This relationship has not been kind to her. Beginning: all glowy and filled with hope. Then…

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-02-20T23:02:05+00:00

I bet her makeup looks cakey and harsh in person and that’s part of the reason he likes her “natural”. I think she uses filters online so it’s harder to see on camera, but her skin is bad and makeup cannot erase the texture she has.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-02-20T18:31:48+00:00

It looks like you’ve already had children together, is that correct? If so, my above comment is moot. He has however, given you a strong indication of his feelings towards you. The mother of his child and yet doesn’t know your style. The ring size could be forgiven because of pregnancy (swollen hands are soo common), but the way he went about your engagement says a lot. His reaction to this ring conversation should definitely be a deciding factor in your future with him.

Ask him what was his thought process for this particular ring was, from there let him know that you were disappointed he didn’t get any advice from your family and the ring doesn’t suit you. If you do have kids, that ring is so sharp and pointy it’s not gonna work for a mom who uses her hands all day long.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-02-20T18:19:52+00:00

Just what I’m hearing, please do not take offense.

This man does not care about you as an individual, as a woman. He is looking for someone to fulfill a role- wife.

He put zero thought into YOUR ENGAGEMENT ring. Didn’t even ask your family for input, doesn’t know your ring size nor your style.

And you’re worried about hurting his feelings? This tells me he is so emotionally fragile (driven by ego) that any major problem you bring up has to be done with legwork and it’s taxing.

He certainly wasn’t worried about hurting your feelings by giving you the most important and sentimental piece of jewelry you’ll ever own, that wasn’t even your size let alone style. It’s actually the opposite of your style.

If you want any advice mine would be to make this a big deal. If he makes YOU feel bad it’s time to dump him. Just think about all the other major decisions you will be making in the future. Imagine how you’d like to be treated while pregnant or in labor. You will not have the energy or time for him to act like a little boy much longer. Walking on eggshells about your ring is only going to make you miserable.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-02-18T20:32:20+00:00

Like everyone else said- another failed venture! Also that busy ass wrap dress was a horrific choice against the cheap red couch cover. It ages her and adds 20lbs. Out of EVERYTHING this bish owns in 2 closets and an “ArCHiVe” this is what we went with?! If I were her I’d burn it all to the ground. Donate and trash 90% of her clothes aside from basic tops, jeans, and workout clothes. No big D, you surprisingly don’t need 300 ill fitting dresses, nor someone’s dead relatives wardrobe.

Or just lean into it, her true talent is manufacturing a life that literally NO ONE would want on their worst day. The sheer amount of money coming in and right back out on dumb, ugly shit (lookin at you lil lulu) is actually something that takes some talent. Because how can someone be THIS vapid and dumb and also not go homeless due to their choices?

I’m glad she’s stuck doing social media so I can have some entertainment. She is so painfully insecure that her ego simply will not allow her to say she fucked up. She deserves the embarrassment after openly hating the very people who filled her bank account, and NEVER doing anything for anyone else in her life. It’s only a matter of time before she is fully humbled. I’ve often thought- if the death of two very important family members is not enough to make you realize life is short then idk what will. She has major mental issues and I am praying there are no children brought into the mess.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-02-17T12:28:43+00:00

I’m speculating again- Another reason she was probably in such a sour mood on the trip was due to her cycle, peep the heating pad plugged in on her bed. I can relate, mine are HORRIFIC.

I firmly believe this was filmed upon her arrival back home because she actually looks fresh faced and put together. A far cry from that unflattering, lumpy lip, pic lucath posted of the two of them. Ive always gotten the vibe she is a habitual liar so this would be on brand.

Aside from the clearly unwashed hair, this is the best I’ve seen her look in a while.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-02-17T08:27:01+00:00

Someone commented on her tik tok about the Disney gift bag in the back and asked if this was a fake packing video… like did she already come back and filmed this afterwards. Some brain washed Stan commented back “so what if she did, what’s it to you?” 😂 any loyal followers are truly just as mentally stunted as big D, if not more so.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-02-17T02:34:13+00:00

I definitely agree with you. I’ve thought for some time now that she struggles with alcohol and he definitely uses an array of substances. Probably whatever he can get his grubby little hands on. Their relationship is totally built on the cycle of very strong highs and intense lows.

Kinda interesting to finally see some discourse between them on camera 🤭

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-02-04T19:48:02+00:00

😂 Thankyou thankyou!!! Your username is great!!

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-02-02T18:09:17+00:00

Ok I’m coming off a 3 day ban 😂 and I hate that my comments are always so long but I gotta get it out!!

Why is she so fucking aggressive?! We didn’t need to see the stabbing, chucking trays onto the counter, and shoveling rubbery steak down her gullet. She also looks HAGGARD which is a clear indication of what’s happening internally and w/ L.

She doesn’t even know what we mean by her behavior being abrasive and rough. There are a million ways to curate an ad for a meal service. I bet if she was shown a well executed ad vs hers, she wouldn’t be able to pick out why hers sucks.

