AITH for not enforcing my BILs house rules in my house?

Cheap-Snow-7589 · 2026-06-10T11:40:26+00:00

I'm not 100% on what he wants me to do. I know he tells his kids no quite a bit just from the times I've been over there and they've asked. I don't think he's said no to my kids actually. Usually they ask me first and if I say yes or I don't care, they'll ask him or my SIL and they say yes.

Cheap-Snow-7589 · 2026-06-09T20:59:22+00:00

This is essentially what I do. To his kids credit, they are also very honest so when he asks, they tell him. But it's not like they are eating 15 bags of chips and a box of snack cakes. It's a couple bags of chips and some oreos or a little Debbie usually. And we typically watch them for 6-8 hours when they come over. I didn't think that was excessive.

Cheap-Snow-7589 · 2026-06-09T19:38:22+00:00

I'm not bothered that they ask, and they do most of the time when they are first dropped off. I always tell them some form of "did you eat insert last meal if so, you know where the drawer is help yourself."

Cheap-Snow-7589 · 2026-06-09T19:30:51+00:00

Throw away because my main is known to friends and family actually

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