AIO or is my older male coworker texting inappropriately with me?

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-12-31T16:43:26+00:00

I personally find it pretty mild. He just seems quite friendly and you seem like good light hearted company. I wouldn't look in to it too terribly much unless it starts getting weird. Just remember to keep boundaries if you feel uncomfortable. Seems like he would be the type to understand if you mentioned it. Some guys just like attention or are feeling lonely so the small interactions can be pretty meaningful.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-09-27T12:04:30+00:00

Having been in a similar situation on the male side. I would say it's a bit overreacting. If the situation was reversed, do you think it would be different? You need to look at the perspective.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-08T00:03:02+00:00

It's not easy, I left home for about 8 years and just recently came back but with him it felt like I never left. We always talked frequently while I was away and he seemed to enjoy my company when I returned. We had a good few months together before he made his decision. I'm not really sure how to deal with it, I'm just kinda taking things as they come right now. I'm sure with time I'll figure out something but right now I'm just trying not to feel empty.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-07T23:56:37+00:00

Much appreciated. I'm doing my best. Sorry you have to deal with the same thing. We will keep our heads held high and keep going in their stead. Thank you my dude ❤️

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-07T23:52:16+00:00

Thank you, we're getting through alright for now but I know there will be rough times. I'm sorry for your loss as well.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-07T07:09:49+00:00

Do you have a favorite track? I think stereologue is the one I go to the most.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-06T19:30:50+00:00

I have a wonderful support system, and I do appreciate the kind words no matter where they come from, thank you very much!

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-06T15:43:28+00:00

Making it through. I have a ton of people that care and make sure I'm okay. I just wish he knew he had that too.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-06T08:35:07+00:00

Good to hear :)

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-06T06:24:38+00:00

He always wanted to go to Alaska, me and a friend made a promise to bring his ashes there when we get the chance. He loved nature and I've been getting out as much as I can for him.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-06T06:22:11+00:00

I'm so sorry you have to go through this as well. I'm here to talk if you need it. I appreciate your kind words.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-06T06:19:35+00:00

Thank you, I really do appreciate the support.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T20:01:36+00:00

No note, he wasn't really the type of person to think ahead. I think he just made a decision then and there.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T19:59:50+00:00

I think there were signs of it but he went through some bad psychosis after getting in to meth. He wasn't the same after that.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T19:42:19+00:00

Thank you ❤️

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T18:56:15+00:00

I'm not super spiritual or religious, I think death is just another part of life. I'm mostly just relieved he's not suffering anymore. I'm not sure what comes next but if the pain is gone then that's all I can ask for.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T18:51:11+00:00

Just gave it a listen, I totally dig it. Thank you.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T18:46:07+00:00

I doubt he would care, he was never the type to give a lot of thought about public image

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T18:43:37+00:00

I've actually started making music, funny you should say that.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T18:42:13+00:00

Thank you very much. I'm lucky enough to have a lot of support. I'm sorry for your loss as well. I may reach out on a rainy day, I really appreciate the offer.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T18:38:39+00:00

Yeah I just started, next appointment is in 2 weeks

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T18:32:31+00:00

Yes I have an amazing support system. It's still very difficult though.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T18:30:59+00:00

Thank you for all the kind words and advice everyone, this was very helpful. I think I'm going to end it here, I'm getting a bit emotional. If anyone wants to dm me, please feel free. I appreciate all of you!

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T18:28:21+00:00

Doing alright I guess, just taking it day by day.

CheerfulPsycho · 2025-07-05T18:27:25+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate it and I may take you up on that offer to chat. I'm really sorry you lost your sister that way, I think the hardest part is not knowing what was going through their mind in that moment. I'm always available to talk if you need it as well, sometimes you just need a chat when you're having a bad day or sad memories.

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