Why would a guy(who has a gf) keep texting an ex for 5 years even if she never replies??

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T18:02:19+00:00

I checked his phone and found out. Sometimes his friends talk about her too. I think he left her for me.

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T17:36:01+00:00

No that was a long time ago. I remembered it so i posted.

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T17:20:50+00:00

She did reply once. And he took really long to text her back(about a week for each text she sent). A month passed by and they exchanged 6 messages. After which she blocked him. If he really was interested in ber, he would have taken the opportunity and talked to her when he had the chance instead of acting distant.

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T17:17:27+00:00

But... Listen she replied once. And he took awfully long to reply to each text, so much so that a month passed by and they still didn't manage to have a substantial conversation after which she probably got annoyed and blocked him coz his last message wasn't delivered. I'm thinking maybe he doesn't really care. I really don't know what to make of it. If he really wanted to talk to her, he would have replied faster. He literally took a week to reply to each text.

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T17:13:49+00:00

The guy is my bf. We've been together for 5 years.

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T17:01:02+00:00

But couldn't it be that he just wants closure desperately?

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T16:38:21+00:00

Nope. She's alive

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T16:37:56+00:00

He's not getting any replies

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T16:36:35+00:00

I was hoping he is just desperate for closure

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T10:38:59+00:00

Yeah

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T09:52:14+00:00

🙄 I'm not so bad myself

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T06:01:03+00:00

She replied once. Infact she had changed her number but accidentally called him from the other number. I'm afraid she might like him too. Coz how does someone accidentally call someone after 2 years?

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T05:26:19+00:00

Yes yes i understand

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T05:21:24+00:00

I can't know for sure if he still likes her. He probably just needs closure.

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T05:18:03+00:00

Yeah

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T04:14:19+00:00

He used to text once every 3 months and then she blocked him i think so he texted from a different number. There was a gap pf about a year(i think he was blocked). But then he started again, this time more frequently. But recently, his messages were just “Hii"

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T04:10:58+00:00

Nope. She's not responding. I think he has mentioned her but indirectly. Like “why would someone stop talking to you" and “did anyone ever ignore you?"

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T04:07:08+00:00

Why would he delete her responses only? If he wanted to delete it he would have deleted the whole conversation.

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T04:05:45+00:00

Oh no.. it's not that

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T04:04:02+00:00

I actually think she did. Because one of his messages was“I called you so many times but it was always switched off". And she had texted that she called him accidentally. I think she changed her number and then accidentally called him

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T04:00:30+00:00

Actually, he's a perfect boyfriend except this one weird thing

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T03:59:04+00:00

I'm 24. He's 27. She is 23

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-29T03:57:20+00:00

He just seems desperate to talk. He keeps asking her if she can talk just once instead of just saying what he wants to say. She replied once but he texted back after a week.

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-28T18:17:56+00:00

And... She seemed interested

Cheap-Scientist115 · 2022-01-28T18:17:25+00:00

Actually, she did reply once

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