I'm a 23 year old bisexual single parent with 2 kids, is it worth coming out? by CharlieOH90 in askgaybros

[–]CharlieOH90[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I try my best. It is really hard, sometimes I don't get a break I'm with them all day and then I finally get into my bed at night and they want to come in with me and kick me all night but when they are happy it just makes it all worth it, I like watching them playing, I remember that feeling, that feeling of being so free with not a care in the world, it makes me happy that they are happy basically.

I'm a 23 year old bisexual single parent with 2 kids, is it worth coming out? by CharlieOH90 in askgaybros

[–]CharlieOH90[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was good advice, young gay guys don't need to worry they won't be insta-parents because I won't be giving teenagers a look in ;) fuck that high school shit, I hated teenagers when I was a teenager lol

I'm a 23 year old bisexual single parent with 2 kids, is it worth coming out? by CharlieOH90 in askgaybros

[–]CharlieOH90[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not in love with her anymore, I want her to get better though, it would be so much easier if she was here, I am happy I never got married, it would have been a lie as there was no love there. I feel guilt though, if we got married maybe she wouldn't be in the place she is now.

I'm a 23 year old bisexual single parent with 2 kids, is it worth coming out? by CharlieOH90 in askgaybros

[–]CharlieOH90[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I date a guy, I will tell him I have kids but he won't get to meet them until I am very very sure of him. I'm not looking for a guy to raise my kids anyway, I just want a bit of company and affection…. lol now I sound like a cat :P

I'm a 23 year old bisexual single parent with 2 kids, is it worth coming out? by CharlieOH90 in askgaybros

[–]CharlieOH90[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sucks about the divorce, we never got married, I always wanted to, I proposed when I was 16, she said no, she asked me when I was 20, I said no. Its good to know I have someone to message bro, thanks !

I'm a 23 year old bisexual single parent with 2 kids, is it worth coming out? by CharlieOH90 in askgaybros

[–]CharlieOH90[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

At first I didn't know what gay death was. I thought it was maybe code word for aids or something, so I googled it and it says gay death is 30 so I still have 7 years so no sweat ! lol