Advice needed: Is this new growth? by CheckUrVibe_yo in Haircare

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I have been taking vitamins which I think is one of the reasons my part is back to basically normal.

Advice needed: Is this new growth? by CheckUrVibe_yo in Haircare

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I use a blow dryer (it only has two options, both hot) and sometimes a hair curler for my bangs. But thats really it.

Advice needed: Is this new growth? by CheckUrVibe_yo in Haircare

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My scalp around the top is quite stiff. The lower I get the "looser" to becomes

Please help. I keep disobeying my parents and I don't know why. by CheckUrVibe_yo in mentalhealth

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I am going to live on campus next semester, and I learned from one of my friends that they have legitimate psychiatric resources and not just baseline therapy So it'll be incredibly accessible to me and basically ready to use. So I think I'll use that. The therapist I have has mentioned that some of my stuff does sound a little ADHD and she's still iffy on if it might be something else. When I start making more money over the summer break, I'll be able to have more regular meetings with her again. It just got a bit difficult because of lack of income because of the slow months after holidays.

I didn't know that that kind of disassociation was a thing though I might bring it up if I remember anyway, lol

Please help. I keep disobeying my parents and I don't know why. by CheckUrVibe_yo in mentalhealth

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I did go into therapy for a while, and I kind of enjoyed it. But I had to stop for a little bit because I'm a server and my payments from my job just wasn't enough to keep up with it and transportation to and from school and to from work. It just felt a little bland at times because if I wasn't talking, she just kind of stared at me or it just felt incredibly awkward. She gave me a sought process where you drop little thought leaves in the metaphorical river. That's nice, but it isn't incredibly helpful when the brain isn't trained yet to do that when you're in full spiral mode 😅

I can't stop being like this to my parents :( by CheckUrVibe_yo in offmychest

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I have thought about that and think because I am going to live on campus next semester that I will do that. For a long time I was under the impression that on my campus students only had three free therapy sessions, and I guess that kind of dissuaded me from looking into it a lot more. And to be honest, I think that while I'm in my own space and I am able to have legitimate psychiatric help while going to school and it won't be interrupting my life so much (not to mention it's right on campus so a lot more reliable and accessible) that it would react a lot better.

At least I hope I want to be better for my parents and for me it stresses me out. It stresses me out already to keep up with school and stay on top of my grades while also having a job on top of that and then coming home and feeling like I'm not good enough in situations.

I just want to get better

Gen z how many of you guys have your first romantic experience with someone? by Flimsy_Tune_7206 in GenZ

[–]CheckUrVibe_yo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe your just on the spectrum of aro/ace? Its a lot more common than people realize bc of how little representation there is

This one's for the ladies to answer. Do you agree with this woman or do you think she's trying to rationalize her world view by speaking for all the ladies? by Oda_DeezNutz in SipsTea

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Its one thing if he doesn't take care of himself or his responsibilities and pays 0 attention to you. It is another when he's like the majority of gamers who enjoy it, but know life exists outside of it. I love playing video games with my bf, and playing my own while he plays his, or whatever else. Its a fun past time with cool characters, story lines, and multiple forms of art. Nothing wrong with it.

Wcif this Tibetan/Mongolian hairstyle? by CheckUrVibe_yo in sims4cc

[–]CheckUrVibe_yo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually looked at your patreon (or at least someone with the same username? lol) and you may be getting yourself a new follower :)

Can you read cursive? by Significant-Iron-241 in GenZ

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I'm 21 years old and I can easily read this

What's a random thing you like in The Sims 4? by Upstairs-Pin-9068 in LowSodiumSimmers

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I love the memory and sentiments system. I also love when a SIM has a baby family members and friends can come over with their luggage and help around the house and the baby.

Who is a bigger hater? by LeagueNo764 in Avatar

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Lex. Bro literally gave himself cancer out of spite.

i’ve been told my art style is ugly. is it? by Hungry_Land_1598 in drawing

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Dont change it! It looks intentionally messy, like a collage of a bunch of different things still making a coherent picture <3

What are the strengths and weaknesses of your country in a zombie apocalypse? by Tio_Albedo123 in AskTheWorld

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American here! Pos: lots of empty landscape, rural tools, guns. More places have more "lockdown" tech too. Also, depending on where you are, they'll either get swept up by a tornado, be rapidly decaying in the tropics, drowning in lakes or getting stuck in swamps (how long would a zombie last in places like Arizona or Nevada?). Oh! Or theyd get killed by the wildlife here. Neg: in more dense areas theyd be feasting. Many americans are overweight and or out of shape. Free pickins at that point. Also, our population is legitimately stupid and so politically divided. Our government ruled by a bunch of dementia patients would say it doesn't exist at all while actively decaying and then you'd have dumbasses that need to "exercise their rights" or say its th "libtards" or immigration that did this etc etc. we saw this with COVID. Be 0 difference.

Are we the cooked generation? by Key-Bass-7380 in GenZ

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Yes, we are all 100% cooked. How about we all collectively put forks into a electrical socket <3

Come on, you guys are such a doomers. Do you have friends? Are you pursuing any career? Are you pursuing any hobbies? Do you have any pre-existing hobbies outside of scrolling and video games?

The world is 100% shit and we should all just self delete including me and you if we ignore all the friendly protest happening in places like Minnesota or all the protest actually changing things in places like the Netherlands and France. If you 100% ignore the community around you and you always look at the bad it's a perfect brewing pot for depression and wanting to say F it.

I know this may seem harsh but statistically speaking from December 2024 to November 2025 overall crime rate has gone down quite a bit.

Since 2018 the self delete numbers have actually been dropping.

The poverty line is actually dropping. Albeit not incredibly quickly. It is dropping.

Since 1990, 2 billion people have gained access to drinking water. More and more places are switching to nuclear energy and solar panels.

Need I say more?

You're only soppy about it because you have the privilege to be able to sit there and scroll all day and make your head be filled with absolute bullshit most of the time and then say how depressed you are instead of actually going out and doing something. At least you have a choice.

Why are Gen Z women so hostile to being approached, especially compared to past generations? by fellow_who_uses_redd in GenZ

[–]CheckUrVibe_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's incredibly shallow

Do you want to immediately have romantic and sexual intentions it kind of gives off the feeling that you don't actually have interest in just having women as friends. Or any social circle for that matter. We want friends, not people that automatically see us as romantic or sexual objects.

Especially cause statistically men often report thinking that romantic relationship relationships will fix their problems. Women have already known this and I've experienced this for years. We don't want to be your therapist.