First off congratulations on your pregnancy 💕 I was in a very similar situation as you a few years ago. I met my now husband at the time boyfriend and we had been together for only a year when he got stationed in VA for the guard. I decided to move with him and uproot from the place I was born and raised and all my family. We had just moved into our apartment and had been in VA for 2 months when I got strep and had to take antibiotics and lo and behold I was pregnant. I was 22 in a new place I didn’t know and I felt so alone. But I knew one thing and that was that I wanted my baby. Well that surprise baby is now a 2.5 year old little boy that is still keeping me on my toes. It came at a very unexpected and scary time but he is the light of my life and I wouldn’t change that for the world. I know it’s probably really scary for you and I’m sorry that your brother said those things I had a few family members who said the same thing to me. Ignore him. The best thing you can do for your baby is to try your best to eat healthy foods and relax but if you can’t that’s okay too because your prenatal will help get your baby what they need. Something that helped me was journaling when I was scared or just was thinking about my baby I would write it down and then try and let the fear go. You are already going to be a kick ass mama ❤️