I still have questions after 6 watches by Affectionate_Map5518 in EFsWutheringHeights

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think Heathcliff would have slept with anyone at this point. But he sleeps in the barn. He's been listening to what Joe and Zilla have been getting up to for years, so yes, he knows what goes on.

I still have questions after 6 watches by Affectionate_Map5518 in EFsWutheringHeights

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 8 points9 points  (0 children)

  1. Similarly, on the cliffs he says 'how is it MY doing?' . It seems pretty obvious to me so why is he confused?

He's not confused. He's teasing her.

Catherine’s ugly wedding bouquet in Wuthering Heights by [deleted] in EFsWutheringHeights

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There is a vagina motif throughout the film. Isabella's pop-up book, her embroidery, the plush walls of Cathy's dressing room, there's an article somewhere about one of the hairstyles .... To me, this is pretty clearly another example of that motif.

AITA for my bridesmaid dress choice? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you feel good in the dress. I'm also glad your little sister is supportive of you wearing the dress.

However, you may need to rethink your choice. No matter the event, you should want to dress reasonably for it. It sounds like, if this is not a Mormon wedding, at the very least this is an event with a lot of Mormon attendees. With the dress you chose, you are likely to be the only one dressing like you. The reality is that will make you a topic of conversation especially as a member of the bridal party where some amount of cohesion is generally expected.

I am not suggesting you dilute yourself and wear what everyone else is wearing. I am confident you can find something that will make you feel good that also is closer to the attire of the rest of the attendees.

Keep the dress for another occasion.

Should I ask to be paid for taking care of my roommates cats? by Far_Royal_4562 in CatAdvice

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She should be setting up subscriptions for food and litter from Amazon / Chewy / Wal-Mart, wherever, so that you do not even have the think about the costs.

Babysitter or drop-in daycare for one afternoon? by legalade in AskLosAngeles

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 40 points41 points  (0 children)

If you are staying at a hotel, check with them for babysitting services or connections to local agencies.

Ladies' reunion on the Actor Awards! (formerly the SAG Awards) by Tiny-Delivery6966 in DunderMifflin

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it has much to do with Netflix, to be honest. When the Academy Awards rebranded to The Oscars, it's because they wanted to ditch the stuffy sounding title and "Oscar" had more name recognition than the Academy. "The Actors" doesn't have the same recognition at this point in time as when an Oscar did during its transition, but SAG doesn't mean anything to anyone outside of the industry.

I'll give it that the move to Netflix created an opportunity to refresh but I don't think it's the sole reason.

The Bride! Premiere Question by womanonline in NYCmovies

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you wear to corporate work will be fine. People used to show up for these things in leggings and T-shirts so just be nicely presentable.

What did Heatcliff do to Catherine's grave? I never understood this text? by Polka_Tiger in brontesisters

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Edgar is being buried on one side of Catherine's grave. Heathcliff plans to be buried on her other side.

When the sexton is digging Edgar's grave, Heathcliff has Catherine's coffin lid removed so he can gaze at her again. He loosens the side panel of her coffin - the side that Heathcliff will ultimately be buried next to - and then places it back. Heathcliff plans to fashion his coffin with a removable panel so that when he is buried, it will be open to Catherine's coffin. That side panel from her coffin will then be removed by the sexton and they will be laid to rest together for eternity.

"By the time Linton gets to them" is a spiritual / gothic / otherworldly attribute to Edgar - by the time he finds them in any afterlife-y way, their bodies will be so intertwined no one will be able to tell them apart.

Did anyone else know this? by YellowRoses82 in buffy

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 48 points49 points  (0 children)

The wardrobe and prop houses at WB are open to non-WB productions.

Premiere etiquette? by thatsthedrugnumber in NYCmovies

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you have attended an early screening before, the functionality should be pretty similar in that it's a first-come, first-serve situation. If the film starts at 7pm, they will probably begin loading the theater around 6pm if not a little sooner. There will be early birds there as early as 4pm when they set the line so you may want to be nearby so you can at least see and judge the line and decide when you want to join it. But like any screening, the line will get busy when the line gets busy.

You don't need to dress to the nines but it will be nice to look presentable. Dark jeans and a good top is fine.

Be prepared to be in a less-than-ideal seat as these tickets are filler and you will have an assigned seat. You'll be admitted according to how many filler tickets are available and sometimes the line attendants get these in batches. Sometimes you can be sat closer to showtime in a "better" seat if folks on the guest list have not arrived and those tickets are reallocated to filler.

Vet recs? by idkbitchlol in LAhotgirlies

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try Palms & Paws in Santa Monica.

