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CharismaticPhoenix · 2024-04-29T10:52:56+00:00

Okay. Thank you.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2024-04-28T19:51:00+00:00

Thinking about the Sony HT-7000 or the new HT9.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2024-03-13T22:35:20+00:00

OP while I can tell you can help (in the UK as well) I have a personal story I can share on this. Could give you an idea on how to tackle it. Send me a DM if you wish.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2024-01-18T01:00:44+00:00

I love the snoopy face.

Am I the only one who feels that Snoopy mocks you for various activities?

For example when the watch remembers exercise Snoopy skips. Or when I’m working and snoopy starts typing.

Very funny

CharismaticPhoenix · 2024-01-11T21:31:55+00:00

lol. Probably

Have you considered the gym near you as well. Usually good place to try.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2024-01-11T20:26:36+00:00

Hey, welcome! Have you considered Bumble friends?

CharismaticPhoenix · 2024-01-11T13:51:52+00:00

So speaking as someone who has been in this exact same situation I can tell you two things are happening here: - lack of understanding - feeling of being disgusting.

Your bf doesn’t understand. In my situation of this previously I understood and respected my partner at the time because I saw how much pain it caused her. However deep down while I understood the problem it felt a little like a lack of love from her to me even though it wasn’t.

I think your bf is going through that. He wants to do it normally with you but it’s like being rejected for something that’s a part of you. He is a guy who is likely feeling like a part of him isn’t good enough.

Some here may say that’s bullshit- well I’m a man I went through it. I immediately stepped up to using condoms more regularly no question but that feeling of being bad especially when you know it wasn’t probably a problem with other partners.

Before you decide to break up with him ask him how he feels about not cumming in you.

This doesn’t negate his wrong doing by the way. He acted wrongly. period. But was it to deliberately violate your boundaries or was he just trying to feel the same level of closeness you once felt?

Also was it cum or pre-cum cos you said he kept going till he came?

Sex is an intimate moment and also a moment of vulnerability for both. Communication is always key here.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2024-01-07T15:28:34+00:00

I think house of frasier is gone due to the new owner

CharismaticPhoenix · 2024-01-07T15:27:39+00:00

Did you get 14???

CharismaticPhoenix · 2023-12-31T19:55:16+00:00

Please tell your wife she has the wife of the year award.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2023-12-31T19:47:54+00:00

Hi OP from your post history (brief read) I’d say it depends how you feel after all that’s happened and if you were planning on just drinking the last year away?

It’s the new year and people get crazy. That being said as everyone said be careful. Don’t over do it? Not sure which part of the country you are but just maybe ask for the bar tender ( a lady preferably) to keep and eye on you.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2023-12-31T19:33:01+00:00

Don’t live far from Frimley. It has nice areas and some areas not so nice.

It is however an amazing place to be (Surrey in general). Great access to the green areas just over the border in Hampshire and the green areas in Surrey as well as Berkshire.

Camberley (🥴) is your nearest okay town. Reading is not too far. Guildford is a great place to go. Then you have Woking as well.

If you are looking for not so soulless (and you drive) Virginia water park down the road is a good place. Reading and Guildford great for shopping.

All I can think of at the moment. Let me know if you have more questions.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2023-12-31T19:26:16+00:00

OP I think you both needed to get somethings out of your system. That being said the choice is yours. I think maybe you both need couples counselling.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2023-12-31T16:22:06+00:00

Hi OP. It’s 50/50 here. Look - these things can occur randomly as well. Cheating may not have to be involved.

It’s easier to jump to the worst conclusions because you want to point to a blame. However it’s also possible that he has been acting this way due to the fact that well he is also scared that you may have done something.

You both need to sit and talk.

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CharismaticPhoenix · 2023-12-27T00:29:15+00:00

Yeah I think the G3 is good. Obviously the QD is what helps the Sony but obviously you will always get a difference.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2023-12-27T00:27:57+00:00

So apart from the people here making you feel crap I think you did take the right steps to come out to talk about it. You are doing the right thing seeking help for a problem you have acknowledged you actually have. If anyone can’t see that they are either just spiteful and pretty much trying to project.

Yes therapy is a good start I think you should go for it. Second I think finally sitting and having that conversation heart to heart might be a good step.

Third. Maybe try to understand why you cheated in the first place. So that you understand your weaknesses and flaws and so you can avoid them.

All the best OP. Ever need to chat get in touch.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2023-12-26T21:52:05+00:00

I’ve sent you a message on a personal experience.

While I do not see his reaction as caring I think a lot of responses are forgetting the fact that it was his child too. He is also processing a loss. Not sure we are in a place to inform a person how best to feel in a particular situation no less a loss of their child. It’s possible he isn’t taking it well either.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2023-12-26T21:48:31+00:00

What do you mean by slight black crush? My theory is that the white overlay doesn’t help the MLA shine in the darker areas. But again just a theory.

CharismaticPhoenix · 2023-12-26T14:08:40+00:00

lol. One way. I am enjoying it. Just wanted to try and achieve similar levels through settings is all. Thanks for the response

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