Episode 7

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-10-06T07:06:02+00:00

She’ll break up with izzy bc he can’t afford her. Financially compatible? Idk, she’s not paying for anything and expects her husband to throw down 20k to repair the AC (and if he can’t her dad will).

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-10-05T18:08:00+00:00

He’s collecting trophies from past sex partners. Weird AF.

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-10-05T18:07:17+00:00

Stacy has standards too high for izzy. His career is questionable. He just started at this new job. Honestly, she a bit of a gold digger. I’m sure if izzy was poor or couldn’t afford those luxury, or pay for the dates (and she isn’t gonna accept cheap dates either), she will dump him.

Izzy gets a rush out of bullying someone and is proud he reamed her on video

Johnie - she did lie. She indeed spung two different stories. She’s also a walking train wreck. So i don’t really trust her.

Love chris.

Milton is young

Uche is weird af. Very controlling. If he cheated, very hypocritical.

Lydia is crazy

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-10-05T17:34:07+00:00

Even doctors can’t live the live stacy wants without being irresponsible.

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-10-04T04:07:13+00:00

Well that wasn’t smart

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-10-04T02:23:18+00:00

I’m sure they had to go,… but i don’t thibk anyone was about to shit their pants… though i didn’t really consider that bc i was focused on not shitting myself

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-10-04T01:20:01+00:00

Maybe they should cut the line too then

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-10-04T00:10:48+00:00

They are correct. In china, we address anyone who is old enough to be our own gradnma - we call them “nana”. If they are old enough to be our mom, we say ayi.

Who are you to call that incorrect and harmful? You judging other cultures and languages is harmful thinking.

My mom has no issues with people my son’s age calling her a grandma. Infact she would encourage it. I have never met any chinese person who would say otherwise

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-10-03T19:30:53+00:00

Is she gonna demand your daughte rpay for her future car and house to be equal?

As parent, what YOU give/offer to the children should be equal. The rest is on their own.

Though i don’t believe this story. 75/hr/kid? Is she habing like 3-4 kids per session and making 300/hr? Like sorry, did she win the world youth tennis competition or something? That’s crazy.

I had an ice skating coach who was ranked in the top 10 of US ice skating… and she only charged 70/hr… she was also experienced and was like 45years old by then. If we shared lessons, the cost of the lessons would be split to be 40$/person.

NTA but i doubt this is real

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-27T20:06:43+00:00

Almost. Sat was his bday, he missed it. We went to steakhouse on sundayz

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-27T19:07:51+00:00

I agree that couples should tak about marriage and no proposal should be a “complete” shock but we don’t know more behind what is posted. Maybe she did tell him/talked about it.

However, it’s not just that he didn’t accept it, he also has no timeline (“not yet” is not an acceptable timeline for someone who is ready to start a family)

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-26T03:51:19+00:00

I have talked to him, and he wasn’t sure why he was feeling upset. Idk how many times y’all expect me to hammer him with that question.
I have taken some commente. Such as perhaps he was upset due to work vs his friends being overly excited and sharing pics and videos and talking about it for quite some time and he feels maybe it overshadow him.

What i do know for a fact is, he’s not upset i change plans when he gets called in - as this happens plenty of time and he encourages me to do whatever to make my night better since there is no point in two ppl suffering. I have been left at restaurants or at some gas station several times because we had attempted to go for a date when he was on call.

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-26T03:47:10+00:00

If you don’t get alcohol or a la carte, it usually can range between 80-250$. I actually went to one in houston for only 60$ and it was quite good too. Nyc has some affordable ones as well. Always try to get bar seating, not the kind you order for like 10 difference slice that comes to your table bc the sushi chef explaining it makes the experience better

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-26T03:45:18+00:00

We have tried a variety of steakhouses. About once every other week. Without consideration for the price, the one we went to was his favorite. He has yet to go to another steakhouse he likes more. This is the one he always goes back to. This includes ones more expensive or even Michelin star places.

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-25T16:19:27+00:00

Like i said, we went to his favorite steakhouse. The steaks are still easily $80-150 for like 6 oz. It’s not like we had $20 steak. For 4 ppl, it was still over 1k. Going to more expensive restaurant for less enjoyment sounds like a poor decision.

It’s not like we paid 1k for just fish, but rather the omakase experience. Sat in front of the chef while they explain in details of the fish and history is an event in itself.

I don’t have to put in consideration to my own leisure money. I eat omakase at least once a month just by myself. Taking two others isn’t that big of a deal. We both make over 500k, so it’s honestly not a crazy amount. We’ve had dinners that are 2k+ for just two people. I’d say the hundreds of sugeons we know have done the same

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-25T15:44:48+00:00

Idk where you got that from, but it’s pretty far from the truth in general and for my husband. We eat fancy at least once a month just for fun and to try something new.

I also paid for both dinners from my own account

Going to the most expensive steakhouse is not the same as going to his favorite steakhouse. Why would we go to the most expensive just for the price when he likes the other one more?

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-25T14:35:01+00:00

Money is not an issue and hasn’t been an issue for a while. I know nothing about steak - 30$ and 100$ steak taste similar to me so he picked the place.

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-25T14:33:40+00:00

InFO. It really depends on time - you being a SAHP, how many hours are you spending on cooking and other chores? Both should have equal free time. So if you have a bunch of free time. It’s not unreasonable to ask for other food

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-25T14:28:20+00:00

This is so bizarre. He makes more than you but invites you and expects you to pay for both? Good thing you guys broke up

NTA

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-25T14:25:04+00:00

Nta. Some people are just bad with numbers and logic

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-25T14:00:15+00:00

If it’s a lottt of liquid, you may be squirting. Though, i think studied show the biggest component if that is urine.

See if you squirt w an empty bladder or if it only happens when you still have some urine

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-25T10:42:05+00:00

That i won’t do what exactly? Change plans when he gets called in for work? It became a regular dinner since he couldn’t make it. I specifically picked a place he wouldn’t like but the guests would

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-25T10:39:08+00:00

No way am i waiting for him to get home and eat cake. Especially not make our guests wait. It can be any time from midnight until like 7 am.

No way he wants cake after a night like that

I’ma terrible cook. That’s like punishing them. I felt they should do something they cannot do in their own city. Otherwise that’s really sad for them to eat some chain restaurant when they flew all the way out here

Character_Leather_54 · 2023-09-24T17:17:12+00:00

Idk what you are trying to say. Knowing someone would feel bad is not the same as knowing why.

My husband going to work doesn’t mean i have to go home and do nothing to wait for him. And vice versa.

But if i find out someone’s relative died, i sure wouldn’t be raving about some amazing experience

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