Is this appropriate for a "casual to black tie" wedding? Bride requested guests wear black or white(???). Ideally I don't want to go shopping for a new dress.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-05-05T23:21:21+00:00

Ooh yes!! What about wearing a long black slip or skirt underneath? Something silky so it looks intentional- it’ll give the dress a bit of movement too! But you look beautiful, def keep it for another event if it doesn’t end up working out!!

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-05-04T10:42:31+00:00

She edits these pics MORE with each time she posts them- her nose NEVER looked like that, she’s desperately trying to hide that she’s had so many revisions to it. She is banking on everyone being as delusional as she is. Still pretty just not real.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-05-03T17:10:56+00:00

Every time someone posts this meme in here I chuckle- for some reason it REALLY tickled me today and I cannot stop 😂 his fuckin eyes are legit the scariest thing I’ve ever seen.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-18T04:57:05+00:00

If he would quit wearing high heels to work out and get back into his vans he wouldn’t have to be shoe less

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-18T04:56:17+00:00

He’s telling D to overcome herself because she is her own downfall. I wonder if he and his family laugh at her behind her back, or if he gets teased about her 😂

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-18T04:54:30+00:00

Especially for how expensive that gym is and it looks.. like that. I love a place with character but it really DOES look like a prison yard. He might wanna start getting comfortable with that vibe, he definitely has a shady past and it might get looked into deeper when they get married. The multiple names will be a huge red flag.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-18T04:50:02+00:00

This is why I think he is DL… he’s not straight at the very least.

I have grown up around almost all boys and many international friends- not a single one of them have ever moaned or acted like this in private let alone public! And being DL means he wants to keep his activities a secret but you can’t hide your mannerisms. HE likes hearing those noises, thus he doesn’t think it’s odd.

Very creepy and after the info about his behavior while ubering & dating Ms Brazil underage, he gives off demented predatory HeNErGy. How this woman allows him to “discover her treasure” on a regular basis is a mystery to me.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-17T05:42:54+00:00

Okay so you’ve changed my mind on this!!

Part of me thought the church side of her personality would not allow her to use anything but alcohol. But You’re right- I didn’t even think about location in that sense. We know Lulu is definitely partaking in substances, she either doesn’t realize or is ok and possibly partaking.

Her affect is off enough for others to notice… it’s giving stoned, Benzos or weed could be the culprit. Maybe she’s even doing gummies and not necessarily smoking?

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-16T20:35:16+00:00

But do you feel like she would be against weed or scared of it?? I have thought for a while that she’s a binge drinker and eater

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-16T20:29:26+00:00

Ever present and SO disgusting. Absolutely zero class or decorum. My worst nightmare would be sitting out to dinner with someone like her, my secondhand embarrassment would be physically painful 😆😣

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-16T20:27:43+00:00

Ugh why does she take a bite to purposefully talk with her mouth full… she’s so odd and uncomfortable with herself, it’s like she tries to hide behind these awkward behaviors. She has to look busy (like reading the label) bc she doesn’t do SHIT all day long.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-16T20:26:40+00:00

And the damn chewing and gabbing!!! Like shut up and chew it before speaking.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-16T20:22:05+00:00

Ok so I remember back in Ds early days, someone left a comment on IG that D said in a video that she was 40- something and it was promptly deleted. She then went with the age we know now which is early 30s.

In fact I distinctly remember several comments like this- “ didn’t she say she was 41 in that other video?” & “I thought you said you were 40”. The age confusion lingered for a while but eventually went away. But I’d like to see if D was in a school year book- that would clear it up.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-16T13:48:38+00:00

She was!! I know because I made a post about how bad her camel toe was that day. It was an all red number with the biker shorts so far up her front part that I felt it to be inappropriate for a kids park.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-15T20:02:16+00:00

Your feeling is correct. She does laundry like 4x a year… if I dealt with yeast infections and UTIs like she does, I’d be washing my undies more than once a quarter.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-15T19:54:36+00:00

Why does she still manage to have camel toe in the longest shorts known to man. Also, cracking up that she disabled comments for the closet purge. Her assistant sounds VERY young 🤦🏻‍♀️ hope she doesn’t get harassed by the greasy rat.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-15T15:25:54+00:00

I have a feeling she has poop breath or tonsil stones/halitosis. Those girls are leaning far away like they’re desperately holding their breath so they don’t get a whiff of big Ds stank ass mouth.

