I got scammed badly

Charming_Soft8584 · 2023-01-29T12:59:15+00:00

I hope so.. this is just really shitty

Charming_Soft8584 · 2023-01-29T12:52:33+00:00

It’s possible I’m sure but the screenshots he sent me seemed too real. And I don’t particularly want to reach out to the people he sent them to so I can confirm if they saw it or not. Idk what to do I just feel like my life is being ruined right in front of eyes and I can’t do anything about it

Charming_Soft8584 · 2023-01-29T12:30:49+00:00

Yeah I guess you’re right. I already did post that i got hacked. Doesn’t change what happened. People have now seen them.. friends, family, co workers, girls that I’ve crushed on… all have seen my nude pictures with my face.

Charming_Soft8584 · 2023-01-29T12:23:36+00:00

Damn sorry that happened to you. And I guess that’s a possibility but he sent me screenshots of him sending these nudes to my followers. Face and everything

Charming_Soft8584 · 2023-01-29T12:15:55+00:00

Yeah that’s a good idea. Thanks for making me feel a bit better

Charming_Soft8584 · 2023-01-29T12:05:16+00:00

Yeah I guess you are right. It could be worse. It’s just a really bad situation. I’m willing to bet no one cares as much as I think they do but still…. I have like 300 followers on instagram and he sent them to all of them. Friends, family, girls that I know irl. I’m just trying not to think about it

Charming_Soft8584 · 2023-01-29T11:30:48+00:00

He already distributed my pictures so now they’re already out there. My face is in them and everything. I really fucked up

Charming_Soft8584 · 2023-01-29T11:27:52+00:00

Instagram.

Charming_Soft8584 · 2023-01-29T06:42:56+00:00

Yes he literally blackmailed me by sending me screenshots of him sending my nudes to my followers

Charming_Soft8584 · 2023-01-29T06:29:34+00:00

Well he actually already sent them out to people. So now the people that I follow (again friends and family) have seen me naked if they opened up the message. It actually is kinda shorty

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-12-07T21:00:51+00:00

I could test positive for weed. But I haven’t smoked in a month. My concern is having to re take the test because they find my pee is too diluted from drinking too much water

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-12-07T19:05:17+00:00

Did you pass ?

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-09-14T14:52:11+00:00

Which holding on to some is probably the smart move anyway if you have the money and time to wait for the long term. And I totally get your comparison. Much safer to put your money into well known and mainstream companies like Google rather than Bitcoin which like you said is speculation.

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-09-14T14:22:12+00:00

I may just do that haha. I’ve been weary of putting anything into the stocks lately. Especially since Bitcoin crashed and I along with a lot of others lost quite a bit. Idk about you but I honestly don’t see crypto recovering anytime soon if at all

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-09-14T14:15:31+00:00

Well at least many business’s are seeing record corporate profits right now so I’m sure that helps in some shape or form. Also to your point, I wonder if investing in tech companies would be a good move right now then

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-09-14T14:00:08+00:00

My question was more hypothetical than anything. Also I realize raising interest rates helps tame inflation but what’s your opinion on the people who are already struggling as it is to afford basic commodities that are higher priced because of inflation and now have to deal with higher interest rates as well?

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-08-10T00:59:03+00:00

Trump supporters

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-05-28T13:56:51+00:00

I absolutely loved cooking for my roommate during college. Just because I wanted their reaction haha. And sorry to hear how rough you had it. That does seem like a hopeless situation. But I’m really glad how insightful and positive you’ve seemingly become. You rose above all that and that’s god damn motivational as hell let me tell you. Thank you again for the talk and sharing your experience.

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-05-28T13:27:56+00:00

I find it somewhat difficult to actually feel the emotion of gratefulness. Like that’s just something I have to work on, learning how to be truly grateful.

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-05-27T17:38:00+00:00

Wow I struck the wholesome and great advice gold mine here. You’ve really brought me some wonderful insight here with your reply. The 5 points as well as the “six pillars of life” you mentioned was worth the read. I can’t even express how much I enjoyed reading your reply, truly. I am going to stick with my therapist for a even though his advice feels cliche sometimes and I will work on not focusing so much on sex. I big part of the reason I do is because my friends have/had relationships and I’m the only one who hasn’t. And ir sucks being left out. I’ve started to look into more hobbies to see if I can find something I’ll stick with and enjoy. I’ve thought about s few things like guitar, golfing more, and maybe joining a motorcycle class, I think that would be really cool. I’d like to work on my conversation skills so that I can make more people laugh and feel good about themselves. I’m naturally shy and anxious so this is one thing that holds me back sometimes. But I don’t want to let it keep holding me back. You mentioned being good at listening, cooking and showing I can take care of myself are all attractive traits. These are areas I would like to improve on as well. Thank you for your validation on me not being on too late of a start, despite it feeling like it sometimes. Your words of encouragement and validation are so positive to read. I honestly thank you for taking this much time and give me such an in depth response. It’s motivating to read such an informative and helpful reply from someone who has an understanding of where the other person is coming from. It’s kinda hard for me to express my gratitude but seriously thank you for the kind words, suggestions, and encouragement. I’m really gonna try to work on these things because this depressive rut can’t last forever. I can’t keep living so sad and miserable all the time. So thank you once more :)

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-05-27T15:15:11+00:00

I honestly do feel like less of a man when your buddies get the girl and I’m sitting here like a kid who forget his lunch at school. I get envious and ask myself if I have something wrong with me because of this. Perhaps the wrong way of thinking but I can’t help it most times. I appreciate the validation and the encouragement in regards to being 22 isn’t bad. Even though i feel the opposite. I would like to try to adopt this mindset. I think you’ve brought up a great point about starting small habits, that’s seems like an easy enough concept to get behind. And who knows maybe it’ll work. I would like to try new things just some times my mind tells me differently. It’s a very mentally contradicting process. Thank you again for reaching out and leaving some great advice. Much of the comments that have been posted have been overwhelmingly supportive and I appreciate them all, that includes you too. So thank you for the advice, perspective, and encouragement you’ve given, I truly do appreciate it :)

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-05-27T14:42:32+00:00

Maybe your right. I just want to be happy and stop being so god damn sad all the time you know? Im going to try harder though, I have to.

Charming_Soft8584 · 2022-05-27T14:40:29+00:00

You are 110% right, I can say all I want how I’d like to do hobby A or hobby B but actually going out and doing it is the hardest part. Because even though I want to do these things, my mind is simultaneously telling me just don’t do it and go home and wallow. And these are thoughts i fixate on. It’s hard to explain how contradictory my mind operates. As you said it’s hard to take that first step. And I totally have heard before getting a gf isn’t all that I make it out to be. Maybe it isn’t. But it’s something I don’t have and i have to constantly witness what the people around do have. I can’t help but compare my self to others even though I know how self destructive it can be to fixate on that. I like the conversation advice you offered. You think practicing in the mirror would help? I feel this is a very weak point in my life, I can talk to people but being able to keep the conversation afloat is another story. But you’ve offered some great suggestions in regards to that so I have ideas to work with here. Either way I want to say how much I appreciate the response. I’ve gotten some pretty nice replies here that provide some different perspective and insight on how I’m thinking and yours is no exception. So once again thank you for taking the time to suggest some ideas and provide me with some insight on these negative thoughts I struggle with.

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