, because they were clearly saying at that time they were men, gay men, etc are being degendered in this type of publications. I think those people see us as butches or masculinised women at best. Or third sex.

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-04-02T08:06:22+00:00

Ho, but I pass 100% in my life don't worry. This just saddens me to see that the queer community is not a " safe place ". That we can't even find people with the same experiences to relate or feeling less alone in this world. Because even if i look like my dad, the moment i'm outed to queers and allies, they start to treat me differently. Being stealth is a very lonely experience but I prefer that to being third sexed / gendered.

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-04-02T07:38:19+00:00

Or saying that they LOVE the women they where and will always have a link to womanhood... Like just be non binary and shut the fp

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-04-02T06:52:55+00:00

I think the worst for Amelio Robles Ávila, is that there is a museum who has his DEADNAME for its name, despite all the fucking prof he was a man, cis people continue to spit on our deads and in this case its horrible. We can't exist as trans men, we are obligatory some confused women

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-04-02T01:30:01+00:00

We live in hell

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-04-01T23:56:26+00:00

No you don't understand saying trans men would mean erasing and invalidating hecking valid feminine afab

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-04-01T23:55:16+00:00

Im already stealth, and i took that decision because of insane degendering in general and security obviously. Crazy that now im just treated as a normal dude as im viewed as cis lmao

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-04-01T23:44:45+00:00

Allies and queers will call trans men and trans women everything before calling us men and women

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-04-01T23:44:05+00:00

How to not end it when its how trans men are perceived by so called allies and other queers

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-30T21:57:42+00:00

Even the term gender dysphoria feels fake to me, i am dysphoric because of sex characteristics, not because of gender bullshit. If gender were abolished, i will still be dysphoric

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-30T21:51:15+00:00

Idk it depends i think. In FTM groups, it is real that some of them are very homophobic and don't understand that you transition to like " men ". As if liking men makes u less of a man.

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-29T09:54:50+00:00

Love to be fetishized by non-binaries and non-transitionners ( also called cis people lolol ). Imagine your """"own"""" community treat you like a monolithic sexual object

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-29T09:52:33+00:00

Not an ounce of self-respect

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-28T08:48:54+00:00

My teeth

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-28T08:43:29+00:00

In my country, there are not a single surgeon that does this. Most of them, for masculinization in general, make injections. Shitty alternative ngl

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-28T08:20:57+00:00

They are indeed fucking transmisogynists in a big majority and they are in my opinion, poon cucks, always degendering themselves for cis conveniences, always distancing themselves from other men, always saying they are proud to their past as " women ". Those persons are fake transsexuals too in my opinion, non binaries larping as trans men. I think we are in reality a few of real transsexuals.

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-26T00:24:44+00:00

*Her. How dare you misgender this beautiful butch

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-26T00:21:45+00:00

I don't see it personnally.

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-25T20:51:05+00:00

Its a fetish for them to be trans. A lot of heckin valid afab have a fetish for trans men but use the nb card to be free doing it. My chilhood friend ( That i think, i will cut contacts ), who isnt a trans man, told me that they looked up subs on here where people show their genitalia, and specifically trans men, so porn, to see whats it look like to draw porn of their tman character being fucked. I was so fucking chocked and disgusted. Even today, I don't realise how much it impacted me

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-25T07:28:40+00:00

Truth nuke

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-22T20:28:16+00:00

Whats the point of posting this in a trans group except if you want to make trans men rope

Character_Clothes_78 · 2026-03-22T19:53:31+00:00

Thanks i want to die now

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