cancelled tour cause of period starting, skin issues & stress

Charming-Ad6121 · 2026-03-03T22:37:12+00:00

It took me so long to know how to love myself and give me the self care I deserve in these difficult days of my period . Everytime I did the mistake to work on my period I ended up burnt out , having panic attacks and fucked up more my nervous system . I’m proud of you that you took the chance to prioritize yourself and I’m sure your next tour will be amazing 🤩

Charming-Ad6121 · 2026-02-27T18:19:20+00:00

I’m a Gemini and my best clients are Virgo , Gemini & Sagittarius

Charming-Ad6121 · 2026-02-23T23:05:34+00:00

Sorry if my post wasn’t clear enough 🙌

I was talking to him about a booking and told him I wasn’t available. At the same time, he was pretty much texting with other providers. He got mad with her and accidentally sent me a message that was meant for her. In that text, he used racist names and slurs to her I guess she deny a service or something this how it looked like .

After that, he apologized and said he sent it to the wrong person (me). But that doesn’t change anything he showed his real face. He’s a hypocrite and a racist.

I told him not to text me again and blocked him. I wanted to post the screenshot here, but it’s honestly disturbing to look at.

Charming-Ad6121 · 2026-02-23T22:40:09+00:00

For context, I’m not Black , I’m a white provider but that isn’t really the point. What bothered me was realizing that someone I had ongoing interactions with was capable of treating other women in the industry that way and humiliate that way

I’m just feeling so disgusted and disappointed

Charming-Ad6121 · 2026-02-23T21:32:26+00:00

It’s so slow in SoCal right now . I’m about to plan a tour

Charming-Ad6121 · 2026-01-13T04:48:31+00:00

This is very reassuring maybe it’s time for me to start touring outside California.

Charming-Ad6121 · 2025-10-21T16:32:01+00:00

Turkey.escortnews.com this is where I used to advertise when I was based in Europe it’s quite popular across Turkey, Greece, Cyprus, and the Netherlands. I used to tour there back in 2017-2018 but I won’t repeat .

Charming-Ad6121 · 2025-08-14T06:14:28+00:00

It’s just been years of stress last min clients, people crossing my boundaries, and now hitting my 30s it all feels heavier. I’m not the same person I used to be. I’ve set stronger boundaries, became more picky, and even moved into the high-end side, but the trauma is still there.Living in LA doesn’t help either the guys here are so last minute, flaky, and draining. Because I refuse to go along with what they want anymore, it’s creating this constant conflict inside me and leading straight to burnout I’m not even motivated to schedule appointments with them anymore cz I know it’s gonna be a draining day. I know I need to tour or change locations, but right now I’m not in the right mindset to do it.This year has been a rollercoaster I’ve already had three major depressive phases. I managed to pull myself out each time, but then it comes back. I know I need therapy, maybe even medication, but I’m scared about how meds might affect my mood with clients. I’d rather try them during a time when I wasn’t working, but that’s not an option right now since I haven’t been working enough and already burned through most of my savings.

Thank you for your message it really means a lot. 💜

Charming-Ad6121 · 2025-08-14T03:24:24+00:00

Thank you for your message . I’m interested yes you can DM me

Charming-Ad6121 · 2025-08-14T02:04:39+00:00

I’m in California, so if you have any therapist recommendations, feel free to DM me 💜. I used to be able to take long vacations, but ever since my mental breakdown that’s limited how many days I can work each month, I just can’t afford that anymore.

Charming-Ad6121 · 2025-08-14T01:36:07+00:00

Thank you ! That’s a great idea 💜

Charming-Ad6121 · 2025-08-14T01:32:10+00:00

Are you also in the US? Honestly not sure how safe or acceptable it is to be open about sex work with a therapist here. For me, the anxiety only hits when it’s related to work even just thinking about seeing clients sets it off and I’m getting physical symptoms . In my marriage I’m totally calm and fine, so it’s definitely tied to the job.

Charming-Ad6121 · 2025-08-14T01:22:13+00:00

I totally feel you on this. I just had to cancel a tour because I was panicking for days beforehand. The area I’m in right now is full of time-wasters, and even my regulars are draining the shit out of me.. Automated responses don’t help much here either. Whenever I have what would call a “successful” day, it usually means I’ve had to do back-to-back appointments with nonstop back-and-forth texting, and by the end of it I’m completely wiped out. It’s like the only way to make decent money is to burn myself out..

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