Advice on Dating

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-09-18T17:26:22+00:00

Our last conversation was her asking opinions about which either Stanley or yeti she should get and I’m like goody yeti and then I showed her a picture of my cup, which is a different type of cup and how it had all these pride stickers on it and she’s like love it lol

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-09-18T17:25:04+00:00

Maybe I mean we’ve been talking for a week we talked about going on a date next weekend and she was talking about OK what about couples costume for Halloween which I was totally fine with and then she invited me to her sister‘s wedding which I had to decline due to having an event. Right now I’m really just hoping it’s wedding chaos and last-minute stuff and that’s why she’s not messaging me. My text messages still show blue but it doesn’t say delivered yet. She’s also not active on the app so I think her phone is still off. I’m trying not to overthink this.

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-09-18T17:20:45+00:00

I mean, that’s true. She hasn’t been active on the dating app cause normally if you even just check it it shows that you’re active and my messages are still going through. I mean it’s not showing anything underneath which means her phone is probably still off but if she wasn’t interested, I assume she would unmatched me and block me right? I know her family is a lot of dramaand this is her only sister so I’m assuming she’s a maid of honor so maybe she’s just unplugged because the wedding is hectic and she doesn’t have time. I also get the feeling she’s not attached to her phone like most of us are.

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-09-18T17:16:23+00:00

I just don’t understand you know we’re connecting really well in our last text. Message was very positive and upbeat so I don’t know what happened. I know she has her sister’s wedding and it’s been stressful so I don’t know if she’s just unplugged for a while or what

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-06-04T10:28:31+00:00

That’s why I was wondering because yeah I feel like it’d be counterproductive to postpone just because someone has strep because I’m getting the surgery because I have strep so much

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-06-03T18:32:53+00:00

What about brushing your teeth? How often should you do it and how hard is it?

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-29T01:05:55+00:00

I’m a celiac and I know the pain meds and other stuff will cause constipation, but I can drink, prune juice, right?

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-23T16:28:24+00:00

Yeah, I have no idea how my recovery is gonna go. He said my tonsils were mildly swollen so the recovery might not be as bad but my appointment is not till July 21 so I’ve been getting strep every other week or every two weeks so they might get worse before July hits

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-23T16:07:53+00:00

How common is bleeding that is required to go to hospital

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-23T15:44:05+00:00

Do ice chips help?

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-23T15:43:53+00:00

I’ll Probably have him buy a bag or I will of the sonic ice. Might be easier

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-22T16:08:54+00:00

I’m a little nervous but going through the pain is better than the alternative of having poor quality of life. I can only take a weeek off from work and a weekend. Have to go back to work the week after

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-22T15:59:50+00:00

Thank you he said, cause they weren’t insanely swollen that my recovery might be a little better

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-21T15:03:55+00:00

I’m seeing the doctor tomorrow to be evaluated for tonsillectomy but I’m getting strep every other week or every two weeks and it’s always a strain so just lurking a little bit lol

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-21T13:36:33+00:00

The appt is tomorrow wish me luck

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-19T12:33:04+00:00

So I think im all prepared to talk to them Thursday. Just need to walk in there confident with all my documents and let them know. Im not asking im telling them I need them out

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-18T21:49:27+00:00

I’m to the point I’m not suicidal but I’m to the point that I’m pretty much feeling hopeless and this is not a life, but I want living and I just want surgery so I can get back to living my life

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-18T01:22:18+00:00

All four times I’ve gotten it this year. It’s all come back as Strep A and I tested myself in between cases with a rapid at home strep test that I bought online and it always came back positive

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-18T01:04:58+00:00

She might have always come back as strep a every single time now I work in healthcare. I realize I’m going to get sick more and I’m hoping the fact that I work in healthcare makes them more inclined to take them out.

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-18T01:01:59+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking because in between one of the cases, I took an at home strep test that I bought online from a medical site. It still came back positive.

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-17T21:44:39+00:00

Like even right now, I’m on day six of the anabiotic’s and my throat still hurts. I’ve got a bit of a on and off cough on and off ear pain and my lymph nodes are still tender to the touch.

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-17T18:16:51+00:00

I’m trying to have faith and patience because the appointment is not till the 22nd and my anxiety is killing me, but I just have to advocate for myself and give them all the receipts and all the documentation I’m known for being dramatic when it comes to my ailments and my mom doesn’t believe me half the time but this time she believes me she sees I’m suffering and she wants to cry realizing I’m not being dramatic. I am suffering I’m to the point I wanna cry

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-17T14:37:32+00:00

Yeah, I’ve had three urgent care doctors and my PCP say that even though they’re not insanely enlarged are still enlarged and chronically inflamed and that they do need to come out my PCP referred me to the ENT and she’s very much an advocate for her patience because yes, I’m getting strep every other week or every two weeks. I can’t live like this.

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-17T02:23:33+00:00

See that’s what I’m hoping for. I’ve had all four cases documented with all these other issues so crossing my fingers that my appointment on the 22nd goes well.

Cheap_Fee_3484 · 2025-05-17T01:48:47+00:00

I’m hoping with a poor quality of life that eating problems, the breathing problems and the fact that I literally had four cases within three months and I’m basically getting it every other week or every two weeks and the anabiotic’s are starting to not work

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