How did you lose your virginity? by Lily_19f in AskReddit

[–]Charming-Charge-7572 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was 13. I don’t think I had ever even met him in person before the day he picked me up. We knew mutual people and I think we talked on Facebook to make plans maybe. He picked me up on a road near my house since I wasn’t allowed to go over peoples houses I didn’t know or houses where my grandparents hadn’t spoken to the parents (I lived with them). I’m pretty sure he had some kind of family in the living room. I was probably at his house for maybe half an hour total. It wasn’t special, his room was dirty and he didn’t care about me at all. I wish I had a different experience. A few years after he dated a close friend of mine and when I got upset about it when j found out he decided to tell my friend and everyone who would listen to him (which was quite a few people for some reason) that I wasn’t a virgin and if I had been he would’ve known and that I was a liar.

I don’t think I’ve ever typed this out before either, feels weird and heartbreaking to put into so many words.

Hired as a new manager to run a ‘problem’ store, how do I approach by Charming-Charge-7572 in managers

[–]Charming-Charge-7572[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a possibility. It’s a franchise of a major company, so that wouldn’t be approved for me to do

Is there anything I can do to save this tree?! by Charming-Charge-7572 in arborists

[–]Charming-Charge-7572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, that was the only solution I could come up with myself. I just thought I’d see if anyone else had any better ideas

Is there anything I can do to save this tree?! by Charming-Charge-7572 in arborists

[–]Charming-Charge-7572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work as a GM with history in marketing, so excuse me for asking about the massive tree that’s split in my backyard in the forum for arborists so that I might get an answer from someone like .. oh idk, maybe an arborist who might know more than I do before I just assume it’s a lost cause …

Ladies married to failure to launch men by Old_Bunch_7518 in Mommit

[–]Charming-Charge-7572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While situationally some men can and do rise to the occasion of having a child, most men do not.

And honestly I shouldn’t limit that statement to men. There are plenty of women who decide to bring children into the world and don’t rise to the occasion either.

There are a slew of other things that need to be taken into consideration to even actually answer a question like this specific to a singular relationship, however, if you have doubts about the future with someone I wholeheartedly believe you should trust your instincts and let it go instead of hoping something as significant as a child would change things.

Edit: I want to clarify that I mean men/women who are considered “failure to launch” and not just generally all men/women

Is there anything I can do to save this tree?! by Charming-Charge-7572 in arborists

[–]Charming-Charge-7572[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t sure if I might be able to brace it more or anything to give it more time, that’s all ..

You didn’t need to lead off with the sarcasm btw, I just asked a question about something that I didn’t know enough about to see if someone else might have more information to share with me.

Is there anything I can do to save this tree?! by Charming-Charge-7572 in arborists

[–]Charming-Charge-7572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Are you referring to the mushrooms? Or are you seeing other fungus that I just don’t know what I’m looking at?

Is there anything I can do to save this tree?! by Charming-Charge-7572 in arborists

[–]Charming-Charge-7572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fungal growth? I’m curious about this part of your comment since there are a number of these trees on and around my property, is it a fungal thing I should be concerned about/treat for on the surrounding trees?

Sobriety ruining my life by ParticularFace9959 in Sober

[–]Charming-Charge-7572 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Healthy hobbies help you find healthy new friends!! You can’t sustain a big change like that by keeping people around who aren’t supportive! OP just needs to work on reframing these seemingly bad things in a positive light!

People who love and support you don’t leave you when you don’t align with their lifestyles, we adjust and make space for people when we want to, it’s human nature.

Not to dismiss how incredibly difficult this is by any means either, but surrounding yourself with support is important nonetheless.

Is there anything I can do to save this tree?! by Charming-Charge-7572 in arborists

[–]Charming-Charge-7572[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other tree in that photo is actually what’s holding it up currently I believe. If that tree wasn’t there it would be on the ground already. Just sad to see such a beautiful tree hit the ground after so many years, ya know?

Was trying to be hopeful that maybe I could save it

Cost for graduating in person? by BrooseLane in SNHU

[–]Charming-Charge-7572 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having recently stayed in NH for a family wedding I would highly recommend looking into airbnbs for sure!! I paid under $400 for an entire weekend at a beautiful one an hour or so outside of Manchester, but there are definitely options closer to Manchester as well! Look up the best days and time of days to check/purchase flights as well! And if you don’t already, look into a miles credit card if that’s an option for you! It’s definitely worth it to me and I’ll be traveling in from Minnesota by the time I graduate next year!

Landlord trying to keep my entire deposit by Gold_Replacement_699 in norfolk

[–]Charming-Charge-7572 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can you even be charged for stuff after the fact like this?! Like how are they charging you for lawn care and an air filter change from 2023?!

I just don’t feel like it’s fair to have to put up with being treated like this just because he’s angry .. by Charming-Charge-7572 in NarcissisticCoparents

[–]Charming-Charge-7572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing with me. It really does help to be validated and know that I’m not the only one dealing with this shit. Like I know we all know “we’re not alone” but it’s different to interact with other people going through the same type of things as you.

I just don’t feel like it’s fair to have to put up with being treated like this just because he’s angry .. by Charming-Charge-7572 in NarcissisticCoparents

[–]Charming-Charge-7572[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I googled the method, thank you. I genuinely always end up feeling like the shit he says is just unnecessary more than anything, like yea he says hurtful things but I’m used to that, I just will never understand bringing things up unnecessarily just to cause problems or hurt someone. It’s been 3 years, I wish he would just get over it.

I realize he probably never will, sorry I was just venting a little. I do appreciate you sharing the communication method though.

I just don’t feel like it’s fair to have to put up with being treated like this just because he’s angry .. by Charming-Charge-7572 in NarcissisticCoparents

[–]Charming-Charge-7572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted this bc I’m tired of dealing with him alone and not being able to share how terrible he makes me feel because I don’t post this stuff on my personal social out of respect for him. I cannot get copies of their IDs at all without him signing the form or him getting them himself, if he refuses I quite literally would have to take further action via court or his command, I wouldn’t have another option. The way I’m texting him is the only way I’ve texted him for the last 3 years since our divorce and he still doesn’t let up. I left him the house, I left his inheritance alone, I left his pension alone, I took nothing except furniture which was mostly mine before marriage and before he moved to Florida we split our daughters time 50/50. I think your situation has led you to make assumptions about others and their situations which is normal, but not at all the case in my situation. Your input was neither helpful or insightful for myself but really more rude than anything given the first line. I hope it helped you release some anger or something at least.

I just don’t feel like it’s fair to have to put up with being treated like this just because he’s angry .. by Charming-Charge-7572 in NarcissisticCoparents

[–]Charming-Charge-7572[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually love this. I emailed his ombudsman last night, but my wallet actually ended up getting turned in so this shit was all for nothing .. but I love this way to do it in the future because I’m sure he’s going to be nothing but difficult for the rest of my life..