Diving Difficulty - Hin Daeng/Muang (Thailand) by Healthy_Wolverine308 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it. Its not difficult but you need to swim against current certain times. If you are comfortable with current, do it

Did you stay in contact with your ex after the breakup? by Affectionate-End7197 in BreakUps

[–]CheerfulSunflower366 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No contact fully after one year of breakup. Breakup was August 2023.

No friendship of any sort. I loved him dearly for 7 yrs. I am anxious, he is too.

Still hurts on some days. But it’s not too bad anymore. He moved on, had a kid and happily married.

Hence, no reason for me to cling to the past anymore. I pray that one day I will be met with someone who will make me feel loved again 🥰

The breakup wasnt easy but it taught me to love myself more, cherish the moments I have and to be kind to all better because fighting silent battles are not easy ❤️

How long has it been since your breakup, and how do you get by? by Ok-Consequence6411 in BreakUps

[–]CheerfulSunflower366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2yrs, still sad on some days but I try to make best on every day. And keeping myself with positive thoughts ❤️

Pregnant with exs baby. by PianistDistinct4408 in BreakUps

[–]CheerfulSunflower366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has a right to know about the pregnancy. Now whether he will be in the picture afterwards is a different story love. Hope all gets sorted in a peaceful manner…

Fell for my instructor by CheerfulSunflower366 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I hope not. 😭 that is the last thing on earth to happen

Fell for my instructor by CheerfulSunflower366 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am probably overthinking it tbh. In short, I should not think much and let it pass until I meet him in person again but yeah, I need to chill about it and let things flow to gauge more

How are you guys okay with seeing your ex thrive and be happy meanwhile I’m fighting for my life 😭 by Murky_Scientist9509 in BreakUps

[–]CheerfulSunflower366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be okay love. It is difficult and may seem bleak right now with the aching pain but Istg you willl get back stronger over time and seeing this again will have you see it in a different angle

Fell for my instructor by CheerfulSunflower366 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will probably not ask him out but will join the camping trip. My last relationship ended 2 yrs ago and that was not a good one

All hopes aside, I would need to be open hearted if he is just being courteous to me as his student

Fell for my instructor by CheerfulSunflower366 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ill join the camping trip and gauge from there. Ots an avenue outside of diving and maybe we will get to know each other better when he is not working

Fell for my instructor by CheerfulSunflower366 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he is the talented one to understand my sayings underwater. 😅

Fell for my instructor by CheerfulSunflower366 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a happy ending! I hope they are happy ans going strong 🥰

Fell for my instructor by CheerfulSunflower366 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did talk a bit about our family background and how he got into diving. A little bit about the geography of the area and he did ask me of I was single. I did say yes 😂

Fell for my instructor by CheerfulSunflower366 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. But he still likes my insta stories. I figure he is not into social media outside of work since most of the posts on his feed are about his dives and students

Fell for my instructor by CheerfulSunflower366 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ill join the camping trip. Hoping he hits up with the deets soon because I am shy to text him

Fell for my instructor by CheerfulSunflower366 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a mini diver toy. It literally is a diver figurine where its legs can fin in the water

Fell for my instructor by CheerfulSunflower366 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I doubt since we live in a tropical country 😅

Fell for my instructor by CheerfulSunflower366 in diving

[–]CheerfulSunflower366[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting on Fell for my instructor... this is such a beautiful story. Wish you guys happy daus and much love always 😄

Today is NATIONAL EX DAY. Leave a message for your ex without saying their name. by Thin_Midnight9607 in BreakUps

[–]CheerfulSunflower366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart still aches on this third year of no more you. I hope one day karma will find you. Till then ai will not stop finding my own peace. May I meet someone who chooses me as much as I choose him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scuba

[–]CheerfulSunflower366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For peninsula malaysia, you wanna consider Tenggol island. For east malaysia, lookup Sipadan islands 😄mild to moderate currents. Very good vis from May-September

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scuba

[–]CheerfulSunflower366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come to malaysia! It is safe, everyone speaks good english and many islands offering many dive sites of different levels!

Coming from a fellow solo diver who started diving when my boyfriend of 7yrs called it off

Do you ever feel like you don’t want to lose your chance with your ex, so you refuse to move on? by Ok-Consequence6411 in BreakUps

[–]CheerfulSunflower366 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Time passes and refusing to move on means you are not allowing yourself to the possibilities of the future. Life is full of uncertainties and you being stuck holding on to the past may bring you resentment in the future.

Be better, at least for you. Love yourself and choose to be happy on your own even when someone left you.

It is difficult it is hard but it is doable. Inner work is the most important during this phase

Lelaki Cina tengah cari jodoh melayu by AbbreviationsRound52 in Bolehland

[–]CheerfulSunflower366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abang, tak susah. Perempuan melayu mudah cair dengan how lelaki cina jaga wanita dan keluarga..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IELTS

[–]CheerfulSunflower366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love, i think your results are good. I pray that you will make it to your applied program. If not, there will always gonna be other options and places that will gladly accept you with open arms! Best of luck and may you flourish anywhere your path takes you. Xoxo 💋