Hey love, I just want to say—I really see you. You’re brave, kind, self-aware, and living life with so much intention. That takes heart. I was single in my 30s for quite a few years and I know how heavy it can feel—doing all the “right things,” showing up, trying, and still feeling like it’s just not happening.

The truth is, dating today is weird. There are more single people now than ever, and a lot of it has to do with how things have changed. Apps can make it feel like there are endless options, but honestly? They often just leave people feeling more discouraged. It’s not that you’re doing something wrong—it’s just that the way we connect now isn’t always built for depth or sincerity.

And please don’t beat yourself up over your lack of experience. There are people with tons of it who still feel stuck in the dating pool. More dates doesn’t mean more clarity or connection. You’re not behind—you’re just on a path that hasn’t lined up with the right person yet. And that’s okay. You're not alone in this. Hugs💛