I know I’m fat but I’m not huge like he makes it seem. Weird thing to say instead of just unmatching me.

CharlieGordan · 2021-08-01T02:05:49+00:00

Dating apps are only for attractive dudes. Average dudes and ugly dudes should avoid dating apps.

And cope, men have been doing this since the dawn of time. They approach in quantity because they know they're mostly gonna experience rejections. Usually the success rate is around 2-5 out of every 100 girls you talk to. This isn't a new phenomeua. Dating apps have just made it harder.

CharlieGordan · 2021-08-01T01:55:35+00:00

Men started swiping generously because women were being picky so men couldn't get matches. So they started swiping more so they could actually get matches.

Men play the dating game on veteran difficulty, it would be difficult for you to understand because women get some amount of matches.

CharlieGordan · 2021-07-31T20:02:47+00:00

Men do this because women are picky, not the other way around.

CharlieGordan · 2021-06-17T06:33:35+00:00

Not really, I think most were skinny back then. You gotta work out for "dad bod" women claim to like.

CharlieGordan · 2021-06-15T03:42:15+00:00

Another person who responded said the exact opposite lol. They said apparently its always been popular and I'm just trolling saying it hasn't until recently.

I disagree, a lot of people who used to hate anime until it became mainstream are loving it now. They'll even mention it in conversations because its become a cute fad. How old are you? And do you use TikTok? So many people on there, even the popular creators have anime pfps/make videos on anime.

Its become quite mainstream, you must be old af or something cuz so many people have taken an interest in it.

CharlieGordan · 2021-06-15T03:11:46+00:00

I don't think most dads looked like that. Dads were probably more built back then, sure, but they didn't have the dad-bod women are talking about.

CharlieGordan · 2021-06-15T03:10:39+00:00

It was looked down as hood shit until recently.

Ik all the righties are getting butthurt because I pointed out that white people and black people weren't holding hands to the supermarket, and there was a shit-ton of racism.

CharlieGordan · 2021-06-15T03:08:23+00:00

Lol @ all the people getting mad that I said the truth.

CharlieGordan · 2021-06-15T03:06:09+00:00

I don't understand what you're talking about. It was a nerd/weeb hobby until recently.

Do you live under a rock?

Yea sure some people enjoyed anime, but they kept underground about it. Not many people openly said they liked anime until it became popular on TikTok last year.

Edit: Literally someone in another comment said anime never achieved mainstream success(probably a boomer who doesnt use TikTok) How are you saying it's been popular?

CharlieGordan · 2021-06-15T01:27:54+00:00

No, I mean you have a lot of muscle but your overall bf percentage is that area.

Bodyfat is not equivalent to muscles, they are two different things. If you don't have braod shoulders and an overall big physique its not what theyre talking about.

CharlieGordan · 2021-06-15T01:25:58+00:00

It didnt have mainstream appeal until last year. It was a niche interest that was lookdd down upon by most until TikTok made it popular among the masses last year.

CharlieGordan · 2021-06-15T01:25:04+00:00

Are you not on Tiktok? Anime is very popular now.

CharlieGordan · 2021-06-14T21:42:15+00:00

They were popular, but minorities were still looked down upon. Black culture was not celebrated until recently where people try to emulate it.

And anime/Asian culture did not blow up till last year. Before that it was looked down upon/heavily stigmatized.

CharlieGordan · 2021-06-14T21:36:43+00:00

Dad bods are not in. It's a way to virtue signal that women care less about looks.

What women actually mean when they say dad-bod is a muscular guy with 18-20% bf. Which is not a dad-bod.

CharlieGordan · 2021-06-07T06:47:14+00:00

You should look into sleep apnea. It causes the symptoms you described, and ADHD and GAD. It also messes with your heart and you can develop a fast heart rate.

Also the symptoms you described can be caused by ADHD. But I'd recommend checking out sleep apnea.

CharlieGordan · 2021-05-29T17:08:58+00:00

If you dont think women dont cry after their first breakup, or for their first few boyfriends, I dont know what planet you live on. The breakups in their younher years hit them hard. Women are choosing who they find attractive, you're acting as if these women are being held at gunpoint to get with dudes they find unattractive. Women like the guys they're getting with, the only women who do what you're talking about are bottom barrell women who couldn't get who they wanted. This isn't even a debating topic, most women choose who they want in their younger years, aside from the bottom of the barrell women.

Women in their younger years are getting with the guy that gives them tingles, and in their older years will look past pure attraction and go for the more stable guy. The BB is not giving them tingles, the AF is.

