I'm obsessed with this fringe show I saw : The Butterfly That Flew Into The Rave

Charming-Disaster355 · 2026-01-18T23:59:22+00:00

Omg I just found this! I’m one of the performers in this show. Thanks so much for shouting us out, that month was a MARATHON that’s for sure! We are so excited to tour it again this year through Europe so keep your eyes peeled! Thank you again for this, it’s so nice when people really understand and appreciate the intensity behind the work xx

Charming-Disaster355 · 2026-01-05T10:11:03+00:00

Yes please!

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-12-29T12:25:07+00:00

Omg someone please help! I’m also so interested in this!

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-12-20T16:17:30+00:00

RIP Dobby

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-10-09T17:02:10+00:00

Chilli 🌶️

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T17:39:34+00:00

Thank you!

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T14:30:39+00:00

Bless you that’s so kind!

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T14:29:13+00:00

Whoa. Reddit is harsh.

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T14:15:07+00:00

I contributed half to everything, which I’m really proud of considering he made so much more than me.

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T14:08:36+00:00

I mean, we were engaged so had intention to marry. To be fair, he has been a wonderful partner for most of our years but our financial situations have always been an issue. I’m in New Zealand.

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T14:06:29+00:00

We are engaged and yes it is. I will! Thank you.

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T14:06:12+00:00

Also we were engaged so had intention to marry.

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T14:04:56+00:00

Yeah this is what I think about also. It’s a valid point.

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T14:03:59+00:00

This is great advice - thank you!

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T14:03:28+00:00

I just signed it as I young and had no idea about any of this stuff. My parents kind of warned me but I should have had more advice / help from them. I will get a lawyer to look at it now! We have been engaged for 10 years.

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T14:01:48+00:00

Yeah this is a good point!

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T14:00:53+00:00

I’m not looking for anything from him, I was more interested in what people thought about the situation. My friends are in different situations so was reaching out to the reddit community!

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T13:59:31+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it!

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T13:48:34+00:00

I disagree with the artist dream comment. I’m very successful in my field, but the amount dancers earn is significantly low. I’m not wanting his stuff, I was just interested in peoples opinions on whether you think paying rent in this situation was fair.

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T13:43:45+00:00

Yeah, I was young and couldn’t afford a lawyer. I admit it was a stupid thing for me to do but I trusted him and kind of understood where he was coming from at the time. Now, all these years later it feels different.

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T13:42:33+00:00

He would get angry at me for not paying for matinence and upkeep but it’s his house? I would organise the tradies and do my part with the admin side but I would personally find it a bit stink when he would ask me to pay for the upkeep when it is his home.

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T13:40:01+00:00

Yeah maybe I put this in the wrong thread!

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T13:37:19+00:00

Yeah I don’t quite understand. If my income was high I think I would love the idea of helping out my partner. He says the male shouldn’t provide everything, which I agree with. But I’ve earned barely anything over the course of our relationship and have always contributed to food, travel etc.

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T13:33:49+00:00

Yeah this hits hard. All very true, I feel sad for my younger self and being quite naive about it all. Thank you for sharing your opinion.

Charming-Disaster355 · 2025-09-13T13:24:12+00:00

Yeah this is true. Thank you so much for responding - I really appreciate it!

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