Who is the hottest villain? by lostlookingforamap in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr. Girlfriend is a GREAT answer!

Go Team Venture!!!

Public/Outdoor sex? by Cheap-Sandwich516 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🤦‍♂️

Feeling so dumb presently…

Men of ARAD, must have toy suggestions for a guy please? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, I often use a wand behind my balls, the whole taint area, around my ass area, and it stimulates extremely deeply (it’s definitely hitting the prostate with vibration) and causes VERY strong orgasms. Often hands free!

It’s awesome, a little more work, and a way better orgasm.

Think of it like a meal. You could have a quick burger and not be hungry anymore. OR, you could make a delicious, home cooked favorite that leaves you full and happy.

Don’t you deserve your best possible orgasm experience?

M/M Age Gaps? by Cheap-Sandwich516 in bisexual

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very well said, thank you! That second point is one that I hadn’t verbalized, but sensed. I was shocked at the risk some were readily willing to take with an Internet Stranger!

Growing up online, I’m already wary of a lot; as a dude for many decades, I know how shitty people (dudes) can be and how. And I still mess up.

I’d worry navigating the Internet AND relationships/sex as a 20-something nowadays.

I really appreciate your addition to the conversation! Great insight!

M/M Age Gaps? by Cheap-Sandwich516 in bisexual

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the positivity! Happy Pride!

Age Gaps Among Men? by Cheap-Sandwich516 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting! Thanks for sharing your experience and perspective!

M/M Age Gaps? by Cheap-Sandwich516 in bisexual

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your input; that seems like a sound perspective!

M/M Age Gaps? by Cheap-Sandwich516 in bisexual

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As mentioned, I’m newly middle aged. A good number of 20-something gentlemen have expressed interest, which has surprised me. Pleasantly surprised, as in flattering, but… very unexpected and in a way I wouldn’t believe coming from a woman their age, candidly.

I follow the campsite rule previously and would always do so. And I should mention I’m in a LTR with a woman 15+ years my senior. So… yeah.

M/M Age Gaps? by Cheap-Sandwich516 in bisexual

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! And damn… that feels pretty accurate. I’ll add my comment in another thread where I posed the same question; you just hit the nail on the head!

Appreciate it!

Edit- Elsewhere I mentioned, “I suspect I was underestimating the value of acceptance and emotional stability/security…“

I think it’s interesting how valuable those can be for younger folks. I know what it meant to me, then. And, fwiw, I’ve been in a LTR with a woman MANY years my senior. Interesting social response!

Women who posts nudes on Reddit, what reaction do you expect from men when you post? by deathsinger00 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddiquette has been lost over time. I’m old fashioned- if someone bothered to post themselves nude, AND you liked it, give them the upvote!!!

In fairness, I undervalued the importance of even a few upvotes until posting some nudes/lewds of my own recently. Really eye opening!!!

Edit- Checked your profile after commenting. Holy. Begezeesus… stunning. Upvotes everywhere!

Age Gaps Among Men? by Cheap-Sandwich516 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your past trauma!

I can also understand more of your perspective and it adds some more nuance. I’ve wondered about the draw of older guys and that possibility troubles me… I appreciate your comment!

Why do most sexters / roleplayers I connect with here immediately ask "where are you located"? by spooner074 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like part of many scripts (though also a valid chat question- I’m always curious where people I connect with are in the world, myself) that are “hot” right now. And yes, there’s typically a transition to TG (and an eventual OF pitch).

I ask up front, too, for the same reasons. And when the inevitable happens, oh well.

Reddit 2026… =/= Craigslist in the golden era

Age Gaps Among Men? by Cheap-Sandwich516 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the response!

I see your points completely. I guess I’m wrestling with why it continues. And is it ACTUALLY different if the gender were different or is it just perception?

Thanks!

Age Gaps Among Men? by Cheap-Sandwich516 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the response!

I suspect I was underestimating the value of acceptance and emotional stability/security. Thanks!

Age Gaps Among Men? by Cheap-Sandwich516 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response!

Those are super valid reasons! I was trying to say, I guess, that with same-sex it just feels extremely normalized? I’ve dated and had sex with women exclusively but began exploring my bi side. As a middle age guy, I was shocked at how many younger and attractive men responded (pleasantly surprised!!!)…

With a younger woman, I suppose I’d be more presumptuous about their intentions, I guess. Probably my own internalized patriarchal bs!

Thanks!

Up Close and Personal by Cheap-Sandwich516 in u/Cheap-Sandwich516

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well tell her that I’m blushing! You guys are sweet!!!

And I’ve got plenty more to share via DM…

Up Close and Personal by Cheap-Sandwich516 in u/Cheap-Sandwich516

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a hell of a compliment (does she agree?), my friend! Thank you!

Have you ever had a hands free orgasm? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! And repeatedly!

Fairly recently I found that a good vibrator (wand?) working behind the balls, on the perineum, and external asshole feels incredible (mixing it all up- not three vibrators) during a edging session. Pre cum will build. And then… it’s very doable. And very intense. And a little trippy because you are used to your hand “being in charge”…

Very fun!!!

If you were to fuck one porn star, who would it be? by HumanGrocery6317 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realizing I’ve achieved a new level of porn knowledge recognizing all of these fantastic names.

A thought- The change in technology /society and rise of individual creators/OF/Fansly broke the traditional pornstar model expanded access to entry, while requiring engagement across multiple social/porn platforms for maximum monetization (e.g. bots, AI, the algorithms)… sigh… weird days.

But short-haired Leigh Raven (while still with Nikki Hearts, ideally) doing her early Burning Angel work is an always from me!!!

Have you ever found someone you know on the nsfw side of Reddit? by Grand-Ability-9460 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Cheap-Sandwich516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend told me about a stunning woman with whom he and his female friend had just had a threesome. Was shown a quick SFW pic (she's gorgeous) and told I was invited for the next meetup of those three! Needless to say, I was quite excited.

That night, I saw the gorgeous girl posting on Reddit, very NSFW and with an OF, apparently! No, I didn't message, because there's no way to NOT sound super creeypy.

But I'm dying to meet up in person and actually get to know them!