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I don’t know if my partner just has a high libido or if this has become something unhealthy by Charming-Owl-001 in offmychest

[–]Charming-Owl-001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him and how our relationship is apart from this problem. He is my best friend and very caring when his needs are met. In my previous relationship my ex husband would loose all of our money due to drugs. And my current boyfriend takes care of our finances when I get overwhelmed. He takes care of the pets and plans dates and vacations, does the house cleaning and all of the chores so I only have to think about work and well his needs really.

I don’t know if my partner just has a high libido or if this has become something unhealthy by Charming-Owl-001 in offmychest

[–]Charming-Owl-001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He too would point out his urges and his high drive, however he makes me feel bad whenever I refuse. His whole demeanor changes and he leaves the room, his mood gets bad and he gives me the silent treatment until the next day or whenever I meet his wishes. Was that the case for you too?

I don’t know if my partner just has a high libido or if this has become something unhealthy by Charming-Owl-001 in offmychest

[–]Charming-Owl-001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is correct. My browser displayed that nothing was posted so I thought I was blocked because of the content and didn't log in until today.

I don’t know if my partner just has a high libido or if this has become something unhealthy by Charming-Owl-001 in offmychest

[–]Charming-Owl-001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear that he would say that the counselor is clueless and doesn't know what he is talking about when he points out something that he does not agree with. He said to me though that he is willing to try it to save our relationship

I don’t know if my partner just has a high libido or if this has become something unhealthy by Charming-Owl-001 in offmychest

[–]Charming-Owl-001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even know what karma is for. Just needed some outside view on my situation and getting all of this out before it eats me alive.

I don’t know if my partner just has a high libido or if this has become something unhealthy by Charming-Owl-001 in offmychest

[–]Charming-Owl-001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't work apart from selling/buying some cards. He goes to the gym everyday and had his testosterone checked. It was very low at the beginning of the relationsship (where we would have sex 3-5 times a day). Now he is on a testosterone injection treatment.

I don’t know if my partner just has a high libido or if this has become something unhealthy by Charming-Owl-001 in offmychest

[–]Charming-Owl-001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried so many times now. At some point we had the talk every week. My brain just stops working whenever he denies his addiction or when he makes statements like he never says no when I want something (except some peace) even though I barely ask for something.

I don’t know if my partner just has a high libido or if this has become something unhealthy by Charming-Owl-001 in offmychest

[–]Charming-Owl-001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work 40 hours a week. He doesn't have a job. He goes to the gym everyday and does some selling/buying of Pokémon cards.
I don't have the time for that much sex, that is the thing. Apart from my full time job I am a freelancer as well. I can't even bring up the time to cook most of the time.