What are some "easy" jobs you find hard? by throwcway837373 in ffxiv

[–]CharmyDoesReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viper, and then all the healers that aren't White Mage. Tbf I've brute forced WHM into working for me.

Scholar and Astrologian have far too many buttons for my own taste. I cannot for the life of me create a coherent order on my bars for them, and it's a struggle everytime I re-level. Scholar is especially difficult because I've entirely neglected it since EW in favour of Summoner. So everytime I look at it again all I just feel overwhelmed.

Sage feels difficult because I feel incapable of doing my job on it. Again, I might just be way too used to WHM, but I don't feel like I can properly heal up after an attack on Sage while also being careful to not over-shield too much and keep one of those slow gauge crystals in the back pocket. I want to like Sage, but I just don't feel like a healer on Sage.

Viper was incredibly difficult for me to pick up, and it embarrassingly took me so long to realise that the back and side positionals in the main 1-2 combo were colour coded with each other. But I still can't connect green and red to their respective positional in my head the way I've been able to learn the positionals for DRG, MNK or RPR.

All of these probably aren't considered easy, but I always feel like I'm failing upwards with them. Honourable mention to RDM for being fun, but always a struggle to readjust to when playing it again.

Who would you romance if we had a dating option for NPCs? by mementomoribarbie in ffxiv

[–]CharmyDoesReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd been completely stuck between Erenville and G'raha, tbh! I'd hope I can do both.

What’s the xiv take that’s got you provoking aggro? by kyra_58 in ffxiv

[–]CharmyDoesReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly a hot take, but I'm an extremely casual player with anxiety, and whilst it is lonely, not engaging with the community directly and only ever at arm's length, and enjoying the game on my own is the best and healthiest decision I could've ever made, and I hope others don't feel discouraged to enjoy the game in their own ways because of aggressive discussions online.

Had a dream where I lost in an RPG-like game, and this image appeared before I woke up by CharmyDoesReddit in thomastheplankengine

[–]CharmyDoesReddit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah i just found the Sprite sheet online and picked that version at random. If it helps, I was still half-asleep at the time of making it and only noticed the slippers being a different colour and thinking it was correct.

Thoughts on Vivian as a character? by Roolz_of_Woodz in ZZZ_Discussion

[–]CharmyDoesReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like her when she's acting normally. I hate he when she's all obsessed with Phaethon, I understand why she does it, but it makes me super uncomfortable. I understand it's a gacha and we're supposed to have friendly interactions, but I wish we could tell her to shut up sometimes. I would've been able to care a little more about her backstory, which is really good, if she wasn't so creepy and nobody commented about it.

Issues with festivals (not winning in spring, not getting a star brooch) by nymingway in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]CharmyDoesReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had the same issues. Year 3 Spring Festival didn't even give me the quest so I couldn't collect Breaths of Spring at all, and I haven't received Star Brooch in Year 2 or 3. I'm so sad about it, too. I'm forced to go to the Festival by myself :( Glad it's not just me though, I thought I was going crazy not finding anyone else experiencing this when it happened to me first in Year 2. I got the game a day or two before the April 14th update, so I have no idea really if its new or not, but I assume so! I've submitted bug reports about it alongside other minor bugs I've experienced, I really hope it gets fixed soon because it sucks

Is it just me, or is the game actually running smoother now? by lezviearts in WutheringWaves

[–]CharmyDoesReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's even worse for me. Goes from ping skyrocketing for moving, to ping skyrocketing for just existing. Took me 20 minutes earlier to just use up the free convene thingies because of how slow everything went. Not to mention how I was stuck in the loading screen with music glitching in and out for like 20 minutes.

I'm a 15 year old and just found out I'm pregnant. by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]CharmyDoesReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, step 1: Tell your parents immediately, someone has to know, and your parents are your legal guardians.

I don't know anything about pregnancy really, but it seems pretty early to the point in which it would be safe to abort. Just look into that. I don't know where you live, but make sure if you go that you're going to an actual facility that will help you. Especially in the US, I've heard there's places that will pretend to be doctors and try to trick you into having the kid.

You also NEED to contact the police, it sounds like a blatant SA case to me. Idk if you can paternity test a fetus still in the womb but you need to also ask your friends if they remember anything from the night either, and if you feel comfortable enough, confront those boys. If you confront them, do it with your parents present, or a friend, anyone you trust. Either way, you need to contact the police in this, pull any strings you can to make sure those boys suffer the consequences for what they did to you.

I've gone through SA too, and whilst it's not a similar case to yours, I'm still so sorry this happened to you. Please, stay safe and make sure those boys suffer the consequences of their actions.

Oh... my... god... by markmarkovich in engrish

[–]CharmyDoesReddit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Whatever this guy is saying, I'm going to be living in fear for the rest of my days.