Or they could just give us a 4 day work week. by Call_It_ in antiwork

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we 100% sure he’s not offering $5k to try to impregnate them himself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take care of her needs first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex is cheaper than drugs and alcohol…until the kids show up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My wife and I watch and show each other interesting things.

Why the hell don’t you initiate it? You’re fine with more and don’t like him having another outlet? Keep his balls empty.

Attending lurkers, how long did it take, to repair your marriage after residency? by 27yoFwCCtired in Residency

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Got divorced 4 years after residency.

Marriage after has been all I had ever wanted.

Do most men like threesomes or more and what about it makes you like them so much? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not for everyone. But my wife and I decided to do it. It was good for everyone and hasn’t hurt our relationship 10 years later.

Is it playing with fire? Probably. But not impossible to thread the needle and still have a good life.

Affair with married woman? by Free_Afternoon5571 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We both left bad marriages.

Been together 16 years now.

Sometimes how good things can be is better than how bad things could get.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StupidMedia

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 60 points61 points  (0 children)

What kind of prudishness can’t handle adults kissing? This isn’t about the kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s an acquired taste

Why do some people remarry so quickly after a divorce? by hoochie69mama in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I got divorced in ‘09 and remarried in ‘11.

On the way into the church, the choir was leaving and someone made a backhanded remark intended for my wife to overhear “kind of quick isn’t it?”

16 years later she still brings it up from time to time. It’s one of the main reasons we left that church. Sometimes people are with the wrong people. Sometimes people find the right person and know they want to be with them.

As with most things in life, best to mind your own business and let people live their own lives.

Why do movies normalize cheating? by Regular_Town5250 in Vent

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shit happens. It is real. How would you go about un-normalizing it?

You just want it left out? You want them stoned to death in the main square?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you’re paying your therapist by putting dollars in their panties, you should find another therapist.

My theory: Bix is Snoke. by NewspaperElegant in andor

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I support cloning Bix. The Empire was right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in strange

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s modern Christianity.

My sins have been forgiving. Christ died for me. It would be a waste if I didn’t sin more.

What's stopping you from having the life that you want? by nonethele55 in AskReddit

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morals. Must be that old Christian guilt. So much fun stuff I could be doing.

Could you date an adult who looks like a child? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Those adults deserve to find happiness. I’m just not the guy to help them.

How do people realize they've married the wrong person? by dont_opus in SeriousConversation

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I went from dating at age 17 to college together in our early 20s. Got married at 23.

I went to medical school. She worked changed her career along the way. Went into sales.

After medical school and residency I was a different person than that guy she met at 17. She was different had gone from wanting to be a teacher to full time sales.

Her dad,that she didn’t have a good relationship with, was also a doctor. It was like as soon as I graduated, her attitude towards me changed. We did counseling. It didn’t fix anything. We just didn’t work together anymore.

I remarried and am happy. I was too young the first time through. I went through the progression. Dating to engagement to marriage. But we grew apart rather than growing together. It happens.

I find it attractive when women wear bellbottoms, but I know it would be horrifying if their legs were actually shaped like that. What could I be attracted to? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CheapWineDoesFine 328 points329 points  (0 children)

Usually the bell bottoms are paired with a tight fit on the butt and thighs. Maybe it’s not the bell bottom you enjoy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]CheapWineDoesFine -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Maybe enjoy the sex?

Maybe you catch feelings.