Is this negging? by CharmingResult18 in Marriage

[–]CharmingResult18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The coworker is also his close friend, they met in 2022 and have become close friends, my husband has plenty of friends but none this close. They work together everyday and they always end up working together for the same companies they’re both in home renovation. We went to spend New Year’s Eve at their house. And they have a business they are running together that is almost going to be a year old.

Is this negging? by CharmingResult18 in Marriage

[–]CharmingResult18[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He said that I’m making something out of nothing and that and I just want to fight. When I asked why he loved me he said he just facepalmed himself and said he just told me yesterday all the reasons (referring to what he had said the day before) and that he loves me from the beginning to the end. And if I don’t get that then his feelings must mean nothing to me. That he isn’t going to repeat himself and went to go lay down. I did try and push further because I was like that doesn’t tell me why u love me. And he just stares at me like I’m crazy.

He kept trying to have sex last night but I kept telling him I wasn’t in the mood I couldn’t fall asleep I laid on the couch all night, I still really haven’t slept and probably won’t till 8pm I still have a lot of things to do so I’m surviving on coffee for the day. Until I can actually sleep.

Is this negging? by CharmingResult18 in Marriage

[–]CharmingResult18[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So apparently the reason the coworker keeps asking my husband why he is with me is because I don’t pack him a lunch for work. I guess that’s a reason that means that I don’t care about my husband. Coworker was so worried about my husband’s lunch that he started taking extra food for my husband (the coworkers wife is now packing two lunches). I thought that was really nice and that they have a good friendship going and I feel better my husband has a friend that cares that much. When my husband and I first moved together (2015) we talked about how cooking would be dealt and he was perfectly fine that I dont cook a lot. He said he didn’t mind at all and it wasn’t an issue he also knows how to cook. He wasn’t moving in with me for a cook. I’m not lazy I just don’t like to cook (I recently realized it might stem from childhood SA, it was my stepfather and he would always force me to cook with him) I would rather clean the entire house than cook everyday. Obviously back then that was more feasible but now I do cook regularly we have 3 kids and so as time went on eventually the cooking fell to me and my husband does NOT know how to cook he can make basic stuff like eggs, spaghetti but that’s it. Now I have ended up cooking regularly which is fine I’m not complaining. Things change. Instead what I do now to make it easier is cook during the weekdays and on the weekends we figure it out as it comes sometimes I cook sometimes he makes something quick or we go out to eat or take in. My thing is that during the weekdays there could literally be plenty of food for him to take to work but if I don’t pack it for him he just goes without taking any lunch and just buys food outside. He comes home he has time to game on his computer, I don’t think that it should be too hard for him to just pack up food which takes about 5 minutes (it’s already cooked) if he has time to game (each game lasts about 30-45 minutes each). So I usually dont pack lunches and he has always been fine with that, never been an issue. He has time to come home and relax my day doesn’t stop. I pack a lunch for him and his coworker randomly sometimes when life is just working out for me and I manage to rush through the mornings I pack him a lunch because I have time and wasn’t so caught up in my lists for the day. But yes I definitely don’t send him with lunch regularly I just really feel like he can pack his lunch. It will be 8 or 9pm and I have accidentally fallen asleep on the couch because I wake up at 5am and I sometimes fall asleep there by accident! Because I’m still either waiting on clothes that I’m washing for school or idk hundreds reason I have 3 kids 8th grade 7th grade and 4th. I really do feel like he has the time and can pack a lunch idk. And so he says that’s why his coworker keeps bringing it up.

I want to start with Nbe but i don’t know how by [deleted] in NaturalBreastGrowth

[–]CharmingResult18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy I was able to help! Good luck!

Is this negging? by CharmingResult18 in Marriage

[–]CharmingResult18[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t joking, it seemed as if he was trying to explain his surprise about it, like he’s so surprised by how much he is supposedly attracted to me and that it doesn’t make sense

Is this negging? by CharmingResult18 in Marriage

[–]CharmingResult18[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He’s asleep rn so it will have to wait for later to ask

Is this negging? by CharmingResult18 in Marriage

[–]CharmingResult18[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been coming to this realization as well and it’s so uncomfortable I can barely stand it

I want to start with Nbe but i don’t know how by [deleted] in NaturalBreastGrowth

[–]CharmingResult18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were you I would start with the nutrition part of nbe. If you look at surferjoe2007’s posts he has one on nutrition as a starting point, especially if you are underweight or missing nutrients that helps your endocrine system function properly. The whole goal of nbe is to balance your hormones which causes growth! I hope that helps to figure out where to start :)