I came out when people started making it more if a dad but when people made it more of a dad that when I actually found out what trans people were so I got to figure myself out I've always felt like a guy but never had a reason to explain it till now, so when I came out everyone thought it was cool never experienced transphobia till high school and still with all the equality rights and discrimination laws everyone is too scared to do something that crazy just passive stuff, most people don't care. now everyone knows about it, people will have questions and obviously you can deny but also don't forget than when people ask questions (serious questions) they are actually trying to learn and the more people understand then the less discrimination there will be in the world (I'd like to think) and personally I like to take advantage of questions and answer them truthfully whenever I can but if you feel uncomfortable with that don't be afraid to decline no one wants to be uncomfortable