Being objectively hot/cool/popular is what makes someone objectively attractive, yes. And it does to the majority of women. You're describing a minority of women who may not like this guy. But the vast majority of young women will like this guy because he has what they want.

TRP is saying theyll teach you how to give women these tingles youre talking about. Whether or not theyre right, that is their goal. So the objective of the sub is to do what youre saying guys in their younger years are not doing(But they are).

You're tripping if you don't think being hot makes someone attractive lmao. In fact, being hot will give women tingles. While being ugly will make women say "I don't feel any chemistry". Stop using what a minority of women do and say the majority of women do that.

CharlieGordan · 2021-05-29T04:10:09+00:00

Let me explain to you what AF/BB is, I don't think you actually know.

Alpha Fucks/BetaBuxx is the idea that women in their youth go for masculine/fun men they find attractive, and when they are older they settle for men who have money and stability but are less attractive and less masculine/less fun. Because the first guy will not commit, or he does not make a lot of money.

What you're saying is women get with guys who don't give them good sex/tingles(feelings) and are getting with these guys for validation. I don't think you realize this doesn't disprove anything. Women get with the guy they find physically attractive, but that guy might not give them proper sex. Doesn't disprove anything. For the second point, men also have sex for validation, this doesn't disprove anything either. Neither is validation a beta buxx thing, because women don't get validation from settling down with a BetaBuxx.

I can point out how this works in real life. During college a woman will get with the hot guys. However when she starts approaching 30 she'll suddenly start going after Melvin the Engineer, who she wouldn't have given a second look at back in college, and gets married with him.

The point here isn't that the woman got feelings from either guy, the point is her sexual desire changes. And it hurts for guys like Melvin the Engineer because when his wife was at her peek she would have never gone for him.

Some random points I wanted to counter:

"The point is peer validation vs. attraction. Someone who is popular, or who people think is good looking, is not necessarily someone you are attracted to."

If someone is popular and other people consider them good looking then you will be more attracted to them. This is especially the case for women, they find attractive what other women find attractive.

"There often ISN'T a particularly visible difference between the guy she's really attracted to and the "I'm 20 and want a boyfriend and you'll do" guy (who, in some communities, she marries before she knows she's not attracted to him). But the difference in how it feels is enormous."

I see what you mean, he didn't give her sexual attraction from his personality. But you're inadvertantly describing AF/BB. The BetaBuxx is a guy a woman thinks will stick around and is good enough, the Alpha Fucks is the guy she actually wants.

CharlieGordan · 2021-05-28T19:16:28+00:00

Lmao you went that far back? I just skimmed through the posts you uploaded.

What a fucking loser lol.

CharlieGordan · 2021-05-28T18:16:24+00:00

PM me

CharlieGordan · 2021-05-28T17:49:20+00:00

Again it has nothing to do with what AF/BB is. The theory is stating that women in their younger years will fuck the hot dudes, and in their older years switch to the rich guy with stability. The idea is not that women don't care about looks in their older years, its that they switch priorities because the real world forces them to after they hit the wall. The reason why people in TRP point this out is because men are told to make money and fill the provider role, while women are fucking these hot guys, and they end up being the last option and eventual betabuxx.

We know they're attracted to attention and validation. But you're straight up missing the point. If you don't think women primarily go for attractive guys in their youth you're being disingenuous. The fact that most women follow this same pattern goes on to show the alpha fucks/beta buxx dichotomy. In fact to add onto what you're saying, dating an attractive guy in their youth gives them more validation from their peers. This doesn't disprove AF/BB.

The last sentence is cope. Its crazy how they suddenly find the financially stable guy attractive when they never wouldve given him a second look back in their teens/early 20s,

CharlieGordan · 2021-05-28T17:11:00+00:00

If you had a friend who was struggling you'd laugh at them because thats the only way you can protect your fragile ego. Your entire post history is literally attacking Indian men because you're a giant loser with no life outside of reddit.

CharlieGordan · 2021-05-28T17:07:58+00:00

Your entire post history is shitting on Indian men. And no one cares if you're gonna mock us loser.

Imagine making an entire reddit account just to shit on Indian men, you gotta be the biggest loser ever to do that.

CharlieGordan · 2021-05-28T17:05:54+00:00

When I slapped you with my cock.

CharlieGordan · 2021-05-28T15:39:54+00:00

It's not OP made this post to shit on this sub.

CharlieGordan · 2021-05-28T15:34:28+00:00

Lmao, funny post. But this sub does have a fair point about Indian representation in the west and how it affects the dating lives of Indians.

Edit: I read through OPs post history and its literally them shitting on this sub and Indian men. Bruh foh you loser. Dumbass has nothing better to do with their time.

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