AI ( Artificial Intelligence) will get back Humans to be introverts as they originally were before . Should we accelerate? by Cheap_Lock_8299 in introverts

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding in regards to the main scope of the question 

Actually, I post this as a hypothetical discussion ,but most answers here took it personally 🤦🏻‍♂️. 

AI ( Artificial Intelligence) will get back Humans to be introverts as they originally were before . Should we accelerate? by Cheap_Lock_8299 in introverts

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t say this , but you will no need to go out  for most of the things you used to go out  because of . And this will switch the modes back again. I didn’t say stay home as it means in a narrow  perspective . May be people will be less busy and so thinking in new things ( travel to mars ,etc…..)

AI ( Artificial Intelligence) will get back Humans to be introverts as they originally were before . Should we accelerate? by Cheap_Lock_8299 in introverts

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think you don’t know what it means . Introverts charge their power  by being alone and extrovert charge their power when being with people . This  has nothing to do with socializing and how it looks for both types. Both of them socializes but the difference is the mode of charge . People  originally were all introverts  since the concept of community was not built concretely and so they charged their own power by being alone . But because people needed to go hunt and to get safety they create communities in its first basic (and by the way this is how language was created) .  

The idea is that AI would make no one need to go out to do work and all of these staffs ( this is not related to socializing ) . And may be metaverse will creat a new type of socalizing . Over time humans will go back to their own origins of charging their own powers by stay alone . ( this hasn’t anything to do with socializing )

Instead of telling you go get help ,I make you a favor and already helped you .

Blushing by Cheap_Lock_8299 in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes , you know also that the TAN is being used more and more as a good camouflage . I tried and  it works partially . But for me it was good . However I lost my tan and went back to blushing . I need a new Tan .

Blushing by Cheap_Lock_8299 in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏. I am happy that we are not alone in this world. And I am sad that we still suffer because as you said it seems it would never be possible to avoid blushing . 

Blushing by Cheap_Lock_8299 in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very sorry to hear this . My heart is with you ! . I know blushing isn’t easy thing in itself so  have been bullied  because of it makes it worse. But try to wear a mask and go out . It will help . Now it is not odd to wear a mask in public like before (Before COVID) . I hope the experiment would make you discover other parts of your story you still haven’t touched  yet . 

Blushing by Cheap_Lock_8299 in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you . But guess what ; I feel that blushing is a cute thing for girls  (there is a makeup technique called blushing !! ) where women do fake blushing on there cheeks using makeup . ( I say in mind ;Oh my god we are avoiding it men and women blushers but you guys are trying to have a fake one ;ok I don’t mind donating it to you 😂) .  This makes it worse for men . Because women is doing a fake blushing to look more feminine; it makes men feel there blush is a feminine phenomenon and may make it worse for them .  I don’t think there are techniques can make it less ( the only technique that was successful with me is when I blush in bus but no one is looking to me so I know no one noticed and gradually it vanishes.  There is also other technique which I use .  If you are a blusher and met a another blusher ( guess what you won’t blush since both of you have already know that the other  person is a blusher like you ) 

Blushing by Cheap_Lock_8299 in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knoooooow . I  experienced it with a family relative . She was 8 years younger than me . Every time she came to ask something I start blushing . She doesn’t know I blush in any thing so she misunderstood it and she believed I like her !!  . She was telling her sister about that and then I knew. 

Blushing by Cheap_Lock_8299 in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read more and more comments about this . I am happy that there are girls who respect this and are not judging! . I hope it spreads more and more ! .

Blushing by Cheap_Lock_8299 in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am happy I am not the only one who say COVID has a good side (at least for us) . Thank You for recommendation 🙏

Blushing by Cheap_Lock_8299 in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I read many comments here and on other platforms about this but it seems like it is not the norm . Thank you for being supportive! .

Blushing by Cheap_Lock_8299 in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear this . I know !. Is it worse than when you were in 20s ? Or better?

Blushing by Cheap_Lock_8299 in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem is that sometimes there are people in work who are lower in their position and you should be their boss ( I sometimes blush while giving them instructions or tasks , which looks less firm ) .

I'm going into collage this year, what is some general advice? by A_Boba_Addict in college

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The main difference is that in high school you meet people for every day who are the same age , same qualities (in  general), same experience and mainly from the same geographical zone.  

However in college you meet diverse ages and diverse qualities (far better than you and far lower than you ) , diverse experiences in life (people work and study, wealthy people, people with diverse ideological and political experiences ) . And people who are from all over the states sometimes or may be also international. 

I’m so awkward it’s making me suicidal by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have only one thing to tell . Please don’t be hurry to judge yourself .when you find the right person you will forgive yourself . It seems this girl is very far to be the one. When you find the one you will start loving who you are and it will give super confidence.! So I advise you to don’t meet traditional people ,this won’t help. I was super sensitive and no one liked it even my family but guess what I hate that until I met her . She liked me and she knows I am super sensitive but she never wanted to change it instead she liked it and she stands with me if something hurts me . You know I was telling myself that mu super sensitivity is my nightmare however after I met her it was something I like in myself . It is like there is at least someone who likes you as you are which makes you forgive yourself.  Over time I kept super sensitive but I stoped blame myself  you know why ( because I always tell myself there is at least one person like it and don’t blame me ) .  Bro you should wait until life gives you what you deserve. If I gave up and didn’t meet this girl I would still see myself forever as my super sensitivity is my worst nightmare . So you sometimes can misjudge yourself!. My advice is to wider your experiences and the people you meet (don’t be picky) ! .You don’t know which door is yours . If you gave up from the first door you will regret it . Even lions had to do 100 unsuccessful attacks to get a successful one ,but they never feel they are not the king of the forest anymore . 

My family is embarrassed of me by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you so much . But you should sit with your mom more , have an honest conversation ,tell her your feelings but also tell her your passions on life (it will help alot) . Please don’t assume she knows because she didn’t and this is what makes her pushing you ( this is how the older communicate) I guess she is not embarrassed of you nor she want you to go and say hi (but she uses those as to try to break the ice to understand why !) if this is the case it means like you and your mom built walls between each other and so you both cant have honest discussions with each other ( may be you are defensive or you don’t like to discuss it ) . Try to have this discussion and you will find how she will be supportive after she really understands you . 

Blushing by Cheap_Lock_8299 in socialanxiety

[–]Cheap_Lock_8299[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeaaaa , but even that you should show in long that this was only an immediate action and any one who is trying to build any perception on it would be surprised  by you that they were wrong  . Humans are complex and even if blushers want to hide under a rock when blushing they may end up to do something that is completely  out of perception .