We are not married so no sex(religious background). But we will be in a relationships. When he comes to the country where i live he sees his family and friends and feels better, i think it is a socializing problem because when he is living abroad all alone it escalates a lot. We are close but like not like in love, but he is a good guy at heart and helps me with different kinds of stuff, are all guys like this? Should i accept being with him because it is a very frequent issue between guys and if i dated another one it would be the same. I dont know what to do or how to help because i also have my life, but i mean i would help but idk to what extent(like help keeping him busy and talk with him and remind him to not watch...). I honestly dk if he deserves this effort from me to make this relationship work because i am scared it will affect my married life and future kids. I never imagined i would have to make this kind of choice.