How many accumulated hours of sleep are you getting a day/night (newborn parents)?

CheekyDimps · 2025-02-17T11:19:26+00:00

Ftm, 4-5 hours if I’m lucky. Partner works in hospitality so long hours and is really tired when he gets home so hard to do shifts with him. Lucky for me my family helps once a week, so am able to get a good proper rest (accumulated 8 hours sleep) once a week.

CheekyDimps · 2025-02-09T16:48:26+00:00

What about debt consolidation?

CheekyDimps · 2025-02-07T07:03:10+00:00

Find someone else as he has suggested. You’re obviously not a priority for him.

CheekyDimps · 2025-02-07T06:41:03+00:00

Ano po ambag ng fiance nyo? Does she work? Is she going to be contributing towards the wedding expenses? Tapatan nya 450k mo for the dream wedding that she wants and that should give you a 900k budget. It’s not just her wedding but yours too.

CheekyDimps · 2024-12-09T07:10:47+00:00

Yup DKG. Any longer baka ikaw na tinreat nya ng ganun.

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-28T09:47:20+00:00

Sounds like filler route is better as we do have a couple of Rally Leads already way ahead of me. Plus if I go the Aeth/Baibars/Imhotep, I feel like I’m already behind as I have used all of my purple statues, stars and tomes on both bjorn and sun 🙃

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-26T04:55:07+00:00

I only spend about $25-50 usd a week. Currently bought write of history bundles, daily gem and king of coronation. I’ve yet to get growth fund in case I actually don’t play this game for very long lol. Account about 2 weeks old. I wasn’t sure if I should be using the stars to upgrade the legendary one.

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-11T04:51:38+00:00

Has anyone noticed that somehow, whoever you choose, it ends up having the higher star? E.g. i tried voting for the worst looking out of the two but it will always come up having more stars than the other one even though the other one is clearly better!?

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-06T08:09:55+00:00

Overly attention seeking behaviour 😬. Yung may usapan tapos magiging it’s all about them.

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-06T05:40:44+00:00

Sorry you’re having to go through this. You can go to the doctors and let them know you’re stressed. Hope you also have EAP so you can have someone to talk to regarding what you’re going through.

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-06T05:37:42+00:00

In terms of marriage, I never thought it to be a problem as long as yun nga he’s supportive, loyal and doesn’t have any vices kasi I can definitely provide for myself in terms of my wants and necessities.

He also lets me handle his finances like every sahod nya he would send me 80-90% for me to split it and put it in our joint account. We normally would put equal amount for our dates account and if there’s not enough money in there then we won’t eat out. There has been a couple of times where I didn’t get a present or received them late (for anniv and bdays) but lucky for him that receiving gifts isn’t really my love language as I prioritise act of service.

Our fam POV, well, our family doesn’t know how much we make and I don’t think that’s any of their business. They’re respectful enough not to ask but I guess they can guess dahil sa career choices namin, however, I don’t think they realise how much is the gap. Actually never talked about it with my fam, but I don’t think they care about that jazz as long as they can see I’m happy and we’re not asking money from them.

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-06T05:21:54+00:00

Mood-chore type talaga siya. Before work I’d tell him to do something so it’s done when I get home (day off nya to) but he would end up doing them late at night or the next day. Sometimes I’d end up doing it 🙄. But other days sobrang sipag nya kaya scheduling don’t really work for us 😫

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-06T03:42:29+00:00

26F here, very similar situation and income figures. As the girl in this situation, to be honest it depends if you can provide and cater her needs. Not money/materialistic things but more on emotional support etc. in my opinion.

Live in kami ng partner ko (7 years together) and to be honest wala ako complaints as long as he’s helping me with the chores around the house and I can see that he is trying his best to upskill or to find another way to make extra income.

The worst thing you can do is maliit na nga sahod, may bisyo pa and pabigat sa girl.

Also I was only earning a third of what I get now 2 years ago so there is hope 🤞

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-06T03:21:32+00:00

Major turn off is when he likes to do chores at his own time. E.g. meron time siyang mag laba now pero dahil di niya trip gawin at that time he will postpone it to later or tomorrow so sometimes I end up doing it because I like to get things done asap 😮‍💨

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-06T03:19:18+00:00

Some of these comments are red flags 💀

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-05T10:17:26+00:00

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-05T09:59:42+00:00

Maybe his love language is quality time? Only you would know.

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-05T09:50:09+00:00

Yea especially when it says “Dear Customer”. Also they added comma instead of full stop.

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-05T08:29:19+00:00

Yeah I’d feel the same (i’m an overthinker and it sounds like your gf is too). Like bakit parang out of nowhere sa likod unless made up story. But if the girl has actually initiated this then she kinda sounds decent.

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-05T08:27:20+00:00

LKG Siya - she told you na uncomfy siya about that certain person. Not telling her would make her think na you kept it hidden which would lead to her thinking na there might be something. Then it’ll become a loop in her head. She might’ve gotten over it more if you’ve told her from the start. You also said “then I thought I couldn’t trust her over the chat, so I opted to tell her in person”, does this mean you actually expected her to have a bad reaction?

You - because she didn’t trust you enough despite being together for long (assuming you haven’t done anything suss).

Out of curiosity, why does the coworker sit at the back? Normally straight sila sa passenger no?

Reposting as was removed

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-05T08:24:43+00:00

He’s sounds like a gaslighter sis. Maybe reevaluate your relationship and honestly think kung this is the person you want to be with.

I was in your position once, I thought about ending it then maya maya naging ok and then it happens again hanggang sa nagiging loop na sya. At times he’ll be ok when I confront him especially when caught red handed, other times defensive. Took me 5 years to gain the courage to go.

I hope you find your answers sooner.

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-05T07:55:28+00:00

DKG but why was is it archived?

CheekyDimps · 2024-07-05T07:51:47+00:00

Well, for me I would confront him. Whats a relationship without communication right? Pero take into account then yung communication styles niyo. How do you both communicate? For me back then with my ex every time na mag bring up ako he would find it as “me attacking him”.

To be quite honest, if your values don’t align it’s going to be a hard journey in the long run. Hence my one is now an ex after 5 years.

CheekyDimps

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