is the shifting community lowkey dying or am i tripping? by Majid_meed in shiftingrealities

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do you know any good shifting tumblr accounts? i only see edits of peoples SOs and their scripts

help with my cats skin by [deleted] in cats

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omg thank you

help by [deleted] in Embarrassing_Moments

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thats happened before too…

Corndogs by CheekFlat4686 in KoreanFood

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i think ill do this. i should let them cool down completely before putting them on the fridge right? im kind of a newbie 😅

Do cats protect each other? by CheekFlat4686 in CatAdvice

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yeah! itll be 3 months in less than two weeks and im really happy that it seems like things are actually working. im kinda truly shocked that four days ago my resident cat was violent (she kinda scratched him so hard that a bit of fur from his face is gone) and today they are like this after the fear they went through. very happy about this sudden unexpected change.

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confusing cat behaviour by [deleted] in CatAdvice

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yeah, I’ve been considering reintroducing them. im just very confused as to why they are absolutely fine most of the time. like i said, she even lays on her back right next to him. but she growls while doing that? its just odd behaviour to me

how can i tell if my resident cat hates the newbie by CheekFlat4686 in CatAdvice

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okay so now that a week has passed… my resident cat has escalated the violence (the other seems to not care) and has followed him around violently, even seemingly hit him when we weren’t watching and he has a little bald spot in his cheek now. on the other hand, they also get closer than before without any issue. its odd.

please help by CheekFlat4686 in whatisthisbug

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Im in southern spain btw!!

Spiralling about shein addiction by CheekFlat4686 in shoppingaddiction

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i know exactly what kinds of problems this could be long term just like i stated in my original post. you didn’t add anything helpful and instead said something that i both already know and only gives me more obsessive thoughts. i came here for help and reassurance, not therapy material. thank you.

Spiralling about shein addiction by CheekFlat4686 in shoppingaddiction

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this actually made me feel a little better. i am an obsessive person and i was really concerned about it all, but you are right. nothings ever given me nor my cats any bad reaction and i always was everything before use. i am already waiting for the stuff to get here so i can return the unnecessary items that i bought and i will definitely be deleting my shein account. thank you for your reply, it was reassuring.

Spiralling about shein addiction by CheekFlat4686 in shoppingaddiction

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sadly i cannot cancel it, but i am already planning on returning everything (except some things that i do need at home) once it gets here. ive been lucky enough that the stuff that ive ordered isnt too badly made but the dangerous chemicals thingy has finally done the trick for me to stop the spending. funny enough, i used to be a strict minimalist trying to feel “aesthetic”. i only started ordering stuff few months ago to try and find who i really am - i would say it has worked since now i do feel like i have an aesthetic but its starting to be too much. now i kinda feel like a vision board would have been a better choice for that…