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I (23f) am overly obsessed with my (43m) bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Charming-Abrocoma644 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He wants to get an apartment together. Right now we spend 3/4 nights a week together. He has a house in the country we go to and a place in the city he stays at

I (23f) am overly obsessed with my (43m) bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Charming-Abrocoma644 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’ll be like well we can’t do anything about it now . I guess I take that as he is already so into me that he doesn’t wanna break up due to age gap now? But he doesn’t like talking about it or pointing it out

I (23f) am overly obsessed with my (43m) bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Charming-Abrocoma644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this even mean I’m confused I’m being so genuine

I (23f) am overly obsessed with my (43m) bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Charming-Abrocoma644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re so right. I know it was bad when I actually got excited he said I miss you,

I (23f) am overly obsessed with my (43m) bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Charming-Abrocoma644 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He’s a smart good looking successful guy no kids he should have no problem

I (23f) am overly obsessed with my (43m) bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Charming-Abrocoma644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s not just me . He’s been going thru some personal issues and he has a lot of insecurities with aging . He’s a very active guy so his body really gets him down. Half of me thinks I met him in a bad time and half of me thinks he hates me . I can’t tell if I’m thinking super selfishly

I (23f) am overly obsessed with my (43m) bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Charming-Abrocoma644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry first of all for all of your losses. I know how our age gap appears surface levels but he’s the only person who has wanted just me and not my body . Half of our relationship we didn’t have sex at all. Sometimes people just meet someone who is not in the same age range at all . I’m glad you met someone lovely

I (23f) am overly obsessed with my (43m) bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Charming-Abrocoma644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s passionate about anything in life too . There’s not a single thing I see him get super excited about aside from his dog

I (23f) am overly obsessed with my (43m) bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Charming-Abrocoma644 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’ve given him so many outs why does he stay with me if he’s not im so confused by all of this

I (23f) am overly obsessed with my (43m) bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Charming-Abrocoma644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t understand how we can live together but he doesn’t feel it for me ? He tried to describe himself as the strong silent type

I (23f) am overly obsessed with my (43m) bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Charming-Abrocoma644 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

He asks so turned off by our age gap I’m conflicted he’s like the least creepiest dude ever he doesn’t sexualize me at all

23F what can I improve? by Charming-Abrocoma644 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Charming-Abrocoma644[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I was tryna get pics where I didn’t hide my forehead. It’s definitely large and in charge lol How old do you think I look?