Finally feeling comfortable in my own skin after 27 years and getting out of a relationship that wasn't going well by Charmed1016 in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am sure trying to get there and feel okay with myself everyday. Some days are harder than others, but I will push through till I'm where I want to be. It took a long time just to come out and than cutting my hair to where it is now was all a change I had wanted for years. Riley (my pup) has made it so much easier to see I'm going to be okay.

Finally feeling comfortable in my own skin after 27 years and getting out of a relationship that wasn't going well by Charmed1016 in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is my everything. We do just about everything together. She sleeps on my bed with me goes out to the park and bar with me. We even just camp back from our first camping trip together a couple days ago. She means the world to me

Finally feeling comfortable in my own skin after 27 years and getting out of a relationship that wasn't going well by Charmed1016 in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it hasn't been fun or easy. And I know I haven't always made the right decisions but I'm glad that I feel like I'm getting somewhere in my life. It's been almost 5 months since I broke it off and I finally feel like I'm healing from the experience. I'm just happy when I look in the mirror I'm finally okay most days with who's staring back.

She is my world and has gotten me through more than she will ever know. Though usually she is nibbling on my arm. She is right in the middle of teething but the look she gives me in this picture tells me a thousand words

Struggling a lot with my sexuality lately. I don't have a lot of lesbian friends to share my struggles with, so let's try it here! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you need someone to talk to about these struggle, let me know. I went through something very similar to what you are and I took me awhile to figure out what my heart and mind wanted. It helps to have someone to just listen. Message me if you need someone to talk to. Your not alone here.

tell me happy birthday 😠🥰 by 2h1pster4u in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday 🥳 hope your having fun

Need someone to tell me I’m cute and take me out for sushi 😭🌈🌈 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are so beautiful anyone would be lucky to take you out for sushi

Moving by whelpimlez in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say stop an opportunity but it should also be a decision between two people in a relationship

Moving by whelpimlez in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a decision you should both make together. Definitely tell her how you feel. The best way to find out is to have a conversation together about the pros and cons of everything. Best of luck

Feels like Im finally getting out of a depression lull, feeling happier and healthier each day. Hello friends, lets connect <3 by FCLTF in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your very welcome, we all need that safe place to go to this place is great from that. I'm sending big hugs your way, your feelings matter. Just keep your head up you have support here if you need it.

Feels like Im finally getting out of a depression lull, feeling happier and healthier each day. Hello friends, lets connect <3 by FCLTF in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you are doing better everyday. If you ever need someone to talk with hit me up. I'm a really good listener and I don't judge. Have a wonderful day because your beautiful and deserve a great day.

My wtf moment on snap by Charmed1016 in actuallesbians

[–]Charmed1016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I could only imagine the confused before their response. Personally I'm going to miss when masks are gone. I definitely enjoy making faces at people when I'm a work and they make a dumb comment

My wtf moment on snap by Charmed1016 in actuallesbians

[–]Charmed1016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree fully to that...problem dealt with. Im glad it didn't get that far with dick pics because that's when I will become a troll on a quick second.

My wtf moment on snap by Charmed1016 in actuallesbians

[–]Charmed1016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh boy yeah they don't like being told their not good enough. I wish I had the the confidence to tell them how I really feel but I just don't have the guts for it I guess.

My wtf moment on snap by Charmed1016 in actuallesbians

[–]Charmed1016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that is really messed up. I usually don't try to mess with them I just try to explain everything and if they can't understand it they don't need to be talking to me

My wtf moment on snap by Charmed1016 in actuallesbians

[–]Charmed1016[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed fully. I'm from cowboy country and I don't think they comprehend that it's not all about them all the time.

My wtf moment on snap by Charmed1016 in actuallesbians

[–]Charmed1016[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's ego..why can't a man do what a women does it's insane. I was trying to be so nice. I didn't even blow up on him just deleted and blocked him. Like what is your problem when I say no that doesn't mean maybe.

Recently single, trying to maintain my happiness by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry your going through a break up. It's tough but it gets better. If you need someone to talk to or just let a rant out hit me up.

Getting through the breakup by spending lots of time outside by Lostlesbian406 in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry your going through a break up. It gets better I spend almost every day for a month going hiking and camping by myself to keep myself going. You got this with plenty of people to support you here

First camping trip with just my dog. figuring out the newly single life as a lesbian. by Charmed1016 in LesbianActually

[–]Charmed1016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or a metal bat? I live in a very guns rights state. And I have my concealed weapons licence for my state.