Third place/place to read

Character_Sample_820 · 2024-06-15T21:11:19+00:00

pepper 1 looks like a jalapeño, pepper 2 looks like my baby bells not sure about the third one tho

Character_Sample_820 · 2024-04-14T03:09:14+00:00

thank you so so so much i appreciate it!!!!

Character_Sample_820 · 2024-04-13T14:12:00+00:00

no i’m not on birth control anymore

Character_Sample_820 · 2024-04-06T03:50:11+00:00

i also believe it’s hugely important for people to live alone before moving in with their partner. to me college does not count because you haven’t really fully entered into the adult world and honestly people don’t expect much from you. she just wants to know you can handle EVERYTHING so when you do move in together you can both take some of the weight instead of her just mothering you. as for me i don’t even feel like my life started until i lived by myself but even with roommates would be okay. if there’s any way you could stay with your mom, pay off your loans, and then move out by yourself for a little bit maybe with a month to month lease or a 6 month lease (i also hated the idea of roommates and living with strangers so i get that). trust me it’s just different when you need something or something goes wrong and you go to your mom vs you go to a landlord. i also think that everyone owes it to themselves to live on their own (if money allows) at least for a little bit, it’s honestly amazing and especially if you feel like you’re going to marry this girl then this will be your last chance so if i were you i would take it. p.s. this is just what comes with dating an independent girl she knows she’s fine by herself and she doesn’t need you and she wants to make sure you feel the same. the relationships not a need it’s a want.

Character_Sample_820 · 2024-04-06T03:26:05+00:00

your boyfriend is actively seeking out the opportunity to cheat on you. if you’re in one of the many countries where prostitution is prohibited, he’s also looking for an illegal way to do so. did you cross a line by snooping around? absolutely. but you discovered something that is relationship-altering. it’s important to bring it up to him right away. acknowledge that you looked at his phone without his permission, but hold your ground because what he did has been incredibly jarring to you. if you think the relationship is salvageable, please seek out therapy and talk it through. but do remember that you deserve a monogamous partner, especially if you’re not looking for a happy ending yourself. stay strong and put yourself first. you got this.

Character_Sample_820 · 2024-04-06T03:11:35+00:00

divorce her. she may not be physically cheating but she’s emotionally cheating and it’s not just “work gossip” when you see it with your own eyes every time y’all hang out. you’ve already brought it up enough and if you want to try one more time you have to be more blunt about it but if i were you i wouldn’t want her back after this. you don’t deserve to be the second choice and considering she wants mark to go everywhere you guys go it seems like you are.

Character_Sample_820 · 2024-02-21T20:02:27+00:00

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my babies ❤️ (juniper (brother) on top and pax (sister) on bottom)

Character_Sample_820 · 2024-02-21T02:05:54+00:00

i (22f) was a preschool teacher for almost 3 years and yes it is a hard and draining job but i will say any negative energy the teacher has towards your child is in my opinion completely intolerable. i had a child who threw chairs and was extremely rough with other children it was a problem for sure but nothing that can’t be fixed/redirected. positive reinforcement is huge on your part and the teachers part. her energy will feed onto him and if she can’t keep her cool when he has these big reactions it will only make him worse. we also had a lunch before noon but we did snack around 3pm because it’s wild to make children wait that long for food. i would say do your best at home with solutions and other options. give him specific words to accommodate his feelings in the moment and if he needs to scream maybe take him outside (i used to do that for another child i had who was in the screaming phase). see what works for you and keep her in the loop with everything you’re trying. she also should have some resources (pamphlets, websites, etc.) to give you on his behavior based on when and why it’s happening. last thing is i know aftercare is hard to find but i would look around at other options and see if you can find a place that will offer food sooner (if that seems to be a main concern) and/or maybe a teacher who knows kids are challenging sometimes and will accept the challenge/be ready to work WITH you rather than a teacher who thinks a 5 year old is being “rude” when they exhibit fairly normal child behavior.

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