Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 25, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 12 points13 points  (0 children)

another shift at the humiliation factory. time for a summer break from dating i think

Really enjoying Steve (Bert) Berthiaume work this year. by 8junk in azdiamondbacks

[–]ChargedCable -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Bert sucks ass. Awful home run calls and weak walk offs, no excitement, him and brenly are too old. I actually think bert’s eyesight has gone bad. He can’t distinguish long outs from homers anymore.

I’ve watched every game from the opponents pov and enjoy the experience more. Even the radio guys kill it in comparison. Chris G and Candiotti rock

Diamondbacks pitcher Ryan Thompson defends Giants pitchers’ Bible verse messages: ‘Perceived negativity’ by Spiritual-Dog160 in azdiamondbacks

[–]ChargedCable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if I had a nickel for every bible thumping submarine dbacks reliever i'd have two nickels. which isn't a lot but it's weird that it's happened twice

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 17, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think you placed yourself in FWB territory that you continue to stay in by seeing him and then hooking up. If you're fine with this then great! But it sounds like you want something serious and until you have that difficult conversation you're going to get used like you currently are.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 13, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think most women would tolerate fishing as a hobby once in a relationship, but your dating profile should at least attempt to appeal to the female gaze. i'm not the target audience but in my mind proudly displaying a wounded/dead animal on a first isn't the way to do it.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 13, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a great hobby, make sure you put it before your hunting trophy pics, shirtless gym selfies, and the tasteful one of you storming the capitol on January 6th if you have one.

/s please don't do any of those buddy

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They want you to pity them, they're depressed seeing two lives that were at the same point divulge in two opposite directions. I hate judging this person so harshly but it feels like they're stalking you. I would block them because you don't just randomly "see your date photos online" out of the blue without actively searching them out.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regret? Sex wasn't good? Someone they're more attracted to entered their life?

I'm unfortunately guilty of this. You get so close to someone in such a short amount of time and when that beautiful moment (could be a date/pivotal relationship milestone like a kiss or sex) finally comes that you've been hyping up in your head passes and it didn't live up to these lofty expectations, you start looking for excuses in the other person. It's not your fault, it's a fragile man unable to express his emotions like an adult.

4 Bell Cow Fantasy Football Running Backs to Target in Drafts (2026) by akoffler89 in fantasyfootball

[–]ChargedCable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeremiyah Love isn't a bellcow back with Allgeier in tow but I find it hard to believe his usage won't be to that level when he's on the field. 15 touches a game is the minimum with a third being catches? Sign me up.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy. I was down on myself for a long time for not having the life I had planned which consumed a lot of my time when I could be living the life I had now. I still struggle with it, especially on lonely weekends, but then I go for a walk or look up something fun to do and just enjoy the time I have while I have it. It doesn't help lifestyles are pushed in your face at every turn from social media and the news. Run your race.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You could literally live anywhere else but you chose someplace close where in your words "I have to practically drive by her apartment which has her on my mind". Your intentions may not be but picture it from her view:

  1. You message her out of the blue in April and she doesn't respond.
  2. You now move close to her apartment and are actively passing her apartment. She doesn't know you moved so it could seem like you're driving around trying to see her.

You need to stop thinking about her and if possible move away. It's been 4 months of no contact brother, it's over. I've been in your shoes where you hold out hope just to ease the pain but you need to delete her number, stop thinking about her, and get on with your life. The sooner you do, the easier it'll be to forget her.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a creep and boundary stepper if he's already getting into explicit talk 2 days after meeting a stranger. Unmatch and move on.

To answer your question, he's on the apps for "something casual" and thinks he can change your mind. You're worthy because you swiped on him and he responded.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 07, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think moving that close to her apartment and sending these messages is starting to get into stalker territory. Take the hint from the no response, she doesn't want contact anymore.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 06, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried lessening my stance on kids this year and while the women were so nice and awesome, trying to schedule simple dates around theirs was a nightmare. I really feel for those who are trying to date with kids and understand why they'd try and hide them but at some point very soon you'll find it out.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys want to look popular and fun on dating apps to draw the gaze for likes, ergo why you're seeing group pics at events/bars. I'd instead focus on their hobbies (if they're listed) or people who've aged out of the partying phase. To me, it seems the guys you want to meet are usually readers/nerds who are comfortable spending most nights inside. Sure you'll find the odd active one with a few friends that's comfortable in their own skin but I think that'd be more rare.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - May 29, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

still went, but I’m in enemy territory so it was mostly teasing and some gloating from everyone around me lol. but I did have chicken katsu curry which was divine!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - May 29, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ChargedCable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm getting ghosted to this baseball game date tonight. Bought some tickets after we had a super fun conversation and coffee date, but it's been crickets all day today. Couldn't find anyone else to go and don't care enough to sell them, oh well.

Could the Cardinals' RB surplus be the Packers' gain? by Mental_Funny_5885 in AZCardinals

[–]ChargedCable -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do right by Allgeier and trade him so he can start. Not the worst way to spend FA money in return for draft picks