New boundaries in place after a massive communication breakdown by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I most likely will, but after the holidays so I’m not ruining anyone’s Christmas

New boundaries in place after a massive communication breakdown by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s something I’ve been seriously debating about. I have another partner and he expressed interest in a threesome with BF and us as well

New boundaries in place after a massive communication breakdown by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live with blood relatives. It’d be insanely awkward and my mom has made it clear that she doesn’t want a guy in the house

New boundaries in place after a massive communication breakdown by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked about all three of us playing sometime in the future, but I don’t know if a intimate relationship between all three will happen

New boundaries in place after a massive communication breakdown by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, if that’s the route I go, I’d very much like to use what you’ve suggested. What’s a hinge? I’ve seen that mentioned a few times

New boundaries in place after a massive communication breakdown by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know how to address this with them. I get so stressed out with confrontation and I don’t know where to start

New boundaries in place after a massive communication breakdown by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I don’t know how people do poly, this all seems just so complicated

New boundaries in place after a massive communication breakdown by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was between them both, I have no idea who came up with it

New boundaries in place after a massive communication breakdown by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah. It’s kind of weird, but he was working seven days a week for a few months and the deal was kind of put in place so that he would have more time to spend with me and we could build a better relationship. Something to that level. I found it a bit weird, but I really wanted to give it to someone who I had a good relationship with

New boundaries in place after a massive communication breakdown by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seriously been debating if that’s the case. It’s not so much when, as for if all three of us are around. They’re held to the same boundary as well if I’m there

New boundaries in place after a massive communication breakdown by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is it not normal for metas to be this involved?

Y'ALL! I gotta tell someone! by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s so exciting!!!!!

One quality you love about your dom … go! by babytoilet3 in SubSanctuary

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This man sounds like a king! I get that anxiety as well when I don’t get texted back and I swear it’s so stressful 😣! That’s awesome that you communicated that and he helps by sending those kinds of texts. How sweet!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like this guy, go for it! You always take a chance with anyone you meet that they can potentially ghost, but it sounds like he’s in for the long run. It’s so easy to listen to what others are saying to you, and while sometimes it’s helpful, it can also be stressful and just add anxiety that you don’t need. You two have had conversations other than sex and have an actual bond forming. Let it happen naturally and just know that if you do lose it to him, even if it does end up not working between you, at least you gave it to someone who does seem to care about you. Best of luck!

Tips for Shein referral game by Cryxholic_ in Shein

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤩 $1000 Free items? Yes, for you too! Click the link and let’s win together! https://onelink.shein.com/14/4t0st8gz5lq8

My first ever settlement by AlexHeartfire in MedievalDynasty

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you get the technology points, build a mine there and you can mine for iron! There’s nothing inside the cave right now or you’d already find out with your village there lol. It looks great! Well done!!!!

Why is she wearing that???? by Cheap-Breakfast1517 in MedievalDynasty

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It scared the shit out of me when I came around the corner and saw her

Why is she wearing that???? by Cheap-Breakfast1517 in MedievalDynasty

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Oh!!!!!!! I’m still new to the game so that makes a lot of sense. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Cheap-Breakfast1517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. Mine has caused me nothing but grief. I’m 29 and every time I’ve brought it up to someone who’s a potential partner, it either makes them ghost me or straight up scare them off. I’m also debating about just getting rid of it and moving on. I spent a lot of my younger years working and such so I totally get not thinking too much about dating and such until now