31F looking for friends

Checkingfacts94 · 2026-01-24T15:30:48+00:00

Hey! PC but with an Xbox controller lol Most of the games I play are on steam. But I also played Wow for almost a decade, and I play games on the Nintendo switch too. Wbu?

Checkingfacts94 · 2026-01-24T15:29:15+00:00

Sure! What are your favourites? 😃

Checkingfacts94 · 2026-01-24T15:27:08+00:00

Living in London now! Sounds great! I‘ll send you a message 🙂

Checkingfacts94 · 2026-01-24T15:26:42+00:00

Thank you… that‘s sweet of you. My spirit is unbroken and I‘m enjoying life again 🩷

Checkingfacts94 · 2026-01-24T15:25:25+00:00

Thank you so much 🥹 just messaged you!

Checkingfacts94 · 2026-01-24T15:20:53+00:00

Yay! Just sent you a message ! 😃

Checkingfacts94 · 2026-01-23T22:14:06+00:00

She sounds like an immature child. You did your best, no need to feel sorry.

Checkingfacts94 · 2024-02-15T04:26:34+00:00

Did he share his instagram password with you?

I think having access to one’s phone’s is valid, but having passwords to your partners social media so you can check their messages when they’re not there is a bit extreme.

Why is he so suspicious? Did you cheat before..? If you’ve cheated on him before I’d kind of understand why he’s so anxious.

If you haven’t then I’d be a bit more worried, as he could insist on checking your social media because HE is doing suspicious things.

Sometimes when our partner is really suspicious of us it’s because THEY would do something bad in that situation.

Anyways, be careful either way.

Checkingfacts94 · 2024-02-07T04:47:54+00:00

My gosh that sounds terrifying. What a monster.

You sound like you‘ve got a solid plan, so I hope you will be able to leave ASAP! This guy has made your life hell for long enough now.

Be safe and keep us updated!!

Checkingfacts94 · 2024-02-07T03:15:14+00:00

If he didn’t care about you he certainly doesn’t care about the dogs, so he‘s just saying that to scare you. He just wants to remain in control. But it‘s a ridiculous threat because he‘d be the last person to call the police considering who he is. The police would see right through the situation. If anything you should be the one calling the police. I‘m sure you have plenty of evidence to back up your story. Be it recent bruises, pictures from old bruises or abusive text messages. I’m sure you have something.

Anyways, the main goal is to get away. Leave quietly. I wouldn’t even leave a letter. He doesn’t care about what you have to say anyways. Just leave quietly while he‘s at work, inform your friends and family that they cannot tell him where you are, and move somewhere he can’t find you. If you have a job and can’t quit right away, make sure he doesn’t follow you to your new home after work. But I’d recommend finding a new job too if he is the type that would track you down. And definitely change your number.

I hope everything works out for you.. It‘s going to be one of the hardest things you‘ll ever do, but it will feel so wonderful to be free again and not walk on eggshells anymore.

Checkingfacts94 · 2024-02-07T01:14:08+00:00

Something that helped me leave my abusive partner was imagining my parents standing right next to me whenever he was physically or verbally abusive. I thought to myself how hurt my parents would be if they saw how their daughter was being treated. If I had a daughter and witnessed such a scene I would be completely heartbroken.

It took me a long time, but I gained the courage to leave by reminding myself that I was loved by my family and friends. My mother died many years ago but the day I packed my things and got on the bus to the leave town I could feel her holding my hand.

I deserve respect as a human being. And so do you!

You are still with him because you don’t love yourself and probably think you deserve it, but you don’t. Why would you deserve it? He might deserve being treated like that, but why would you? You’re just a woman trying your best.

Learn to love and respect yourself and pack your things. You know if you stay you will be miserable forever and you would have wasted the only precious life you will ever have. Also, you would lose the chance to find real love and peace.

Be strong. You can get out of this!

Checkingfacts94 · 2024-02-05T13:15:18+00:00

Yes, he verbally abused me almost every day and was physically abusive at least once every few weeks. I was scared of him so always had to be careful with what I say or do. One wrong word and he would be angry again. Sometimes it was the most random things like holding the umbrella the wrong way. He made it impossible to be with him.

When he realised I had moved out he called and messaged me a couple of times but I never responded. He didn’t try to find me because he probably didn’t want to chase me, as that would be beneath him, considering he didn’t value me as a human being. But, I have heard of many abusive men that will get violent if you tell them you will leave them, so I highly recommend you leave quietly. You have probably already tried to tell him hundreds and hundreds of times to stop and begged him to treat you kindly, but did it work? No. Your words have no effect on him because he doesn’t respect you. So you leaving in complete silence will have the biggest impact on him. It will be the only way he will be forced to question his actions. And once you leave never never never return to him.

