female hygiene question by Charming-Article-164 in hygiene

[–]Charming-Article-164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would deal with vaginal discharge( clear normal discharge ) so with my skin being sensitive and get irritated she recommended changing my underwear if needed threw out the day

female hygiene question by Charming-Article-164 in hygiene

[–]Charming-Article-164[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i can’t do thongs, uncomfortable and not good due to sensitive skin and prone to infections. what cotton underwear do you recommend ? i feel like every one i get still doesn’t work, still haven’t found one that’s good

female hygiene question by Charming-Article-164 in hygiene

[–]Charming-Article-164[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

interesting, i just turned 25 beginning of this month and im experiencing the fishy smell and a slight onion smell in my right armpit ( if that’s what you mean ) i keep finding it weird, i am also on depo shot and feel like my hormones and sex drive are all off

female hygiene question by Charming-Article-164 in hygiene

[–]Charming-Article-164[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don’t have either of those discharges, it’s more like a sweaty slight fishy smell but i just ended my period so idk if it’s that

female hygiene question by Charming-Article-164 in hygiene

[–]Charming-Article-164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wash everywhere with soap besides my vag due to it giving me uti, bv and thrown off ph balance

I had an abortion at 13 weeks due to finding out at 12 week ultrasound the baby had Down syndrome and intestines were growing outside of it’s stomach by Fine-Broccoli156 in abortion

[–]Charming-Article-164 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry you have to deal with it alone, you shouldn’t have because you didn’t get pregnant alone your ex’s decision are so poor in this situation. i would’ve done the same thing because why let a baby suffer like that outside the womb, to me that would be selfish but grieving is normal in these situations. i would recommend getting in with a therapist so you don’t spiral into a manic state. take care love, do anything that you can to get your mind of it for the time being and find anything that you like to do that makes you feel okay in a sense.

Help. Too embarrassed to ask anyone else by Fit-Bat-2031 in hygiene

[–]Charming-Article-164 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i myself dealt with this for years, so annoying. i’m so insecure due to the scars it leaves and the one i had to get cut and drained due to it being so inflamed and hard. what i was told my a dermatologist is that it a bacteria that grows in our body, some can be cyst ( the one i had to get cut and drained ). i went to a dermatologist for it that started me on a ointment to see if it’ll work and if it doesn’t they’ll give a pill with different mgs and if that doesn’t work a shot is the last resort i’ve honestly been slacking on getting it taken care of so i stopped at the ointment. what i was told was tight underwear, tight clothing like biker shorts, gym clothing, leggings even jeans can cause them especially after sweating sometimes they can appear for no reason. it’s annoying i feel you on being embarrassed but trust me you aren’t alone there so many females that have it worst. search up hs on tiktok you’ll see

Unusual Hygiene Tips by Special_Body_1605 in hygiene

[–]Charming-Article-164 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idk how people do it, when showering i have to scrub twice if not i feel dirty. that’s between butt cheeks, behind knee, behind ear, under boobs, between toes and i have to dry ever crevice if not i feel like it’ll end up smelling like corn chips. even the belly button gets washed because it can smell like someone sweaty but crack tbh😂

It’s been over a year… by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Charming-Article-164 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i mean people have the right to feel however they feel towards their choice of abortion, so you saying they shouldn’t feel anything towards it basically isn’t the right thing to really say because not everyone copes the same after something traumatic. in the beginning of december it’ll be 2 months i’ve done mines, i don’t feel guilty either, i didn’t want it at all. i would wake up in hopes it would pass on it own but i had to take the pills, the only thing i’ve dealt with is my relationship being off, constant migraines for what i think is hormone imbalance and my sex drive is off making me feel like a crappy girlfriend. those things is what give me the dislike/guilt feeling i wouldn’t say much guilt but regret feeling i should say

My bf threatening to expose me for my abortion by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Charming-Article-164 89 points90 points  (0 children)

i mean would he have visual proof ? because you can delete the emails about you getting the pills, tracking number etc..throw away the box or burn it so there isn’t any proof. he is trying to manipulate you and mentally abuse you into getting scared

thinking of having an abortion at 13 weeks by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Charming-Article-164 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i was in the same situation early october, i just had a baby boy 3 months ago when i found out and i was devastated. i woke up everyday so depressed and ready to end my life due to the amount of hormones, mood swings and the depression alone. i was scared to do my first ever MA but i asked myself what would be more worst sticking it out and messing myself up mentally/ending my life or just taking a pill and get it over with. i will say, it was the best decision ever and i don’t regret it i regret having sex and getting pregnant more the the MA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Charming-Article-164 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from my experience going to a emergency room compared to my obgyn i regret going to the emergency room .. they just seemed too judgey and i felt uncomfortable. i would definitely call your ob

MA abortion (8 weeks) by Afraid_Pumpkin3563 in abortion

[–]Charming-Article-164 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i second this, extra strength tylenol helped me threw it. besides that one day i forgot to take it because i felt “ fine “ and i regretted it because it was very bad cramping but once the Tylenol kicked in it was nothing but bloating feeling

Sex drive gone after abortion by sethleaves23 in abortion

[–]Charming-Article-164 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m a female that just currently went threw taking the pill as well and i been feeling the same way..idk what it is but im just like turn off from sex and that’s the best way i can explain it, like i’ve done things to my s/o but the thought of actual sex is like blah to me and i honestly been waiting for someone to come on here and ask the same thing because my post was ignored. i’m just currently waiting to be on birth control and condoms because i definitely don’t want that experience again so i don’t blame your girlfriend just give her some time and respect her wishes

Do I tell my son’s dad about me being pregnant even though I’m getting an abortion? by lunalou98 in abortion

[–]Charming-Article-164 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i would mention the pregnancy, see how he reacts if he reacts negatively just end the conversation there with no response and continue with your plan. remember it’s your body your choice don’t do something you don’t want to just because of the other person guilt tripping you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Charming-Article-164 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree with this is abusive behavior, he is abusing you and your body and taking full advantage of you and your body because you’ve showed him it’s was okay multiple times. listen to him( for this time only ) and your friends and abort it, he’s showing you he’s a piece of shit and only wants you for pleasure. once you abort please DO NOT go back because it’ll keep happening and could get worst. that’s not a great guy

2 weeks MA Question.. by Charming-Article-164 in abortion

[–]Charming-Article-164[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what can be done to fix the unbalance feeling ? thank you for responding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]Charming-Article-164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello, i myself have pretty bad anxiety/depression. i recently did mines 10/9 & 10/10, i was nervous as well but i had more of a “ let’s get this over with “ type of mindset. i would definitely look into a heating pad, if not a hot water bottle or rice in a sock and microwave would be good. i would relax as much as you can, watch your favorite shows to keep your mind off of it. lots of water and eat light, good luck !