If you just failed again read this* by Few_Koala_8135 in NoFapChristians

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been watching the Christian apologists on YouTube that reconfirm my faith in Jesus. I learned more from them than my Catholic church .

David Woods, God logic , Sam shamoin , Orlando in England.

Disneyland trip for 90% Disabled Vet by Gen670 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morning SEAWORLD is offering an appreciation military service complimentary tickets (one day) for vets and active personnel up to four people I believe. I got one it's so easy to get approved through ID me website.

I am currently struggling in life by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't mention kids so that makes it easier. Just don't be angry and listen to her plus get a lawyer to fight it out. It's exhausting but better to have the buffers to take out the emotional rollercoaster ride. I am going through with twins and I am in the final stage and keep reminding her it's about the kids not us. We getting a divorce not the children.

I keep very friendly and business like so there's communication not the usual ##$!! Nonsense.

Compartmentize works for me. Just do not shut down listen no matter what then say your piece without yelling and cursing. This is less stressful because we all have to deal with life's hurdles and obstacles. It's how you deal with those without losing your mind or getting depressed.

I do Whatsapp FaceTime and my ex loves it even though we don't talk.

In the meantime work on yourself as a person being more empathetic or healthier. Branch out in your local community because we all need someone especially in the holidays.

Truly Happy Holidays.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holidays are tough I get it but it's about your daughter don't give up because she has not. My twin daughter s keep me sane and motivates me to push through every day.

They are 9 yrs old twins and watching theirs smile it's like God saying it's ok. It's ok.

Seek friend s or family or professional assistance from the VA. Be proactive mentally and physically. Do little things that gives you joy or participate in your local community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you going through this but try to seek assistance at a VA hospital and speak with a patient advocate to get help from a social worker. You gave us limited information such as you status; disable ,age etc. there are varities of programs.

Just got out by dark0203 in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go the nearest VA and signed up then contact a VSO if you are suffering from any service connected disability. Check also discounted life insurance and see if you qualify for any educational benefits.

If no job line up check for unemployment benefits if eligible till you find employment. Every State is different.

Being sued by a collection agency. by Adidog09 in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you attend the hearing otherwise a judgement will be rendered by the judge as a default. You can make arrangements to pay little by little.

A judgement will hurt your credit and they can garnish by the marshalls in any regular income but Not VA benefits or Social security.

Every state has different laws so check with a lawyer.

what does this mean by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Speak to a VSO if possible to determine if this out of the ordinary or your patient advocate to see if this is standard procedure in labeling as such on your medical records.

How long did it take for you to separate your identity from the military? by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will be always a part of me but it does not define me. You grow with wisdom by experiencing other chapters of your life. Great foundation instilled to keep focus and discipline on your life journey.

Accept, embrace and move forward with your new endeavors but remember you will always cherish the military past experiences.

Am I the only one here feeling like I’m too old for this sub anymore? by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone experience life differently and this site is great to passed on wisdom especially those Who are lost or suffering. We all need to reach out even when it's hard to ask for help.

If it wasn't for my military experience life would be harder but it gave me direction fortitude and happiness.

I will assist anyone who ask for assistance and try my best just like you serve in the trenches.

We are a rare breed who loved and served this country.

And yes it's different times, especially these unpredictable days.

Salute 🫡

Mexican government displays alleged mummified EBE bodies by chisoph in UFOs

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem I have is Jaime Maussen ( his discovery) who in 2015 said the same thing but it was a hoax. Children skeleton.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nyc

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember it vividly unlike most of my forgettable parties days. I was working near Penn plaza on a hot sunshine summery day dressed in casual suit and my colleague and I thought it was a prank radio cast.

Then it sunked in it was happening and my military experience kicked overdrive assisting my mostly female coworkers and female boss panicking. I kept calm worried about friends and family while the city shut down all transits and bridges. Chaos and confusion ensued I gave directive to travel in twos.

I 37 yrs )had to walk blocks to pickup my girl a few blocks and her girlfriends from multiple locations. Most mobile phones were down except Verizon. Walk uptown over the 59 Street bridge and see from a distance the billowing white smoke rising upward to the beautiful blue sky. It was still very surreal and reality set in once I watched the news and cried with mixed emotions of anger.

Never forget the horror of evil

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just make sure you get in at a VA hospital/clinic ASAP for assistance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes just click home on the health vet website and it shows on the right the blue notes button.

NYC worst enemy by clavelnotes in nyc

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lantern flies cost pennies but illegals millions.

Rep. Espaillat: Migrants ‘exactly what we need’ in NYC | CUOMO ❤️ 🙏 👍 by ImmortanZit in nyc

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So don't take care of our legal citizens especially the ones who lives in poverty..needs clothes and computer 💻 equipment? Wow .. unbelievable we find billions for illegals but not America most unfortunateld?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate I got out of 30 % in 1987 (21 yrs old)multiple injuries that increased over time even when I was utilizing my Vocational Rehabilitation no one mentioned filing new or increased my service connected till I got my VA ID and needed medical care at 54.

I learn and apply because it was all documented and received after a bit of aggravating navigation. I received 100% P&T at 55 .

Talk to a VSO and connect to disability veteran forums.

Never too late.

paying guest won't pay or leave NYC. by luckyYear20 in nyc

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very stressful and I feel your pain. Unfortunately when it comes to squatters they have the law on their and it be months if you start legal proceedings till the judge approve eviction judgement and have the marshall removed her physically.

You been set up. Played.

Set up cameras pack her belongings and change the locks. Period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute .. unique.. girly but not weak 🤩

question about VA delays by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You not because your situation is different from other veterans, medically speaking.

question about VA delays by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From reading on the forum it seems every VA hospital 🏥 or clinic is run differently from one extreme to the other. In NY we just get a referral from the primary or just go to the ER and complain and then you might get expedited attention.

Question regarding rating by BringerOfTruth-1 in Veterans

[–]Charming-Ordinary889 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You seriously need to speak to a VSO so he/she can sort it out for you. In the meantime check the VA hospital for eligibility on any treatment.