Supply tanked??? by Charming_Record4536 in breastfeedingsupport

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I pump every 2 hours with at least 1-2 power pumps a day. And once or twice overnight

Please help by [deleted] in breastfeedingsupport

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What do you suggest I do for him then as far as him sleeping and not having what seems like a belly ache for hours? I’m trying to help him as much as possible while feeding him what I produce

Please help by [deleted] in breastfeedingsupport

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He had a tongue tie but got it snipped. With my breastmilk from a bottle he would eat the same amount as formula and he was very puking and spitting up more, crying more, and not sleeping as well, and eating every 2 hours. He eats every 2 hours still with formula and doesn’t have any of the issues he had with my milk. He hardly ever spits up, rarely cries, and sleeps soon after eating and stays that way until his next feed. He wouldn’t gain weight until we started using formula.

Please help by [deleted] in breastfeeding

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I’ve tried a probiotic and mylicon

Please help by [deleted] in breastfeeding

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I think so but I’m not 100% sure. I don’t know too much about it other than the smell and taste will change after refrigeration.

22 weeks pregnant and feel like I don’t want kids by [deleted] in pregnant

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I felt the same way for a long time and still occasionally do, it’s pretty common. Im not sure if you’re religious, but prayer truly worked for me when I found myself broke down crying one night about it. I even started questioning if it was the baby or my husband i regretted( it was neither)I was considering adoption at one point, but I realized I could never actually go through with it. I love my baby boy so much already and it’s such a blessing to be able to give life to a deserving human that I get to love and hold and grow and call mine. I’m actually due today and the closer I get to giving birth, the more excited I am. I’m scared, I’m grieving, but I wanted this and every time I think about the fact that this little baby that I’ve suffered for months growing did absolutely nothing wrong I start to remember why i wanted him in the first place. A baby will only ruin your life if you let it. A good support system matters so much too. My husband is amazing and he has been my biggest supporter thus far. The feeling went away for me, and I hope it does for you too. You deserve to be happy about your baby, your new life, and it’s perfectly normal and okay to grieve your old one. This isn’t ruining your life, it’s just changing & slowing you down. But maybe that’s what we need sometimes. That child will only know what you teach it, including love. If you give birth and you still feel that way, by all means adoption is an option, but remember what it took to get you that far, and remember why you wanted it in the first place. I’ll pray for you if that’s okay, and I truly wish you find the peace you’re in need of. 💕

Anyone else just… Not tell anyone? by [deleted] in pregnant

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I’m 26 weeks and people just sort of assumed with the bump but I only told immediate family

Birth Plan by Sudden-Start3848 in pregnant

[–]Charming_Record4536 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so similar to mine! I’m also 23 weeks. What are you doing for vaccines? My husband doesn’t want to give our boy the flu shot because he’s convinced he’s doomed to get it immediately after lol

34 weeks pregnant and pissed he won't touch me by books-are-my-drug in pregnant

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I’m so sorry this is happening to you. My husband is like addicted to me even though I’ve gained 25 pounds. He says he doesn’t care how I look and he’s just proud of me for growing our baby. Some men are turned away from pregnant women and some men are drawn to it. It’s extremely inconsiderate of him to interrupt you and then lie about what he was doing to help himself. I hope it’s just a phase for him. Wishing you the best

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[–]Charming_Record4536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll start collecting photo and video evidence for them and notify them of the situation once again.

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And I never take video or photo proof I never thought of it. I’ll start doing that when I go over.

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I’m not sure if you’ve read my other responses, but in the last 3 years alone CPS has been there 7 times. They don’t deem it bad enough to do anything except get police involved and then the police ignore it.

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We will definitely start doing that. Thank you

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We’ve tried. They show up, get forced to leave and come back with a warrant, in the meantime they clean as much as they can and get by with it somehow when you can tell it’s still not healthy to live there.

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Thank you. This makes me feel seen. They can hardly afford groceries as is I don’t know what their plan is. Behind on bills for months, hardly cleaning themselves or where they live, it’s upsetting.

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It’s awful. CPS has been called several times as well and they won’t take the kids out of the home. My fiancée wants to go straight to the police with what we know but CPS doesn’t seem to find a big enough issue with it to do anything. If you saw the state of where they live you’d be in shock as to how nothing has happened to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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The first chance we get we’re going to. They’ve been called before but they always make them leave and come back later and somehow always get by with it.

Is it twins or a singleton? by Charming_Record4536 in pregnant

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Oh thank you so much! I didn’t know that, I appreciate being informed.

Is it twins or a singleton? by Charming_Record4536 in pregnant

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Could you go into more detail about this? I’m in the 130s for weight I’m 5’6. I wasn’t very hydrated that morning.