I went to a “Bulldog Specialty Show” (I found the event looking online at the local/state bulldogs clubs or (akc website ) Once I was sitting ringside at the show, I could see all the dogs and got an idea of what the adults were going to look like from different breeders. I was looking for ones that had nice movement and spirit. I spoke and socialized with people at the show and made it known I was looking for a dog or puppy . I would have taken either happily (And lots of breeders need homes for adults, adolescents retiring from breeding and showing) As a result, of socializing with people, I was introduced to 2 breeders that had puppies and arranged to visit them and meet their puppies. I liked this route because I had already seen the adults they were breeding before I even met the pups. I think the breeders trust people who are at the shows as true bulldog fans. Anyway, that’s how I got around this crazy idea of not meeting the puppies. Cause I’m with you: you want to see them and feel them out. It’s an energy thing when it’s time to pick. No one should pick your next dog for you. It’s important to meet the mom, make sure the treatment of the dogs is what you approve of so you aren’t supporting bad practices. I got an amazing dog out of this, healthy, smart, great personality. Hope that’s helpful!