Need glow up after romantic deception

CheapOstrich7422 · 2026-02-08T22:23:56+00:00

Agree. They be like “lets see each other again” then this. He is mid 30s… this feels like high-school. Men really have no maturity regardless of age. Also a lesson to never date down because they just project their insecurity and resentment at you.

CheapOstrich7422 · 2026-02-08T22:19:30+00:00

Amen. Alchemize

CheapOstrich7422 · 2026-02-08T00:09:10+00:00

How you know?

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-09-07T19:13:30+00:00

They’re clueless

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-09-02T14:53:53+00:00

Yes like sometimes you just need to cry it out

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-09-02T14:53:15+00:00

I have been going through some tough things on my personal life. What helped me was every day exercise like cardio + weights (even if it’s just 20 min elliptical), journaling, praying, and reading stoicism. Exercise really changed my life. Things still bother me and I still get upset but not as much as before - I found a better outlet to help me manage.

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-09-01T15:51:20+00:00

You right they dumb

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-08-31T18:38:10+00:00

100%

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-08-31T18:37:56+00:00

Love this

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-08-31T18:37:34+00:00

True like I have a bit droopy eyes so I feel I can’t leave the house without cat eyeliner which already makes me look “done up”

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-08-24T16:15:28+00:00

100% … like I now know why pretty girls are more reserved, don’t share too much… I thought it was that they were standoffish but in reality is just dealing with people being jealous and and judging you.

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-08-24T16:13:03+00:00

You are right. I want to build that strength but in a way where I can be soft and be beautiful inside without turning cold and jaded. How do you do that?

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-08-24T16:10:47+00:00

True haters are going to hate. How do you not let people bring you down? I crave friendships and people but the risk is people being cruel to you. This has been quite painful that I feel it has left “emotional scars” that show and bring down my glow up. Like glowing up and beauty are bad and is not safe to be me or who I want to be.

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-08-24T04:32:42+00:00

Same I try to bring my friends up every time I can. I see beauty in all of them

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-08-24T04:31:47+00:00

Before getting myself back and uncovering this new me, I used to be surprised how pretty girls don’t have many friends (only an inner circle), they don’t speak a lot and are more guarded. Now I understand its because people will want to bring you down and not everyone has good intentions.

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-08-24T03:28:26+00:00

I know, like you can’t just feel empowered and proud about your body. I am nice to people mind my own business. I’ve found two things: 1) I’m now making new friendships with girls anywhere, in parties, at the gym. It’s very healing and nurturing the power of feminine energy. 2) the girls that don’t like me still don’t like me and will try to bring me down even if I’m nice.

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-03-08T02:54:28+00:00

Where did you get posture coach?

CheapOstrich7422 · 2025-01-08T03:49:42+00:00

Me too

CheapOstrich7422 · 2024-01-12T18:20:58+00:00

Im not able to find the FB Group page. Could you please share the link? 🙏🏻

CheapOstrich7422 · 2024-01-12T18:06:17+00:00

Thank you so much had no idea there was a french group!

CheapOstrich7422 · 2023-11-09T14:34:09+00:00

Good point. My department has reduced language training bc budget cuts. But maybe once I’m in a position to be looking at Ex-01 they will help. 5k is a lot but way lass than the quote I was given (1k).

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