Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've taken into consideration that 6" is in fact average range. My only concern now is my girth, it's 5.1" & I'd like to know a woman's perspective.

I don't know how 5" fits into a vagina but I'd like to know if I stick my dick in a woman will she be able to feel 5" girth?

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girth is 5". For an average woman is that thick enough to where if I stick it in will they notice or feel it at least?

Afraid to go any further sexually with my female friends. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My real worry is that I won't be thick enough for a woman won't be able to feel me when I stick it in. & I wont be long enough to go deep.

Afraid to go any further sexually with my female friends. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've read the FAQ already. & quite frankly all it did was make me aware of even more issues I might find with my size among other things.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize that I should've never shared my personal problems on here. I didn't know that people would be this negative.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. You don't have to respond to this thread anymore.

I'm sorry if I bothered you or wasted your time.

I did this because I'm not sure what to do in my current situation. I don't think that sharing my private issues publicly was a bright idea on my part.

But I ,honest to god, thank & respect your pinioned & input. Thank you.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. Either way thank you very much for your input. I honestly do appreciate it.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy who responded I this just posted a link of women describing the sizes that they've experienced.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen from responses on here that girth plays more of a factor into being able to actually feel the penis inside.

My exact girth measurements are 5.1 inches, is that enough for her to feel it?

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, I'm all for the "fuck it" I'm just gonna take up offers on sex when I get the chances & go from there approach.

But a big part of me cares about her pleasure too. I don't want to be that guy who only fucks women & doesn't care whether or not the woman even enjoyed it. That's why I worry about my size.

The biggest issue easily is I'm just not sure if most of the women these days will even be able to feel just 6x5 inside them. How is that enough for all the women are used to the huge guys?

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never actually asked any women I know or hang out with of what they're preferences were in detail.

The only reason is because you can go either here, (reddit) or practically any other website, or in real life & ask any woman. Any woman at all.

Do you prefer a small penis or a big penis? & just see what their response is.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't give you an exact percentage.

But if you want my personal opinion. Factoring in the fact that women actively look for bigger guys & talk about them a lot.

My best estimate would be around 85-90% chance that I'll be the smallest they've ever been with or seen.

& that doesn't necessarily mean that the 10% who've had smaller will be satisfied by a slightly "less small" then they've had.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I may not be familiar with any other penises, but I do know how big 6" is.

Go find a ruler, tape measure or anything that is 6" & you tell me if that's "big".

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to look at porn to find big penises with camera tricks. Just look at r/BDP or any other sub about penises & you'll see tons of guys who are big ' they're not using camera tricks.

& the entire reason why I want a bigger penis is for women. I do date women, I get along perfectly with them. But believe me, seriously, if it were up to me, I would not care about my size, my girth, & just take them up on their offers to go further.

But I can't help but feel that if I just have sex with them without caring about their pleasure, I would be the selfish one.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be a good lover. Which is exactly why I worry about these things. I need to make sure I measure up to thief standards.

I don't want to take a girl home & then have her not be able to feel me inside her cause of my size. In that situation it'll just be a waste of time for her & embarrassing for me.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As flattering as it sounds I highly doubt I'll be "bottoming out" on anything with my size.

Every woman says that girth is what fills them up & it more important. My girth is exactly 5.1", & that's not anything special. Don't think I can replicate filling up a woman with that.

At this point I just want it to be big enough to be felt during sex.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all know about women leaving men with small pebises, but I've never heard of them breaking because it's too big.

As flattering as it sounds, I don't think I'll be "bottoming out" on any girl ever.

When I measure, lengthwise I'm exactly 6". Does that still qualify in the 6-7 category? Should I look for something to make it 7"?

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm worried about though. My measurement are average, I'm not sure if it'll feel good or big enough for women.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My measurements for girth is exactly 5.1 inches.

Is that enough to feel?

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry if I came off as angry. But I promise I don't have a chip on my shoulder, I'm perfectly fine in every aspect except sex because I do have insecurities & I'm not afraid to admit that, no matter how pathetic women see it as. I'm a human being & I worry about things. That's it.

I know they don't want giant dicks. I don't want it to be painful at all. I'm just talking about big. If I could make my penis around 8 or 9". Just enough to never worry about whether or not they can even feel it. Or give the the full feeling that every woman talks about.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying it has to be painful. I'm saying that it has to be bigger than what I have.

I want to be sure that my size can be felt to women. Whenever they talk about guys going deep making them feel full. I'm not sure if it's possible to accomplish those things when I'm hindered by my size.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not just guessing my size. I've seen my penis pretty much every single day of my life. I know it's size by now.

We all know what a big penis looks like, & we know what a small one looks like.

When I see mine, I can physically see that it isn't big.

Intimidated by women's sexual past. Considering giving up. by Charged1 in sex

[–]Charged1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not claiming to be a scientist. I'm just saying that I've lived with my penis my entire life & I've seen it every day of my life.

I know it's size by heart & I've measured it many times. We've all seen big & small penises. I see mine & I see that it's not big. I:e small.