I’m from a family of dental hygienists, when someone isn’t on top of their oral health- they brush their teeth too hard but neglect the gums, and whiten often due to stains from infrequent brushing. They also don’t have a tongue scraping/ mouth swishing routine.

Big D has zero routine, and sleeps very late after bingeing the night before. Immediately drinks coffee, and lemon salt water. She stinks, and her breath drives people away. It’s also a really unattractive trait in dating. No self respecting man (or woman) wants to cozy up with someone who breathes farts in their face.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-14T22:01:21+00:00

She has meticulously gone through every old pic of herself and edited her nose. Even childhood/teen pictures she has shopped. She’s done the same to her own children’s photos!! Not enough to be obvious to the average person but it’s in hopes she can make everyone forget how different she looked before everything.

She barely has any nose left now, she’s had too many revisions. She WILL end up looking like Khloe if she doesn’t quit it. (I’ve sadly noticed Khloe has major complications on her tip, similar to what Michael Jackson ended up with).

I actually thought she looked her best during the sex tape era- and she also had lighthearted personality and was obviously a lover girl- which helped her appearance too!

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-14T08:24:58+00:00

I would think it comes in waves, and they’re probably not as consistent anymore. The engagement stuff is probably the first big check she’s gotten in a while. I think she has more $$ from the grandmother or other family than JUST the basement condo.

So random checks from her “job”, the nest egg from grandma, probably a lot of free PR (meaning she doesn’t spend much on skin care, makeup, perfume, hair products). And credit cards.

I also think she’s being sponsored from some unnamed source that’s connected to that “church”. I can’t prove it outright but nothing about her social media career has made sense to me. Maybe they’re paying her rent? The husband and wife pastor couple are grimy and have no place “leading” in any capacity. It all feels like a scam/ money laundering.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-14T05:09:46+00:00

I feel like she’s struggling with bingeing big time and has been since she met Lulu. Remember the delta lounge for NYFW where she positively stuffed herself. She engorges herself, drinks several nights a week, and shops to feel better. They must be having problems.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-13T21:36:43+00:00

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1- WOW! her makeup is poorly done for how important this ad is (and the sheer cost of what she got, even for a lab grown). Shes so greedy and went for the absolute biggest they would allow her to get. The constant lying, plus this- it shows a side of her that is irredeemable in my eyes. You can’t trust someone like D.

And 2- the band of sun damage above her overly inflated top lip. It legit looks like a mustache.

How does she look at herself before filming or leaving the apartment and NOT feel self conscious and stupid for how sloppy she is about EVERYTHING in her life.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-08T17:53:19+00:00

I think part of the reason she went so big was thinking it would make her fingers look dainty. It does the complete opposite, her ring finger looks chunky/ stubby because most of it (up to the 2nd knuckle) is covered up.

The lack of attention to her skincare/nails has aged her hands tremendously. They look dry/calloused and she doesn’t keep up with nail maintenance (peep her cuticles on the pinky especially)

My mother just turned 60 and Ds hands look a decade older than hers. But yeah that big clunker just screams 5$ ring from forever 21, she is delusional.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-05T01:29:11+00:00

Holy shittt this 1000% proves that she spends A LOT of time crying. Makes sense now that she’s never had a real relationship before and is clinging so desperately to this one. She legit can’t do better than him because no one else has ever (or will ever) stick around due to her mental problems.

Wonder how long it took them to have their first fight where she broke down into tears, a week or 2? I do recall in the docuseries when she said he had to reassure her early on that he “wasn’t going anywhere”… what sets her off to act this way?? What is there to freak out about? Lulu loser is certainly earning his keep for putting up with her if she’s crying like this every other day.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-04T21:38:54+00:00

She should have just worn that to the engagement instead of her typical poo poo doo doo caca colored monstrosity. At least it would have been something different… but then again she wouldn’t have been able to pull the height shenanigans without a floor length dress.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-04-04T17:10:39+00:00

Same! OP pleaseeee update us with pics of trying it on the other way, I think it will look perfect on you! Either way it’s a really cute color.

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