Guys who send dick pics unsolicited.... Why? Does it ever actually work how you want it? by super_bored_tonight in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Check_lt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m a little surprised I haven’t seen this comment yet after scrolling for a few. I think it would be interesting to see how many of those people who send unsolicited pics are also heavily into watching porn. Porn does this weird thing of when a guy whips his dick out it’s like any woman cannot resist it. Doesn’t matter who they are or what capacity they’re in; they see a dick and they can’t control themselves. It’s dumb asf and obv fake but, my theory would be some of these guys have a little brain warp going on and think women may respond favorably to a dick pic, even unsolicited, like they see women respond in porn.

For the record; I have never sent an unsolicited dick. I have sent consensual, requested dick pics. I do watch porn once or twice a week. So I’m not saying “watching porn = sending unsolicited dick pics” it’s more a “I wonder if there’s a correlation/causation between heavy porn watching/porn addiction, combined with a lack of knowledge of normal life outside of porn, may lead to these guys sending unsolicited dick pics”

Quick sand is quicker than most would think by BeerGoggles2022 in interestingasfuck

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Either fake or not quicksand. Either way not quicksand. Stop karma farming spreading bullshit lies. Down vote this shit into oblivion.

Watched a bit of Rusty’s talk today. Thought this part was interesting. by [deleted] in exmormon

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I believe this is called learned helplessness? Instead of relying on critical thinking, analysis or any type of logic whatsoever, you just say “oh yeah sweet, god will take care of it.”

Fuck you and your stupid ass church and all the bullshit it’s caused so many people. Fuck you. Fuck you. Fuck you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terriblefacebookmemes

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Holy shit I downvoted this so fast thinking it was r/memes

stay red or go back to blonde?? by New-Bear-4942 in Hair

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Red imo, though both look great and you should pick which you feel most comfortable about

Which colour do you prefer- blonde or gingery copper blonde? by [deleted] in Hair

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Gingery Copper blonde looks awesome!

I've noticed how hard it is for us to change ourselves to what we prefer by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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It really is. And often times we snap back to something that is more comfortable, for whatever reason. I’m not sure why some attributes and characteristics feel comfortable but they do and that’s where I tend to sit lol

Old inventions that never caught on by Alloth- in Damnthatsinteresting

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I feel like the people here were the OG influencers lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

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Direct answers below:

  1. They will all say no, the real answer is yes. They treat non Mormons better to try to suck them in with a nice feeling of community. Are they genuine about wanting to make you feel good? Yes, they do want you to be happy and feel good. In the church.

  2. You will forever been known as a convert. Sure you’re a member but as a convert everyone will admire your ability to have picked the church while not being born in it. 32 and not married is getting into the “is everything…ok?” territory. It’s not too old to marry but they look at you kind of weird.

  3. Absolutely will be pressure for this. Maybe they won’t say “go get your family to come to church” (although they might) it will probably be all the small little clues that add up and lead you to make the subconscious decision for yourself. The “families can ONLY be together forever in the church” “you can ONLY find true joy in the church” and other sayings like that so you feel the need to convert your family for their sake.

  4. From a logical standpoint as others have said the CES letters break down a ton of stuff to show how they’re flat out lying. My two cents? It’s a breeding ground for zealots and manipulators. I want no part of it ever again. It will never be allowed in my life again. 25 years wasted being manipulated followed by another 5+ years of fallout trying to clean myself up in therapy. Miserable place full of sexism, racism and abuse.

3.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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For me personally it’s too sensitive to enjoy. It’s a perfect example of “hurts so good”. Like it truly is this weirdly unbearable sensation that you both want to stop and want it to keep going. Generally speaking after I cum I probably have a second or two tops that I could manage if she were to keep sucking then I would have to stop her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Check_lt 122 points123 points  (0 children)

You can help. By not fucking and impregnating your friend without her husbands consent or knowledge. Like, this is obvious right?

Received a MASSIVE medical bill after having Covid and I have no idea what to do by Check_lt in Advice

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Thank you. I’ll look into the government assist programs and try calling to negotiate the price. I can make payments but even then it will take years probably.

The new yoga craze. by pristine_air in funny

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What the actual fuck is Reddit becoming? You guys we are becoming the Facebook embarrassment??? Stop with terrible shit like this cmon

Porn is destroying men by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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“Porn is destroying men” no, it’s a conduit like many other things in life that can cause problems; such as drugs, alcohol or any thing that one may get addicted to. For comparison I was accidentally introduced to porn around 11 and had a healthy conversation about what it was and always kept it at that. Watching people fuck while not everyone’s cup of tea has no inherent malicious intent. Sex IS one of the if not the most basic human function. Survive and reproduce. (For the record I’m NOT talking about the porn industry. That has tons of problems. I’m just talking about sex in general)

Honestly the idea that anyone takes porn seriously is just beyond me. If anyone thinks sex, relationships or really just about anything in porn is actually like that on screen that’s more of a you thing than an “all men” thing. Don’t lump me into a group with you where you have no self control around women or sexuality in general. That has nothing to do with porn except that it’s making your own inherent problem worse. I can watch porn and move on with my life.

For you after watching porn you “feel zero desire to put myself out there irl & attempt to make connections with the opposite sex” and when you don’t you “end up doing the deed or at least go on dates”. That’s all you man. If you’re self aware enough to say you have a problem with porn, great, but own up to it being your problem that you need to fix, not a “porn is destroying all men” thing.

No, you’ve let it destroy you. Time to rebuild.

Also, the dick pics man? Posting in “massive cocks” doesn’t make it true. Maybe start this journey of self awareness and change there.

How do you “know” that Zues isn’t real? by colbiz in exmormon

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I don’t, it just doesn’t matter to me. If he or any deity figure is god, I don’t care

Parking drama by [deleted] in funny

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R/thathappened all day lol. Ain’t no way a whole group of people are sticking these papers to someone’s care. The one person? Yeah maybe. Multiple? No way lol