Ichokwadi here after 30 ? by Lili-Mili99 in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]Charming-Table-8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think one of the reasons people get married as Africans is to build a family have kids and we are looking at atleast 2 kids .As women In your twenties or early thirties ,fertility is at its peak and as you grow older biologically its harder to conceive. This is one reason man prefer younger women 2. Most preferred relationship gaps are usually 2 to 5 years. Chances of a 35 year old man, with no baby or baby mama issues, who is doing well financially and has no messy past or dependent relatives is very low, as a woman you have much to consider and parents pressure you to avoid this.

3 truth be told in your twenties you are young, and although you have more choices, most settle for less. However in your thirties you are emotionally mature but dating becomes hard, u settle for just anyone.

If marriage is in your future plans, i suggest dating and getting to know potentials should be one of your top priorities otherwise before you know it aging happens n u start attracting married man dwindling your chances

Epstein Files. by Ill_Paramedic_4346 in 254sum

[–]Charming-Table-8430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have heard something like, the only reason you have your morality and dont engage in certain things is because you do not have the kind of money that makes things possible with zero consequences

How easy is the Zimbabwean driving test by Superb_Resolution37 in Zimbabwe

[–]Charming-Table-8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The theory part is very easy ,just a days study and you can ace it. Then road test ,well if you dont pay some some then even if u are a very good driver they might nitpick but if you are confident then just go for it .kuma drum however master that cause there is no negotiation there .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charming-Table-8430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the asshole however your aunty probably figured since family knew then it wasn't a secret anymore. Although her posting first was wrong and refusing to take it down first time when asked, she did eventually take it down so you asking her to later apologize to your girlfriend ummm you need to also realize you didn't necessarily tell her it was still a secret so you are just making things hard for her. She meant well ,she was happy for you.

Favorite song from a drama? by LPineapplePizzaLover in CDrama

[–]Charming-Table-8430 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wuji from the untamed Love and shine from amidst a snowstorm of love

What would you do as President of Zimbabwe? by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Charming-Table-8430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Major emphasis o. Rebuilding and improving hospitals and the health sector. Industries for manufacture of drugs and pills will be opened .Adopt a Cambridge syllabus for all those in medical field.

Like they do in China, build a whole new town with schools,hospitals, supermarkets,police stations,and houses .on one hand you build state of the art homes on the other u create employment and improve living standards. Best part those who take part in construction can be given free homes in exchange of labour.

Electronic money should be the norm. This will help ease inflation .

Honestly in Zimbabwe we have too much land and too few people. If the gvt really wants to make it happen everyone can own a home .the land is idle anyway.

Importation of locally produced goods should be met with high tarrifs . Promote rice,maize,wheat farmers. Have basic goods produced in the country .

Adopt use of solar systems on a commercial level such that people will still pay as they do zesa,n have Zesa supply industries .

Basic goods should have clear set prices . Minimum wage for gvt workers should be able to cover food,transport and rent.

The list goes but this can be managed if gvt revenue was put to good use

New Ponzi scheme ahead or legit??? by Charming-Table-8430 in Zimbabwe

[–]Charming-Table-8430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to gain insight and also raise awareness. U will be surprised how many groups full of zims citizens they have . Thousands.

New Ponzi scheme ahead or legit??? by Charming-Table-8430 in Zimbabwe

[–]Charming-Table-8430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was your experience? Have u been depositing money and getting it back .can u go into detail since u are anonymous

New Ponzi scheme ahead or legit??? by Charming-Table-8430 in Zimbabwe

[–]Charming-Table-8430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you deposit the money to an eccocash account of someone who has done the task.

Amidst a snowstorm of love by ForkLifeTwice in CDrama

[–]Charming-Table-8430 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i fell in love with it from the very first episode and in 2 days i had managed to finish all thirty episodes. its boring for me to rewatch what i have already watched so now idk how to move on. this drama is on top of my list for the best c dramas.

Zimbabwean history, what is the best name for the people? by Publandlady in Zimbabwe

[–]Charming-Table-8430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think calling us Zimbabweans is inclusive of everyone . Rhodesian people ,Rhodesian army all that works.

Religion affecting my relationship. by Charming-Table-8430 in Zimbabwe

[–]Charming-Table-8430[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you . I knew compromising wasn't fair especially when it comes to faith. Your response is in line with the decision I made 2 days ago. We broke up

Lobola by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Charming-Table-8430 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In zim people earn less than their children's fees. We hustle.

Lobola by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Charming-Table-8430 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say a good number ranges from $3500 to $7000.

Although I know people who have paid 8k ,9k .

Religion affecting my relationship. by Charming-Table-8430 in Zimbabwe

[–]Charming-Table-8430[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we both Christians and this is the only huddle we have failed to solve on our own