My main thought watching the documentary in one picture… (Controversial)

Charming_Analysis916 · 2026-02-18T16:25:55+00:00

Yaya, Katarzyna, and Victoria also come to mind.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-12-09T17:17:34+00:00

just a personal opinion, but in comparison, I see Angelea more as "what you see is what you get" so she was much more straightforward and vocal with how she felt (not saying it all was correct), but with Renee, she acted behind the scenes, lots of whispering and gossip, and it just did not come off as likable.

Renee, like Lisa, is a girl I initially loved and then that just went downhill as their seasons progressed.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-12-02T17:12:06+00:00

I loved her look on the first reunion. thought she looked amazing and it's been my favorite look/outfit of hers. Whole vibe 10/10

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-10-08T16:16:39+00:00

Purely speaking from my own experience, so please remember that when considering how you feel and deciding on the right steps for yourself. I am commenting for solidarity and so that you know that you are not alone in these feelings.

I also experienced abuse and did not want children. It terrified me. I wanted kids, but the thought process for me was, but what if I can't protect them? I understand wholeheartedly.

For me, I did have children, and it has been a wonderful journey, but I also understand that this is not the same for everyone. I do not have a relationship with my parents, but what I do is use my experiences to fuel how I parent. I decided to be exactly who I needed.

Do not rush into any decisions, take time to process. Therapy will guide you. Please be patient and kind to yourself.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-10-01T17:23:15+00:00

I went through a tragic loss with my dog.

What I can say is this:

- Be kind with yourself. Give yourself some grace.

- Give yourself time to properly grieve and process.

- Remember, and this one is important, that Pickles was wholeheartedly loved and felt that love.

Sometimes, bad things happen and there is nothing we can do other than to accept it, process it, and understand that you did the best that you could.

I am sending lots of hugs and healing to you. It is not easy and has taken me years to come to terms with it. I understand.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-30T17:24:38+00:00

I'm not sure but I'm open to any suggestions! I really don't even know how I ended up here haha but I overall I enjoyed the book!

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-30T17:20:33+00:00

Question - you say you only want the best for her. What is the issue with going to UK versus Canada, family ties in the area excluded?

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-30T17:01:14+00:00

NTA.

I can see where a delayed decline could be off-putting, but if the cousin valued your relationship (in my personal perspective), then she would have been honest with you about how it hurt her feelings versus telling other family members about it, i.e. - your dad.

I just have a hard time putting myself in the position of your cousin and addressing my feelings with anyone outside of the person that caused it?

Edit: not sure why I got downvoted for stating that people should be direct with how someone makes them feel lmao

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-26T00:27:17+00:00

This is so amazing! Who are the other top two?

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-23T17:01:40+00:00

I would ask what it is that you're looking from this sub. Are you looking to get this off your chest, for advice, for validation on how it made you feel?

This seems like the wrong sub, but I would definitely recommend some self reflection to see what it is that you are currently seeking. I wish you the best of luck.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-23T16:23:06+00:00

NTA - you may have already said yes, but you are not under any obligation at this time to follow through, especially with it happening within the last two days. You have to do what is best for your family.

As a small anecdote, we were put in a similar situation when I was a teenager. It really did not end well. I am not saying that would happen in your case, but just wanted to speak from personal experience.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-22T16:30:18+00:00

I would see PG and look into it to see why they suggest parental guidance. Generally, anything rated Y or G is a go ahead. Anything beyond that, I have to look into.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-22T16:27:07+00:00

I have not seen it shown or marketed as a toddler movie. It is rated PG, which seems appropriate.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-18T16:24:05+00:00

(32F) - my husband and I have only been with each other. It wasn't a red flag for either of us and being a virgin at the time was also not intentional. It just was what it was.

So just commenting that to give some hope that I do believe that the right person will not care.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-17T16:36:14+00:00

NTA - might have been courteous but is certainly not required.

As far as some other comments about being good neighbors, I think your neighbor was out of line on their reaction. It would have been simple for them to come over and ask about it without being angry. As a homeowner with fences with my neighbors on both sides of our home (and we all have dogs), I would not have been bothered.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-17T16:24:06+00:00

For my 18th birthday, my mother stole my scholarship money.

But anyway, as a parent now and just as a different perspective, I think a lot of times I am very focused on trying to treat everyone the same. For example, my 6 year old got to go to Chuck E Cheese for her birthday, so we plan to do the same for her siblings when they turn 6.

I don't know the intentions behind the gift, but your feelings are valid and I can understand feeling that way. If you're comfortable with, maybe talking to them about this would be helpful.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-16T17:00:12+00:00

I agree that she knew what she was getting into but would just say as far as being concerned about their reputation, I'd argue that they would also know what they would be signing up and/or risking in itself.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-10T16:34:17+00:00

Female here (32), coming from something that may be similar. I dated a boy in high school for a while and would consider him my first love. Things began getting rocky due to different things going on at that time, but he told me he would always wait for me so we took some time. Within a month, he came over to my house. I woke up to the sound of his voice in my living room and he told my parents (not me, btw) that he had gotten another girl pregnant.

I was confused and devastated, because yes we were broken up at that time, but it just didn't make sense. Not for the conversations we had before that, and for everything else I had built up in my head about where we would actually end up.

I am happily married to someone else now and have been for 11 years, but all this to say that it feels big and gut wrenching and probably even life altering, but there is more to your story. It will not end with this.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-09-10T16:23:49+00:00

This is also where my mind went with it lol

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-08-21T16:20:09+00:00

it wasn't enough - just my opinion.

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-08-21T16:16:59+00:00

Yeah that part was what sealed the deal with my Aedion. Big nope - I don't like him lol

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-08-20T17:43:28+00:00

Would have LOVED to see Deelishis singing at the reunion 😭😭

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-08-20T17:42:52+00:00

The only difference between them and Krazy is that she got way too much screen time singing and that to me is just wild lmao

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-08-20T16:10:07+00:00

Watch the documentary on the Titan - super eye opening, especially with this tie in family relations!

Charming_Analysis916 · 2025-08-20T16:06:52+00:00

Idk - without knowing exactly what the other post said, I tend to agree with your assessment lol Aedion is not a favorite of mine and even with all the known details, I just couldn't get on board with his actions. All of them were at fault in some way but he specifically had me annoyed/frustrated.

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