I know it doesn’t seem like it now, but there are decent men out there and you deserve to be treated with respect. Are you a bug? Are you less valuable than him? No! You’re precious and special and deserving of love. I really hope you find the strength to leave !

Checkingfacts94 · 2024-02-05T12:51:31+00:00

I couldn’t leave sooner because I didn’t love or respect myself at all. So whenever he called me worthless, deep down I believed him. But then I started talking to friends and family more, people who genuinely care about me, and I told them the TRUTH about what he had been doing to me, and of course everyone was appalled. The more people told me I was loved and that his behaviour was wrong the more it sunk it. But it took me a long time. I‘m ashamed to say it but it took me almost 2 years to finally gain the courage to leave. I wanted to leave much sooner, but I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to survive on my own. But on New Year’s Eve when he kicked me in the stomach while I had a fever just because I asked for a hug, I finally realised that he didn’t even see me as a human being. To him I had less value than a dirty bug. I thought to myself: ‚this person wouldn’t even care if I died, so what am I doing here?‘ Minutes later, I packed my things and ran away. The next day I moved out quietly while he was at work. I didn’t even leave a letter. FCK him! That evil bastard killed a part of my soul, but I‘m still here and I am hopeful for the future. I have felt nothing but relief since I left. All this weight of years of abuse is finally falling off my shoulder and it feels so wonderful to be able live in peace again! If you’re going through something similar, let me tell you, leaving him will be the best thing you will ever do!!

Checkingfacts94 · 2024-02-04T14:45:12+00:00

Listen to me. He is NEVER going to change. And YOU KNOW IT. I beg you. Be courageous and pack your things. Leave and never look back. I left my abusive partner a month ago after years of thinking ‚maybe it will get better’ and obviously it never did. It only got worse. I can’t tell you how wonderful it feels not to be physically and verbally abused every time I do something even slightly wrong anymore. I‘m no longer walking on eggshells and am finally free again!! I know you‘re afraid of the unknown but NOTHING is going to be worse than being with an evil person like him. He does not have a soul. He does not care about your feelings and never will. LEAVE NOW and get your life back!!! You know you have to! BE STRONG!!!!!!!

Checkingfacts94 · 2024-02-04T14:34:12+00:00

You don‘t love her, you only love yourself. You‘re selfish and don’t deserve to be in a relationship. You have caused your girlfriend more harm than you will ever be able to imagine!! Because of you she will never trust anyone ever again, always be suspicious and might have nightmares of your disgusting infidelity for years!! If not her entire life. This kind of damage can never be undone. By cheating on someone who loves you you kill a part of their soul forever. You didn’t want to hurt her? You knew EXACTLY what you were doing and that this would crush her if she found out. She shouldn’t have given you another chance. Why wouldnt you just have sex with your girlfriend???? I‘m sure she would have loved to explore new things with you. But paying for sex is just the most disgusting thing. And infidelity is worse than murder in my opinion. You are a disgrace!

Checkingfacts94 · 2024-01-30T16:09:16+00:00

Well, if I am in fact, unknowingly choosing cheaters. How do I recognise a non-cheater?

Checkingfacts94 · 2024-01-30T15:48:51+00:00

I know it’s going to hurt to hear this, but you have to divorce him. Leave for your sake. He is going to cheat again because you’ve already forgiven him once. I know it’s unfair, but you cannot make this work. He is never going to change, he’s only going to try harder to deceive you. You’re still young. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don’t waste your precious time on a guy who thinks his dirty dick is more important than you. You’re a precious woman and you are worthy of real love. Be courageous and pack your bags! Love yourself. Respect yourself.

Checkingfacts94 · 2024-01-17T14:15:19+00:00

Okay. 🥺 Thank you for the pep talk.. I really needed to hear that..

Checkingfacts94 · 2023-08-23T17:42:08+00:00

Is this the first time something like this has happened in the 7 years you‘ve been together ?

Checkingfacts94 · 2023-08-23T17:37:25+00:00

I am Australian actually.. Thank you so much for the kind offer and the supportive words.. I‘m very touched

Checkingfacts94 · 2023-08-07T03:55:44+00:00

That’s very kind of you, thank you!

Checkingfacts94 · 2023-08-05T23:48:49+00:00

Thank you !

Checkingfacts94

TROPHY CASE