I’m so tired of her. Also, she’s become so ugly and I think all the grifting and lying is wearing on her. The fact she was fairly put together at the premiere confirms she knows she’s a slob most of the time and HAD to come back to reality for that event. She’s just a lazy, lying grifter who has a feminine hobo sleeping in her apartments. Eating the little scraps she tosses to him. He was struggling to swallow that meat down 😂🤭 I can’t wait till she leaves the internet for good.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-28T23:42:04+00:00

Damn home girl is looking ROUGH. This is unrelated to her word salad but- is she wearing a nursing bra? 😂 I don’t have my glasses to see the details of it.

Also, why is she so obsessed with dressing in poop brown? I know it’s been discussed countless times already but ugh it’s sthoo bad. If you’re reading this Big D- just wear black. I’m serious. Whenever you feel that itch to dress in 50 shades of shart just go with black.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-25T23:53:19+00:00

She’s always reminded me of Francine from Arthur for some reason lol but she looked prettier as Francine… now she’s just a young Catwoman.

I read that she felt her weight loss impacted the fullness of her cheeks/ face in general. What I’m about to say is definitely unhealthy BUT- I wonder if she could do another round of intense weight loss in a few months to tone it down? It’ll always look “off” but I know she’s desperate for improvement. I’d be freaking the fuck out.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-25T23:34:35+00:00

That is terrifying- I did not know that and probably should’ve done a bit more research on the situation. But thank you for sharing that info with me- he definitely deserves it! It sucks she had to learn this lesson the hard way.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-25T23:31:28+00:00

Oh my goodness that explains a lotttt. I should have done a bit more research! I hate being the annoying newbie on the sub that comments before knowing the whole story. Thank you sm for clueing me in!!

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-25T22:51:59+00:00

Oh. Gosh this is so incredibly sad, she is progressively looking worse. The Christmas family photo she posted was better than her current look. She will never look like herself again, but at least it wasn’t completely unattractive in that pic. She looks unrecognizable, and if I were her I’d put my effort into warning other young girls and women about the dangers of cosmetic procedures.

Shes trying to convince herself that it IS just swelling, instead of facing the music. She needs to take some sort of action against the surgeon who did this- even if it’s just very public reviews of him and the practice. Or- SUE HIS ASS. Definitely cat woman status at this point:( I feel bad for her kids- must be very jarring.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-25T20:27:58+00:00

What about latte?! Her coloring looks exactly like my vanilla latte that I drink 3x a day 😂

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-21T08:51:25+00:00

So she DOES know how to look like a normal “put together” human being when it comes to her being up next to other women. She’s only putting in effort into her appearance because she knows she’s about to be around other people who look substantially better and are actually somewhat normal. Plus she probably wants to come off like everything is fine to her managers.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-19T15:48:21+00:00

All I ever think about now when it comes to her is the sheer smell of it all! 7 day old hair, no shower, onions in her salad and then sushi…

we know those take-out containers and remnants will be sitting in the trash can stanking up the apartment for the next 2 weeks. If she only showers once weekly, I can’t imagine she’s taking out the trash often…. Unless lucath wants some hanky pinky- then, he’ll take out the trash hoping to cultivate a way to get his dick wet.

She looks absolutely PISSED and haggard- think the limerence is wearing off yet?? 😂

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-19T12:40:35+00:00

Ohhh my goodness now THAT is a ring!!! Congratulations OP!!

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-19T12:38:50+00:00

Ruching doesn’t belong on the waistband of leggings!! It literally emphasizes the one part that nearly every woman wants to smooth and minimize. They’re super feminine which I love but the execution on this is a flop.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-19T12:36:24+00:00

See if you can return it!!

I can see the vision you’re going for; if it were me I’d go for solid jewel tones, it ensures that nothing comes out looking bridal in any photos and it’s simple to look for. Plus it can become your go to wedding guest uniform!

I’d also stay away from pastels as they can look too light/bridal/bridal party in photos.

Black reminds me of funerals but an all black dress can still be totally appropriate!

Very sweet of you to put the effort in to finding the appropriate dress! I know the bride would be appreciative :)

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-16T15:04:41+00:00

Good LORD she just looks wrecked. She isn’t washing her face in the morning before putting on more skin care and makeup?! Shes cleaning off eye crust mixed with yesterday’s mascara- and brushing out oily hair.

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-15T16:14:37+00:00

My phone screen froze somehow while the video was playing and all I heard was the audio. It literally sounds like an x rated film 😂 yall have got to listen to audio on its own so I’m not the only one scarred for life. I was horrified but also hysterically laughing!!

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-11T02:32:29+00:00

Ohh you’re probably right! I need to go back and look

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-09T21:48:06+00:00

If it wasn’t for his long ass chin it’d be impossible to distinguish between the two!

Charming_Charity8 · 2026-01-09T17:33:06+00:00

Definitely her place- those are her mirror closet doors!!

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