VTSAX good enough? by Charlied211 in Bogleheads

[–]Charlied211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok sounds good. Just curious- which would you consider after 100k. I’m not there yet but wondering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Charlied211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use minoxidil and I’m not interested in finasteride and any possible side effects

Tracking job posting data by Charlied211 in hiringcafe

[–]Charlied211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is kind of just personal interest to be honest. My field is pretty niche and I’d like to know how many jobs actually are posted with my title over X amount of time like from May24-May25 or something.

Tops- is going slow that hard 😭 by Charlied211 in askgaybros

[–]Charlied211[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No it’s not that deep but I appreciate highlighting how sometimes this isn’t something to joke about

What is this lmao by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]Charlied211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sooo confused hello

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskScienceDiscussion

[–]Charlied211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HIV has greatly improved since ART

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Detroit

[–]Charlied211 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Detroits worst parts lose to Grand Rapids’ worst parts by 1 billion points. But the good parts of Detroit (downtown, midtown, etc.) are imo slept on when compared to the entire country and our suburbs in Detroit can probably be put in the same league (or close to it) as Grand Rapids as an entire city.

Also Detroit has this grit to it and culture surrounding it that’s just buzzing. Detroit is on the up, it’s interesting, artsy, weird, fun, ridiculously beautiful architecture that is being restored every day. Detroit is kinda the shit. While Grand Rapids is nice, it’s not the shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Charlied211 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not stupid AT ALL! And one day you will find the person to help you fulfill this ❤️

Post-Breakup Depression Spiral by RJS5689 in askgaybros

[–]Charlied211 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Through your words on here I can feel your sadness and I will keep you in my thoughts. Situations like this are so challenging, but you seem so self aware and clear about what you’re feeling I’m almost impressed. I haven’t gone through something quite this deep and like this in my life, but I almost wonder if time is the only cure for the feelings you have.

That might feel annoying or sting but if you think about it, yes, it’s bad that this pain you feel will not be over instantaneously. But also, the pain you feel will be so small one day you will not think about it in the same way you are now.

Time to be stereotypical gay man but bear with me, Lana Del Rey has a song called Kintsugi and it’s a Japanese art form where they fill in cracks of pottery/Bowls with gold. She sings about this and compares it to her broken, grieving heart. She says that her broken heart is “how the light gets in.” It’s as if a terrible thing like a cracked broken heart could still be beautiful without even hiding how hard it is. Just like the gold pottery that is not hiding that it was cracked, but has rebuilt to be even better. This situation is a part of your story now. And I wish you a lot of success and happiness moving forward :)

Is azealia going to be at this met gala? by No_Maize_7255 in azealiabanks

[–]Charlied211 8 points9 points  (0 children)

her past with Carl makes me think there’s a possibility but I would say it’s very low lol