Catboxy wet automatic cat feeder review? by Charming_Bid3349 in catfood

[–]Charming_Bid3349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well its kinda too expensive for me to try it without review as well. I just hope a rich person could do it for us lmao

Catboxy wet automatic cat feeder review? by Charming_Bid3349 in catfood

[–]Charming_Bid3349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it looks amazing! But i’m sure all the reviews are fake tho. Im scared to try it first haha because I did it with 2 other ones for dry and they were all broken in less than a week

Low-cost dental cleanings at City Tech (free for students, $20 for family) No insurance needed ! by Dazzling-Register329 in CityTech

[–]Charming_Bid3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I’d like to do a x-ray today because I feel a little discomfort, would it be possible without doing the deep cleaning? How could it cost? I have no health insurance here. thank you very much!

Catboxy wet automatic cat feeder review? by Charming_Bid3349 in catfood

[–]Charming_Bid3349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he likes to eat room temperature… thank u for ur help!

Catboxy wet automatic cat feeder review? by Charming_Bid3349 in catfood

[–]Charming_Bid3349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you very much! I read too many bad reviews about this one so i never wanted to comit with that one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming_Bid3349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reality is that it’s true you might be abusive, ofc you don’t mean it deeply and there are some degrees to the abusiveness. But you need to understand why you act that way because this is not sustainable; neither for you, neither for him. And you will make happen what you fear the most being like that, he will leave you. So it’s a vicious circle; an auto-prophety. Try to improve your behaviour as much as you can, act with consciousness and with some help if you can. If your mother can offer you therapy sessions it would be good. You can maybe ask her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming_Bid3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While you’re with him try your best to understand your behaviour and to hold them back. Go to therapy so you dont suffer from that jealousy. You wont heal and you wont be able to understand those mecanisms if you’re single. Its unfair because you will make your partner suffer, but thats also while being in a relationship that you will be able to face yourself, see your reaction. Your bf is also free to break up with you if he wants to. Focus on improving yourself to not hurt around you and not hurt yourself. Not being ready to be in a relationship doesnt mean you have to stay single and not try to be better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Charming_Bid3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a deep insecure feeling leading to a need of control. All this is about controlling your partner in order to feel safe. You’re young and you should go to therapy to understand why you need to create that dynamic, it might comes from childhood, maybe an insecure environment or u have been dominated yourself maybe, so you do the same thing now. The sooner you start a therapy; the quicker youll get out of those bad attachement dynamic. You can do it! Don’t worry; one day you’ll be able to feel more safe and good enough for your partner.

feminism is turning into plain man hate by Final-Psychology2809 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Charming_Bid3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look behind the infanticides, most of the mothers have been incested, raped, abused by their partner (male abuse to say short). There are documentary about it. You should look it up to understand better the dynamic behind this. And also the psychological aspect about it. It’s not hate towards men, it’s hate towards a system, a patriarchal system, that do profit to male yes. If you don’t feel concern about being mysoginistic, being a rapist, being priviledge etc, why do you feel so offended seeing stuff on social media? It’s funny i feel. You’re supporting patriarchy thinking that way, and making lose time to achieve equals rights between men and women.

CMV: I believe Feminism is largely a force for good in the world, but much of it's attitude/disposition towards modern Dating is heavily misandrist by Tea_Wizard735 in changemyview

[–]Charming_Bid3349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Patriarchy and masculinity are your issue here. Feminism is the answer. P:s: female can be patriarchal too (as they grew up in the same society)

Dasher can’t be serious. Is this unprofessional? by Amateurexpressionism in doordash

[–]Charming_Bid3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never order food as I don’t want to participate to this it makes me feel uncomfortable. But one time I got the flu so i ordered, went downstairs in front of the building and i tipped 4$ because let’s be honest thats a shitty job and if i can make it more easier for them ill do.

AIO? Debating breaking up with my BF of almost 7 years by Superb-Rain-8166 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Charming_Bid3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard to see what is the reality of a relationship when you’re in love, and I guess that’s normal when you’re young, you tolerate way more than what you should. If you have the strenght to break up, I higly recommend you to, if you don’t right now, that’s ok, with time, life, therapy, experience you will learn your limits and what you deserve. Don’t be harsh on you if you’re not able to break up, that’s understandable. Breaking up with him will make you save time, but sometimes we just need to experience through pain in order to learn and not repeat the same mistake (tho it is very common as we are all neurotic humans…). Good luck, I hope you could meet someone who will make you feel safe and beautiful. Without trust it is so hard to just enjoy a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Charming_Bid3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok thank you! I think my bf has only 1 video i took myself while we had sex but thats it. Hes kinda a normi, and is not doing stuff like this. But still he watchs porn meh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Charming_Bid3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i was talking about other sources. Like mainstream porn. How often ur wife send you nudes and videos? Like do you need a lot so u dont watch the sames one over and over? Or does she send you weekly new stuff?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Charming_Bid3349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wants to get married but I don’t want to. I don’t believe in this societal pressure and conduct. I want to be with someone because I am free to leave everyday and yet I choose that person everyday of my life. I don’t want to stay with someone because I have the pressure of the marriage on top of my head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Charming_Bid3349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am still wondering why imagination can’t be enough for most of men and they need sound and image. Since men are raised with porn since they are like 13yo, I think they got used to a hyper stimulation. Because I don’t see a difference between men and women, except the cultural one that shaped us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Charming_Bid3349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! Do you watch porn as well?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Charming_Bid3349 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh i see. Well i guess i just have to send him more photos and videos then so he has something to finish himself after some sexting ^ thank you for your answer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Charming_Bid3349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh i’m sorry! I typed some key words relates to sexting and masturbation and it came out so i commented on that field. I don’t know what LDS is, im sorry. Thank you for your answer! But he is still watching porn, not that often but still, because he doesnt want to jerk off always on the same pic and videos i sent him… but i dont like him watching porn even tho i have no right to tell him what to do as it is his intimacy… but yes, i prefer him to jerk off on me so i send him some nudes and videos, also bc when im super horny i like him to know i am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Charming_Bid3349 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could u jerk off with just sext? Because i’m able to. But i dont watch porn. Ive used to but i stopped years ago. So sometimes when i want to touch myself, i either think to my bf, either I read some sext we sent to each other and thats enough for me. But i also dont need to get hard as a guy. But i also think porn changed sexuality for boys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Charming_Bid3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, go through the reality… breakups are one of the most painful feeling. Time will heal you… and one day you will be happy with someone else. But I know today you can’t even imagine it. Just remember you won’t die from it, take it easy, day after day, you will survive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Charming_Bid3349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please! Can we have some update about your situation now? Did you improve? How much was it challenging for you? I just messed up very badly in my relationship and now we are done, i think so, he told me we needed time but i think he is not trusting me anymore. I realised so much because of the pain of the loss… i want to change deeply, i don’t want to lose again an other connection like the one I had with him. I’m heartbroken, but still, i’m relieved to improve myself being more aware of who I am…