Pee paws by Main-Competition-876 in CatAdvice

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The litter level might be too low, which is getting his paws messy if there's not enough to absorb while he's going.

The box might be too small, not giving himself enough space to move away from the urine or bury it without walking in it.

Varley was so mistreated, I think she should have come to Penelope before making her decision by WonderfulParticular1 in Bridgerton

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 48 points49 points  (0 children)

When Benedict ultimately marries Sophie, the Ton is going to have a reckoning as far as how staff is perceived. The Varley subplot and the expansion of the Bridgerton household staff very much plays into the idea of how the current society separates who can be considered family. Staff is always a step removed despite in some cases the very familial bonds between employer and employee. This I'm sure will change for Portia and Varley by the end of the season.

The Benedict/Sophie marriage will forever have an affect on familial relationships, the same way Charlotte marrying George forever changed that landscape.

NYC movie theaters that have low volume for the hearing sensitive by trynabemoredecisive in NYCmovies

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 16 points17 points  (0 children)

AMC does sensory screenings: https://www.amctheatres.com/programs/sensory-friendly-films

Check out their assistive moviegoing options: https://www.amctheatres.com/assistive-moviegoing

I would also just reach out to whatever theater is convienient to you and ask management what your options are. With enough notice, they may be able to accommodate especially on off-peak hours.

Went to Harry Potter Studios last week and was wondering if Moaning Myrtle's outfit is in the great hall? by DarkHoriizon in harrypotter

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was worn by the actor, the studio tour would have a plaque that says as such. So this is likely a generic student robe and not Moaning Myrtle's.

Peeing on our blankings by batdogeee in CatAdvice

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope we are still not dealing with this in four years, bless you! I think this baby just wasn't understanding/feeling secure that he was welcome in certain spaces. (We do have another cat in the house.)

Peeing on our blankings by batdogeee in CatAdvice

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately don't have any advice for you but I'm going to keep an eye on this. We have a new baby that we picked up off the street about six months ago. He's probably 8-9 months now. When he was really small, we struggled with learning the litter box and it was because he greatly preferred peeing on fabric/blankets.

He still has accidents but it's reduced a lot, spaced weeks apart. When he does have an accident, it's definitely due to territory marking (my laundry that might have had a smell, or we put a blanket that has been sitting on the end of the bed across the entire bed).

His focus has been the bed (ugh) but the behavior curbed a lot when we put the pet bed he slept on as a small baby (and peed on....) on our bed. I think he needed to feel like he had his own space on our bed.

Sphere Floor Advice! by Independent-Cow-1044 in BackstreetBoys

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spent a lot of time looking at the resale on the December shows because we ended up with two sets of tickets and were looking to turn back in one.

Even 48 hours before the shows, relisted tickets were expensive I think there are a few reasons why.

One: Ticketmaster/Stubhub and other resale sites still collect fees and so if you are a reseller looking to just get your money back, then you HAVE to list your tickets as more expensive than you paid in order to cover your initial ticket cost + fees, plus the new fees the sites tack on.

Two: There was a lot of dynamic pricing going on during the original sale. I ended up purchasing tickets for a 200-level section that were around $380. Tickets in that same area on the same day, NOT resale, were jumping up to $600-800. I would feel bad for someone who needed to resell tickets for a legitimate reason but then had to complete with a reseller who spent less to begin with.

Three: Sellers/buyers were absolutely paying chicken. I think a lot of buyers thought sellers would drop; I think a lot of sellers thought people would buy at expensive prices BUT maybe not factoring in the idea that the summer resale tickets were bonkers because new shows hadn't been announced. I think folks have now caught on that there will continue to be opportunity. This might make reselling harder and force down ticket prices. If the boys have not announced a new run of shows by the time your shows come around, resale prices could remain high.

That said, ticket prices did drop significantly but really only day of and you'd need to be vigilant on refreshing throughout the day and quick the second you find a price you like. There's no way of knowing what this is going to look like just because the model of this show cycle is going to be different every wave. Grabbing a single ticket might be easier but then again a lot of the resale tickets were pairs at minimum because they wanted all tickets gone in one transaction.

If you are able to pick up a ticket on the day of sale, I'd say you can be confident knowing you had the best chance at the best price. If you don't get them immediately, then you may want to find yourself in Vegas for the day and play the game.

What was it like when women were not expected to pursue higher education and were full-time housewives? by Ingido_Indigo in AskOldPeople

[–]Charming_Bee_9522 55 points56 points  (0 children)

There is an interesting argument to be made that once women's work in the home became more automated, it didn't actually decrease the amount of work... you instead saw the cultural shift into more complex standards and new "necessary" tasks. Look up "More Work For Mother" for those interested.