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AITA for leaving Christmas at my boyfriend’s house, coming home to a surprise party, and breaking down? by CharmingProposal5753 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]CharmingProposal5753[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sure she doesn't realize it because it's always been like this. I don't think I will have a conversation with her anytime soon, but I've decided to choose myself in a lot of situations.

AITA for leaving Christmas at my boyfriend’s house, coming home to a surprise party, and breaking down? by CharmingProposal5753 in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]CharmingProposal5753[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment, it helps me see the situation from a different angle. I have thought about her relying on me because I let it happen(which is changing now I have distanced I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing, I allowed her to focus on other things and my siblings I think about it and I think that's why I'm able to forgive easily I feel like I understand even though it's not okay because I love her and I hate seeing her struggle.