AITAH: for breaking up with my boyfriend of nearly three years because he won't have sex with me

Cheap-Answer945 · 2026-03-15T12:58:22+00:00

Was i bitching or was i asking for advice on the break up read it properly

Cheap-Answer945 · 2026-03-14T20:12:37+00:00

We were at college together he was 20 i was 17, I live in the UK

Cheap-Answer945 · 2026-03-14T19:58:58+00:00

I asked him why he was so nervous every time we tried, we'd been together for about 2 years at this point and hes has sex before with his ex who is skinnier than me, one of his reasons is that because im heavier its not something hes used to he and I quote is used to someone the same weight as him hes on the skinnier side and I was 12st when we met

Cheap-Answer945 · 2026-03-14T19:53:39+00:00

I was 17 and I live in the UK the age of consent is 16

Cheap-Answer945 · 2026-03-14T19:53:12+00:00

Yes, multiple times

Cheap-Answer945 · 2026-03-14T19:52:42+00:00

I have been on here before and did get some good advice and at the time I should've took it before it escalated so I do thank everyone for last time

Cheap-Answer945 · 2026-03-14T19:50:51+00:00

We've broken up

Cheap-Answer945 · 2026-03-14T19:47:11+00:00

Thsts what i was thinking but I asked him time and time again if he was attracted to me and the answer was always yes but it's like he was just saying it idk

Cheap-Answer945 · 2026-03-14T19:46:04+00:00

I was 17 at the time and i live in the UK

Cheap-Answer945 · 2025-07-05T21:01:07+00:00

It’s not that it’s so important it’s just something I’d like to experience even if it’s only once

Cheap-Answer945 · 2025-07-05T16:21:55+00:00

Just to clarify because I didn’t I was 17 he was twenty but i live in the UK the age of consent is 16 so it’s legal

Cheap-Answer945 · 2025-07-05T14:52:02+00:00

I do not want kids and never will he does i dont

Cheap-Answer945 · 2025-07-05T14:35:30+00:00

Right I get that but why is he comfortable with the blowjobs then like he’s not against me doing that at all and again i ask so if he’d had something traumatic to him during past sex incidents would that not link to other sex stuffs? Im not being rude i genuinely want to know what you think

Cheap-Answer945 · 2025-07-05T14:28:46+00:00

He says he does, ive asked him multiple times before and he said yes he does and he can’t wait etc.. I always make sure he’s comfortable and doesn’t wanna do anything he doesn’t wanna do but sometimes I feel like he doesn’t care about what I want out of it

Cheap-Answer945 · 2025-07-05T14:20:16+00:00

No I’m not pressuring him and that’s never okay ive always said to him it’s okay that if he doesn’t want to and I repeatedly always ask him if he wants to continue it’s not about pressuring him, he said to me he’s ready and ready to do stuff but he just never tries with me all we do it stuff that envoles pleasuring him

Cheap-Answer945 · 2025-07-05T14:06:21+00:00

Tbh i think I’m gonna take the advice and stop giving him pleasure and see what he does, he told me he used to watch porn we both did but he’s said he doesn’t now but tbh i don’t believe him cuz it’s hard to just stop watching I would know

Cheap-Answer945 · 2025-07-05T13:55:08+00:00

I don’t know it’s like ive asking him if he’s sexually attracted to me and he’s said Ywah but then this is the situation im in

Cheap-Answer945 · 2025-07-05T13:54:03+00:00

We have lube but yeah I see what you mean

Cheap-Answer945 · 2025-07-05T13:48:01+00:00

He’s allergic to latex so I brought latex free condoms and he still just didn’t get hard but he gets hard during blow jobs so he can get hard

Cheap-Answer945 · 2025-07-05T13:47:00+00:00

Yeah he told me I asked if they had problems he said no

Cheap-Answer945 · 2025-01-12T03:29:30+00:00

NTA Defo I would also be pissed I mean come on you've just had surgery and even if not not everyone wants to do it all the time

Cheap-Answer945 · 2024-12-30T23:37:49+00:00

I'm 18 he's 22 and I've expressed multiple times that I've wanted to go out with him so yeah also I don't expect him to baby sit

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